The daughter asked, what is the real wish?
I thought for a moment and gave two examples. Just like the historical story you saw, Mingxi Zong Zhu Youxiao was a carpenter who had been obsessed with knife, saw, axe and paint since he was a child. He was skilled, and ordinary skilled craftsmen couldn't compare to him. If Zhao Ji, another emperor of Song Huizong, devoted himself to the study of calligraphy, he would definitely be a calligrapher with a long history.
Oh, the real desire of these two emperors is not to be emperors, but to be carpenters and write letters. The daughter seemed to understand.
Until last night, I rushed to watch the latest release of "Pocahontas" and found that this Disney's latest fantasy music film better answered my daughter's questions.
In the
film Follow your heart and intuition , three-year-old Moana goes to the beach, and the sea automatically separates to make way for her, sending her beautiful shells. Do you believe in such miracles? I believe. Because I like something, there will be a voice in my heart telling you.
Moana has loved the sea since she was a child, and she hopes that one day she can leave the tribe and explore the outside world. However, her father has been expecting her to take over as the next chief of the tribe. Fortunately, the wise grandmother said that goals can provide you with a way forward, but the wrong goal will lead you to the abyss. Be sure to follow the inner voice.
Moana had also compromised. She followed her father's teachings and worked hard to become the next chief. At the tribal council, respond appropriately. Learn how to become a strong leader, protect the tribe's people, and ensure their prosperity and well-being. However, when the crisis came, Moana's true desire was revived. She sailed out to sea and braved the wind and waves. The true desire has a strong internal drive, allowing a person to "self-ignite" and detonate a person's life like an engine.
Therefore, as parents, we try our best to let our children do what they really like, enter the realm that they are really good at and love, and then they will become the "chosen person", if there is divine help! As Kahlil Gibran said in his poem: Your children are not your children, they are the children born of life's desire for itself. ... What you can give them is your love, but not your thoughts.
Jobs said more clearly: Follow your heart and intuition. Yes, you have to listen to your own voice and listen carefully.
Cherish talent and let a firm heart absorb infinite power.
As a teacher, I deeply realize that some children do have the talent for knowledge learning, some children have specialties in sports, some are good at art, and some love music. . For example, why Tiger Woods became the prince of golf has its talent. In an interview with Fortune magazine, Buffett said: I was born to know how to use capital.
I have been in contact with many families, and the most failed family education is to raise a child who is not growing up. Often there are children in grades 5 and 6 whose schoolbags are still packed by their mothers. When you forget to bring homework, call and blame your mother. What's more peculiar is that my mother apologized softly. Such children do not regard learning as their own business, so how can they understand their own talents?
We must know that there are some roads that require children to walk on their own. It is the biggest responsibility of parents to help children find their true self as soon as possible and be responsible for themselves. Just like Moana, her father carefully taught what she knew about the knowledge and skills required by a leader. Although she did not follow the path arranged by her father, her father’s phrase "Nothing can't be solved" became Her conviction. So later, when she encountered several blows on the sea, she would quickly think of a way to turn defeat into victory.
Of course, talent is one aspect, but it is not natural to do something better, and you will be able to excel. Encourage children to find their own interests, the second step is to inspire his belief in persevering hard.
In fact, just like a family, as an educator, you must also help your children find what they are really good at and like, silently follow the heart, sharpen and accumulate in time, and finally have a brilliant burst of day.
Be yourself, you can be happy in the future
After watching the movie, in fact, what shocked me the most was not the new Disney princess Moana, or the demigod Maui, but the volcano demon evil card. The evil card that exists as the ultimate boss has always been a mystery, responsible for promoting the tension of the film. Eka once defeated Maui, and Maui lost the magic fish hook. To complete this "serial mission", Moana must defeat the evil card at the last level to return the "Heart of the Sea". However, at the end of the story, when Maui tried to fight to the death, Moana saw the inside of Eka-it turned out that she was the goddess of the ocean, and she became a demon because she lost her sincerity. Without the true self, God will become a demon. The Illuminati will become darkness. The so-called dark power originally came from here. This is the deepest meaning of this movie!
Moana's voyage is to find herself, a pathfinder.
Maui’s adventure is to find himself, the hero of mankind.
After the return of "Heart of the Sea", Eka found himself, the goddess of the sea, the source of bright life.
When Moana returned to her hometown, the self-sufficient and reclusive Moturuni people found themselves, the free navigator.
They have found themselves and are loyal to themselves, and they have obtained the pass of future happiness.
For us, life seems busy but not necessarily because of loving what we do. How many children are depressed in school, and their hearts are stained with dust; how many adults are exhausted and burdened. Many people even suffer from mental illness and eventually self-harm and commit suicide, which is regrettable. How can such "dark power" be dispelled by the light?
Because we don’t know what we really want, when we encounter various choices, especially major academic and career choices, what school to go to, and what job we do, we are not happy for the freedom of choice. On the contrary, it is like a shackle, no way to start, adding pressure. After all, it's because we don't know what we want.
As my favorite cartoonist Cai Zhizhong said, "I think a person should choose what he is best at and like the most, and then go all out to make it the ultimate, nothing is unsuccessful."
So, from the movie theater When I returned home, I watched my daughter make a wish. I hope you understand what you want as soon as possible and live your life the way you want.
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