Franky and Ballas have been good friends since childhood, and now they are classmates and are on the same swimming team. Both have their own girlfriends. Franky and Ballas often fight and fight together. The relationship makes their girlfriends feel envious when they see it. However, something that happened after Franky's birthday party changed the lives of each other drastically.
Seeing the first 20 minutes, I thought it was a regular routine movie, but the more I saw it, the more I was attracted by the plot of the movie. I have to say that this is a good movie worth watching. If you are in adolescence, you will have a deeper understanding of the changes in your body after watching this film; if you are an adult, watching this film will make you feel like you have traveled back to the past; if you are the parent of adolescent children, After watching this film, I can communicate with my children better.
Analysis of Franky's father: In the first half of his life, Franky's father was no different from the people around him. He was born—schooled—employed—married—had children. Until he met the man who made his heart beat, from the conversation between his father and Franky later, we learned that his father and his current lover met through the company's business. Then one day, the man asked his father to have coffee. The father asked if it was a company business or a private matter, and the man answered that it was a private matter. From the way the man looked at him, his father knew that he was interesting to him, and then he refused when he asked him out again.
But after going back, Franky's father would often think of that person. The more he suppressed this emotion, the stronger he missed it. Finally, I took the initiative to ask that person out again, only to realize that I really fell in love with the other person. After returning home, he confessed the matter with Franky's mother and divorced peacefully. After marriage, they still bear the duty of raising their two children. At that time, Franky’s father had two choices: first, he could choose to suppress this emotion, and if no career happened at the time, he would continue to live with his wife and raise two children; second, he could choose to confess to his wife. And get the forgiveness of his wife and children, and be with the person who makes his heart move.
Before listening to Luo Fatty's program, I talked about it in one issue. What is a choice? Both options are good for you, or one is good for you and the other is bad. This is a good choice. The really hard choice is to choose one of two choices that are not good for you. Franky's father faced such a choice. Let's analyze first, what if Franky's father chooses the first one? In this way, Franky's father had to suppress his true thoughts for the rest of his life. Even if this emotion is really suppressed, it will not disappear, but it will enter the subconscious, and it will not be noticed temporarily at the conscious level. However, because the level of consciousness rejects this kind of emotion, this kind of emotion has to disguise as another face and appear in consciousness, and it will also produce depression, anxiety and other emotions. This will not only endanger your own health, but also affect the relationship with your wife, and it will be received by sensitive children and have a bad impact on them. If Franky's father chooses the second type, it will undoubtedly be the wife and children that will hurt the most. If it is not handled well, this bad influence will last a lifetime. But in the end, Franky's father chose the second one and tried to fight for their forgiveness to minimize the damage.
In the movie, Franky's father also said that he had never liked a man before meeting his current lover, and he was not a homosexual. I married Franky's mother because of love, and I have Franky and his sister. Leilei also believes that Franky's father did not lie. I always think that there is no extreme homosexuality or extreme heterosexuality in the world. Extreme homosexuality and extreme heterosexuality are like the left and right ends of a coordinate axis, and most people's sexual orientation is at a certain point on this coordinate axis. So there will be some people who have never felt that they are gay before, but after experiencing some things, such as love blows, etc., they will fall in love with the same sex.
Analysis of Franky's mother: Franky's mother was unfortunate. She met Franky's father and fell in love with and married with him, and then had to divorce because of his father's homosexuality awakening. But from the scene where Franky's mother went on a blind date and went on a date, she has slowly come out of this injury. I hope that in the second half of her life, she can truly live the life she wants, without being affected by past experiences.
Ballas analysis: Ballas grew up in a normal family. He and Franky have been friends since childhood, so he is very clear about Franky's family situation. Since childhood, he must have heard a lot of things that were bad for Franky's father, which also subtly affected Ballas' cognition. Feeling that homosexuality is bad is to be spurned by others. When you find that you also have homosexual tendencies, this influence will work, and then the things you will do to Franky will happen later.
Analysis of Ballas's sister: Ballas's sister had a very serious traumatic experience. This experience was known to others for some reason. Not only did everyone not sympathize, but fell into trouble. She became a target of public criticism. Because of these, her relationship with her brother is not very good either. When Franky was framed by Ballas and became a target of public criticism, the two injured hearts slowly approached and warmed each other. Under certain conditions, combined with similar experiences, this feeling is likely to disappear as the scar heals.
Franky's analysis: When Franky's father divorced his mother, Franky was still young, so this incident has a great influence on the little Franky. Since childhood, he hated his father, and there has always been such a consciousness in his brain that it was his father who abandoned the family, his mother, his sister, and himself. Therefore, he will attach special importance to the friendship or love he meets. And he hates homosexuality in his consciousness, just as he hates his father. But after experiencing a series of things, he slowly accepted his father. When my father had a conversation with him, he said something like this: I suggest you pay attention to who you are attracted to, instead of worrying too much about what kind of label you are labeled. Leilei thinks this sentence is too good, and it is also given to those who are troubled by this matter.
Don't label yourself lightly, go with the flow, and follow your inner guidance.
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