Yes, "Oh, are you here?"
No, no.
Remember to ask: Are you married?
The protagonist is a person who flies around all day to help others get fired. He gives lectures and publishes books occasionally. In the eyes of others, he is also a successful career. He is not at "home" for more than 300 days a year, but he never gets tired of it, and those things in the family make him feel trivial and boring. "You escaped from our normal lives," said the mature and sexy woman.
He hit it off with her and had a tacit understanding in all aspects, and when he encountered a downturn in his career, he found that he needed a long-term partner. He took her home to attend his sister's wedding, shared with her the memories of his childhood, and shared the joy of the lives of relatives. She follows, accompanies, helps, smiles... Everyone thinks they are a perfect pair-he thinks so too. In the end he had the courage to knock on her door, perhaps planning to propose. But I guessed it: She is married and does not need to reorganize a family. She just loves his dissociation, and he wants to stay, but she is at a loss. Once they talked sweetly on the phone, but ended up doing everything on the phone.
Sorry, the user you dialed is married.
Such examples can be considered widespread in today's society. Many married people get bored with their marriage for a long time and have the idea of "holiday". They do not intend to change the status quo, nor may they take the initiative to "forage for food", but just covet some of the freshness and ease of escaping from their original life temporarily.
He and her are a balanced combination: one does not want a stable love life, does not want to be restrained, and the other needs a temporary free relationship, and only wants to enjoy the "vacation" in marriage. He fell in love with her, so he lost. It was a complete failure.
I just want to feel heartache for this poor fellow. He was determined to overthrow his previous life theory and want to live with the one he loved, but he was hit by such a blow, and he was still not confused. It is possible that from then on, the old man truly despaired of love and marriage.
In fact, you can identify people who do not intend to enter your life in this way:
1. He does not mention or rarely mentions his own growth experience
2. He does not talk about his current family situation
3. He will not introduce you to his family and good friends
4. His love for you is always ambiguous
5. Almost Regardless of their deep feelings about things,
the person who really wants to be with you, he will share with you-not only share happiness, but also share pain and confusion. The so-called partner is like this, no matter whether it is cloudy or sunny, they will walk hand in hand. So if there is such a person who knows how to appreciate your strengths, accommodate your shortcomings, and open his heart to you; and you can also feel the real warmth and sweetness, then even if he makes some stupid mistakes, please Forgive him, because this person really wants to live with you.
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