Therefore, the more this is the case, the more Magret must speak at the crucial moment and leave, in order to seek peace in his heart.
She didn't love Andrew before, so all tricks are nothing, and they won't cause conscience. The restlessness afterwards was for Andrew, his family, and the true love in my heart, and myself.
The cutest aspect of this demonized superwoman is that she has a candidness. When she realized this, she said these words decisively. It is love, it is not love that can no longer be disguised. Let us face to the truth.
Maybe she didn't have the courage before. I also found Andrew without any explanation and even used inducements to let him act as a "fiance", an iron lady style, without any consideration of other people's feelings-as long as it is beneficial to me.
And true love will change a person.
When true love comes, he/she may suddenly learn to think about others—before only for themselves.
This makes a question that has been entangled in the past few days suddenly has some answers:
how to judge what is "love" and what is "need"?
somebody said: "Do you regard need as love?" Yes, sometimes we think we are in love with someone, but we just "need" him. Need his care, need him to deal with food, clothing, housing, and transportation, need him to encourage and praise, need him to act as a facade, even more straightforward... need his money, house, car...
Why can we no longer feel pure love?
Because it's not love.
That is the need.
I am thankful to realize this. I understand that don't lie to myself for "needs" as "love".
Then came confusion. I know what "need" is, but I don't know "love" anymore. What is love?
If I "need" someone, I feel terrified and I shouldn't. But in a person's life, may he "need" others for the rest of his life? Thinking of it even more frightened, isn't that closely connected with loneliness?
Is it possible that "need" and "love" are at the same time? But how to judge?
Watching Magret's transformation made me suddenly realize that "love" may be something in the opposite direction of "need": love is to meet the needs of others.
When I don’t love you, I only know to ask for, ask for, ask for... But when I fall in love with you, I know it will hurt you, hurt your family, hurt the feelings between me and you (although hazy, but subconsciously She will feel it), so let's stop our scam.
I think this may be Magret's mental trajectory. When she told the truth, a stone in my heart in front of the screen also fell to the ground. The truth is so good, the truth is so beautiful. In fact, facing the facts and acknowledging the facts are also connected with a person’s ability to love. No one who is not confessed will love.
Only for this, narrate my gains.
View more about The Proposal reviews
