Melvin, a man with obsessive-compulsive disorder, has to wash his hands with two pieces of soap, is open-minded and does not care about the inner reaction of others, every time he gets home, he needs to lock up 5 times. He is such a comprehensive personality and has become a best seller. The book writer, being able to portray the women in the storyline so vividly, can make fans fascinated and intoxicated, which seems to be inconsistent with his terrible state of reality. What exactly is this for?
Obviously, those who can become "home" are basically people who have attainments in certain industries and have certain qualifications. So how they become "home", of course, is that they have invested considerable time and energy in this aspect, thinking that this is their most important thing, and thus neglecting the time spent with people around them, and they are unwilling to spend their precious time. It is wasted on adapting to others, then gradually the character will be separated from the surrounding people and reality. Over time, they indeed become "home", because successful people are often very purposeful, so they get their dreams. Lost reality. People don't have so much energy to do things that require a lot of energy on both sides, just like a balance, as long as there is a slight deviation in weight, it will continue to tilt to one side.
Therefore, these "homes" have their personalities and goals that make them such people, and it is also the reason why most people in our reality cannot become such people. "homes" are like eagles flying in the vast sky. It's very high, so we can only look up. Even if we want to be that kind of person, we won't really act, because we will comfort ourselves as unrealistic. And many of these highly accomplished "homes" are breaking away from the shackles of reality, pursuing true individuality and freedom, and indulging in their own world.
They just don't want to compromise, and just want to be who they are, so they tend to be at odds with reality. Of course, they don't care about the outside world's perception of themselves, because they have things they think are important to do, so they find it difficult to get along with them. In fact, it's just that they naturally manifest themselves after choosing this path, and they have the same thinking as our natural thinking that we want to think more about others in reality, but the path they choose is different.
If you want to be one of them, then you have to get used to this kind of personality and lifestyle. After all, people’s energy is limited and it is difficult to balance reality and dreams. Consider which path you want to take and stick to it. Therefore, the existence of "family" is not caused by accident and talent, they are all chosen to bring about the outcome in the future.
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