It’s the things that we can’t choose that make us

Kimberly 2021-10-20 17:25:43

It is the things that we cannot choose that make

us unable to choose our parents, the place where we were born, the neighbors around us...the things we can choose are actually very few.

What if you can choose again? Are you very happy? It should be.

If you want to deprive you of this right later, let you return to the original state? Are you sad? Even in the eyes of others, it would be sad. Angela, who was unable to plead, did so, and so did the audience who saw the two silently sitting on the sofa at the end.

But we will be sad only because the fate of the little girl has had a turning point. If this is not the case, people will never know that there is such a person, let alone feel sad for her fate. But whether we understand, we don’t understand, whether we are sad or not, we are still made by things that we can’t choose.

Therefore, there is no need to imagine if I could choose other at the time, if I chose other at the time...In any case, we are all created by things we cannot choose.

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Gone Baby Gone quotes

  • Officer in Procession: [approaching Patrick and shaking his hand] Mr. Kenzie. Nice fucking job on Corwin Earle.

  • Patrick Kenzie: I'm calling state police in five minutes. They'll be here in ten.

    Capt. Jack Doyle: Thought you would've done that by now. You know why you haven't? Because you think this might be an irreparable mistake. Because deep inside you, you know it doesn't matter what the rules say. When the lights go out, and you ask yourself "is she better off here or better off there", you know the answer. And you always will. You... you could do a right thing here. A good thing. Men live their whole lives without getting this chance. You walk away from it, you may not regret it when you get home. You may not regret it for a year, but when you get to where I am, I promise you, you will. I'll be dead, you'll be old. But she... she'll be dragging around a couple of tattered, damaged children of her own, and you'll be the one who has to tell them you're sorry.

    Patrick Kenzie: You know what? Maybe that'll happen. And if it does, I'll tell them I'm sorry and I'll live with it. But what's never gonna happen and what I'm not gonna do is have to apologize to a grown woman who comes to me and says: "I was kidnapped when I was a little girl, and my aunt hired you to find me. And you did, you found me with some strange family. But you broke your promise and you left me there. Why? Why didn't you bring me home? Because all the snacks and the outfits and the family trips don't matter. They stole me. It wasn't my family and you knew about it and you knew better and you did nothing". And maybe that grown woman will forgive me, but I'll never forgive myself.

    Capt. Jack Doyle: I did what I did for the sake of the child. All right. For me, too. But now, I'm asking you for the sake of the child. I'm begging you. You think about it.