Laugh and cry

Esmeralda 2021-10-20 17:30:27

A loser.
A straight-hearted female loser.
She once had a bakery, and the ghost knew why it closed.
She once had a boyfriend, and the ghost knew why she broke up.

In this rushed era, everyone does not care about the process, only the result.

What else does she have? (This is the most common way to comfort people. You have lost some, but you still have a lot.)
She has a very good figure and a good look after retouching.
So she has a glamorous dating object, but she just doesn't want to publicly admit this relationship (what's this, no string attached).
She also has a very good friend who grew up with her since she was a child. Fortunately, when she was at the lowest point, she wanted to go and could only go to talk to her best friend, but the best friend was about to get married.

Your difficulties are never the responsibility of others, especially someone who is immersed in hope and longing. Happy people have no reason to bear your grief. On the contrary, you should try your best to play the role of sharing the joy of others.

So she was carrying the financial crisis and emotional crisis, enduring grief, fighting spirit, smiling, and eager to plan a friend's wedding. But she can't bear it, or because losers are generally simple and strong, she can't bear it.

Seeing the sweetness of others, she couldn't help but think of what she had lost. Temporary her behind the counter, sit and watch as a gift to come pick unmarried couples, he asked: "do you love each other? " The pair then Tucao love couple tired together: ". Good, but it goes "
lost A lot, afraid of losing more. Meeting the social queen in the social occasion of the wedding engagement is the opposite of her own style, exquisite makeup, funny and humorous, perfect family, and impeccable. Everyone loves the social queen, but she just can't stand her good friends who like it as well. When she is jealous, she gives others the accusation of being pretentious and does not hide her dissatisfaction.

Can't bear it, it's a very serious matter.
Everyone looked at her good friend’s extravagant and flashy pre-marriage preparations (of course hosted by the social queen), and looked at the exquisite or even thoughtful wedding gifts prepared by the social queen, and they might be thinking "good fake, good waste, good dress." Forced". But they all clapped in a circle and smiled and praised. Only she couldn't help but yelled to her good friend, "Nima, can you not be so fake? Are you fainted? Are you crazy if you let such an idiot help you perform such idiot rituals? Are you still you? "So he was kicked out of the bridesmaid club decisively, and by the way, even my friends were lost.
When someone stands at the counter, it is nothing more than looking at the customer’s face and picking what the customer likes and saying that she has to tease the little girl who wants to pick a gift for the best friend: "are you sure she is your BEST friend? It goes." "no it will not, she will "Be my best friend all my life" "How old are you as a kid, and you know what friendship is" has made people irritated, and even lost their temporary work.
Because she couldn't bear it, she drove away in a gorgeous sports car on her charming date. She didn't even have a spare tire.
For similar reasons, her shared roommate kicked her out, and she didn't even have a place to live.

She became a complete loser. But what is wrong with her? There are so many similar scenes, do you want to swear when you meet them? Many people who are so similar, don't you want to complain in person? But why not?
Life is very realistic. Everyone walks around in a courteous shell. You can bear it, you are awesome. You can't bear it, you are like her.

But this is still a movie without suspense, she is the protagonist. What is the setback, everything will be fine. What is the trough, there will be a climax. Otherwise, why should I watch this movie? You think it's all "Music under the Red Roof". I just want to know how the turning point happened. It turns out that the light and glimpse are the passing of others, and the process is still very important to myself.

So I saw the social queen crying to confide to her, revealing her inner helplessness and real loneliness; I saw that she was appreciated by others and made new friends; I saw her smiling warmly and lovingly. Her cop; I also saw her and her good friends let go of their previous complaints and opened up. She is still her number one bridesmaid, and she has no regrets to miss the perfect moment of the sky full of fireworks.

But I still don't hate this movie, because I thought about it for a while, and what it says is not the real finale. The social queen is occasionally vulnerable because she has asked her. Turning around, she is still the perfect social queen. It may not be possible that the two will meet each other in the future. It is very likely (it should be) that you continue to be upset and I am upset to you. And what about the new friends she made? In essence, she is a stigmatized and isolated obese girl, and also a loser. She has no new job and the financial crisis has not been resolved. Regarding the relationship, as we all know, cop is not a rich job. The protagonist smiled and helped the heroine open the door (still a police car), and took her home sweetly. Does this show that the relationship can blossom and be fruitful?

She has not changed, so this is not an inspirational film. If she continues the "cannot bear" character, her life will still fail, and the restored friendship between her and her good friend will continue to repeat. Because people's lives are going forward, you have to ignore your little sadness and melancholy after frustration. And the seemingly happy ending mentioned above (I personally understand it) is because Loser's life is also relaxed, but it is not the end when it goes up and down. It's like I have forgotten most of the plot of "The Silent Lambs", but the scene where Hannibal hangs up and disappears into the vast sea of ​​people is not deliberate but just remembered. At that time, there was a deep coolness in my heart, this kind of coolness will not fade in time. It may tell me that when you think that worst time is gone, there is still worst time behind. If crying is the norm in loser's life, during the intermission of a tragedy, it should also be a smile and tears.

I don’t like cold weather. Every day, I am filled with the swooshing wind to go to school on the serra road that can’t reach the end of the ride. Suddenly I remembered the afternoon of March 17th. The sun was very good. I leaned on the window glass and lazily looked at the scenery outside the highway, the green grass buds, and my heart was full of joy. I thought that By the time summer was already here.

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Bridesmaids quotes

  • Rhodes: Do you want to tell a cop about it? We're just like priests except we would tell everybody afterwards.

  • Rhodes: If I wasn't a cop anymore, I would still go out with a gun and shoot people.