We sing. We dance. We steal things.
This is what youth should have. the attitude
you have had this experience:
seeing the lively crowd will know what to do, knowing what
we lofty wine and song and you're in their own little corner of the nest and freely their opinion on the new and old friends rave Zhitian
knows how hard you want to try to integrate into the social circle in front of you, but every time you end up in vain and leave sadly, no one will pay attention to
one aspect. You always feel depressed when you are alone. Lonely and helpless, wanting to shout loudly, be heard, and understand.
On the other hand, you stubbornly resist anyone entering your world, pretending to be a totally indifferent calm posture, and deceiving yourself again. Every time I said to myself, "Everything will be okay, I just need a little time and a little adjustment."
Without your own opinion, you can't say the refusal and then you are dragged by friends and classmates to participate in various activities that you didn't intend to participate in. In the end, without any suspense, you ended up with the joy of your friends, but you stood aside the whole time, like a marginalized outsider who was squeezed out, indifferent and helpless
. I am used to being ignored and ignored, and I am completely numb. I no longer want to be cynical and complain about the world and others. I only want to bury myself in my own few topics and things that I am interested in. How sad to entertain myself. What's
more terrible is that not only the external troubles are not eliminated, but also the internal worries still exist.
Because you are not social, you always have secrets that have not been confessed and unbearable pains in your heart
. The grief of the death of relatives and friends, the loneliness of the lack of a close friend, the sadness of having a crush on fruitless, the contempt for oneself, the curiosity, suspicion, fear and hatred of the world
I don’t know why I came to such a life, and I don’t know how to say goodbye to everyone with a smile.
You are like a wall flower, growing twisted in a dark corner.
This flower has never been bathed like other adolescent individuals with public personality. I fearlessly enjoy the sunshine outside, so dark and sharp barbs grow out. As an alien, it exists in this disharmonious land
until the house is finally torn down. People only see that year.
How cruel and sad the wallflowers that grow backlit are withering in the ruins .
If you have had a similar experience with the above part, then you must be able to see your own shadow in Charlie played by Logan Lerman. The
movie begins with a long shot of driving at high speed in a dim tunnel in the evening, which is symbolic. This means that this feeling of depression, melancholy, and confusion is like the adolescence that every teenager has to go through. It is in the transition period of growth and the node of the initial sound outlook of life, values, and world outlook. Feeling that the future is bleak and the way forward is too dark to see clearly. The
hero Charlie is a typical high school freshman who lost himself in adolescence. His personality is already shy and introverted. He has encountered major setbacks such as the death of his aunt in a car accident and the suicide of a close friend. The incomprehension of the world and the suspicion and denial of self made Charlie increasingly autistic:
from the first day of school, he had not expected high school life, but counted down how many days are left in his mind. I can get free from graduating from school and
go to the literature class. Facing the teacher’s questions I have a clear mind, but I dare not raise my hand or even raise my head to make any eye contact. I just quietly write the correct answer in my notebook. Charlie’s talent, I am afraid that Charlie will go far on a wrong road.
When eating in the cafeteria, like the Karen family in Twilight1, he always sits in a corner far away from the crowd and eats his own food. Reading his own book is either excluded or completely I can’t intervene.
Every day after school, I go back home in despair, but what I see is nonsense such as quarrels between my sister and boyfriend.
"You see things, you keep quiet about them, and you understand. "
This is the true portrayal of Charlie's whole person state, a handsome boy who makes people feel distressed and regretful.
Fortunately, Charlie met Sam (played by Emma Watson) and her gay cousin Patrick (played by Ezra Miller) in a ball game by chance. In the process of getting along with them, Charlie gradually began to learn to socialize, try To open the door to my heart and try to live out my own
story. At this point, the story has not entered the audience's expectation. "The melancholic youth walks out of the shadows and sees the sun again." Charlie did have both mentality and behavior after getting to know Sam and Patrick. There has been a positive change, but in fact his cowardice and indecision have not been eradicated. He still has not been able to get rid of his destiny as a wall flower:
all kinds of party dances can only hold a glass of juice and stand silently against the wall. All kinds of peers on the dance floor cast envious and helpless eyes when
playing Truth or Dare. When playing Truth or Dare, they were able to talk about the mountains vigorously by knocking on the illegal drug powder, which attracted the favor of many female classmates. After the drug woke up, they could only do that back I am incomprehensible,
facing Sam’s active showdown and confession to kiss, obviously I have feelings for her, but I always passively participate in this passage like a wooden person in the ambiguous relationship with Sam. emotion. Finally, this crush fruitless, why would also face questioning Sam can only sigh when a Remembrance into its own when not actively chase reunion
......
Charlie is not reborn, but not completely out of autism Trouble:
At least, he still clumsily participated in the Rocky Horror reality show
with his friends . He was kind-hearted and coached Sam to study SAT and finally helped her get into the ideal university in his mind.
When Patrick was ridiculed and stumbled in the cafeteria after being abandoned by his gay boyfriend, Charlie’s bloody side finally broke out. He learned how to fight injustices and stand up for his friends, instead of repeatedly evading
Charlie when he was in the company of friends. When guided to enter a new life trajectory, the author and director waved Charlie back to the original point again, and even stepped back to the starting point in the darker abyss.
The day of graduation finally came, and friends also have their own responsibilities and go to their own futures to chase themselves. I
don’t know if anyone reading this article will have such an illusion at the moment of separation like Charlie, that is, we are familiar with many years of classmates, but you are about to stand in front of me and say goodbye. The distance between them is really far apart, like we have never known each other before. It's really unacceptable. The affection for a few years has been lost in one time. After hugging and saying goodbye, maybe it's true that the parties will never contact again and will not meet
. Charlie, who seems to have been integrated into the social circle, is actually only Sam and Patrick. A friend, nothing more,
without their company, and all the haze from the past began to rush into Charlie's heart wantonly: the death of aunt, the suicide of a close friend, the tension of classmates... Charlie schizophrenia will all the sources of all misfortune. It was all due to his incompetence. He began to consider and bear too many things that shouldn't happen at this age. Depressed and became ill, he chose to commit suicide like all people suffering from depression and mental illness. After attempting, he was left in the hospital.
The reunion after taking care of him for a long time became an opportunity to unravel Charlie’s heart knot in the true sense. Charlie’s indifferent feelings and a change in perception of his own family have emerged from Charlie’s looking back.
At the end of the film, Charlie learned about Sam. When passing through the tunnel, sticking out the front of the car and spreading his arms to embrace the world, when he read out the inner monologue word by word, there is no doubt that Charlie has completely walked out of the long and dark blocked tunnel at the beginning, and is about to gallop in full of blood and hope. the Shining Path
We. are. Infinite. worth a thousand words
Next, I want to briefly talk about the
role of Sam played by Emma. First of all, as far as the character itself is concerned, it is too beautiful to be described by the word amazing. The powerful aura exuded by Sam is the most transformation of Emma from Hermione in Harry Potter. It proves that the styling of short hair is as capable, rebellious and charming as the two Lancôme perfume advertisements she filmed before.
The social queen character of the school girl also represents a considerable number of people in real life: their appearance shows maturity. And exquisiteness, completely different from the fragility and hesitation of their peers, they are always the hottest topic in the circle of friends, they are the center of the world, the darling of God, it seems they will never be so perfect as the fireworks of the world, never will There will be no troubles and no sorrows.
In fact, when you really walk into the heart of the character of Sam, you will find how hard it is to put together and disguise the toughness with such a strong face and laughter. You are experiencing toughness every day. In the fragile cycle, the front of the person behaves impeccably and comprehensively, but the queen can’t even find a real close friend, hugging tightly and crying.
In fact, it’s not easy for everyone. They often feel that they are about to be unable to live on. others see the glamorous side newborn aspire aspire
corner too fast green moss always
remember slowly crawl up
a cup of hot coffee
drink some stubborn that
we have been the last to learn to
cry when who comforted
grow people feel tired
already there is no way back
I also want to talk about the role of Patrick. Miller undisputedly dedicated the film's most talented, most tense and most shocking performance. The role of Patrick is not only unforgettable because he is a fearless gay youth, he is truly precious. Quality is his kind heart that treats others honestly and honestly. In short, he is another type of person in our lives. It seems sloppy, full of scorn, bad and unreasonable, but once something happens, he will always be no matter how big or small something happens. Rush to the front and carry it down and deal with it thousands of times more reliable than any moralist.
Finally, I want to say that almost everyone will encounter the trough period, the dark period, the confused period and all kinds of negative emotions in life. You will feel helpless, desperate, lose the motivation to continue living and even have thoughts of committing suicide. At this time, you will feel helpless and hopeless. , Live well, time will prove that there is really nothing you can't live through.
When faced with such a special period, if you can spend it with a close friend, guide you, listen to your heart, give you comfort and give you strength , That is the best thing. You are lucky. These friends are definitely friends you should treat with sincerity throughout your life. It is worthy of your gratitude to them forever.
If you have no choice but to go through it alone, the same is true . Remember, don’t give up, no matter how lingering in this world, as long as you are still alive, you will still be able to see the sun rise again, and you will still have the opportunity to rediscover the value of fighting for it and dedicating your life. Target. This is a very sad hurdle, but once you take the first step bravely and choose to face and challenge, then from now on there will be no difficulties that can make you fear and cringe. In the end, you will be unforgettable. Rebirth from the painful experience.
Friends who are familiar with me know that I had an experience of extreme autism and depression in the middle of the year. It is no exaggeration to say that it is exactly the same as Charlie in the movie. Participating in social interactions, not knowing how to get out of my own small world, and being tortured by the haze that flooded my heart every day,
I couldn’t understand why I lost all the ability to read, write, communicate, and love life in a moment, and I don't know how the months of time passed in a muddle
My mother took me to see a psychiatrist. I clearly remember the doctor who said to me earnestly, "My child, you are great, but you are really pursuing perfection. You are not allowed to make any mistakes in what you want to accomplish. , it will never get out alive. listen to me, to vent their own two months, do not do anything high strength, had a good rest for two months, everything will be OK. "
after I was hearing these words more Treating myself as a patient, after returning home I just went crazy and wanted to find books, read articles, write and find things to prove that I was not sick, but the facts proved that all this was in vain and I couldn’t concentrate anymore. It
is really difficult to do anything to get out, because there will be a paradoxical dilemma:
in this special period you can’t see, hear, cannot think, but you must find enough in reading, music, and social interaction. Energy and motivation help you get rid of autism.
According to my personal experience, I would like to say that the best way is to face the facts, face yourself honestly, and face others to
admit that you are flawed is definitely not cowardice, but to grow more. Strong preparation. Only truly emptied himself, to be able to see more and see farther, go more to re traveling light welter
there will always be a time, makes you want to scream, to sing, to dance drunkenly
there are always some time, you will have your own confidence, to friends, relatives, lovers gratitude, full of hope for the world
We sing. We dance. We steal things. this is the attitude of the youth should be bursting out
My dear, dear friends, please keep in heart,
Nobody will blame you for being who you are, they blame you for pretending to be someone else.
I want to help you through everything, so that you don't have to go through what I had gone through, but sometimes life don't allow us to take the short cut.
Just remember, I'll always be here for you. Believe me, everything will be all right. After
watching this movie, I personally really feel very touched, so I want to write
something to share with you. If you can find your shadow from any of the three people,
then finish watching this movie After the wallflower boy, you will surely shed tears and stand back in the world in front of you full of energy and courage.
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