The gully is always there, but you don't want to cross it

Kenyon 2022-09-26 23:12:01

Mr Darcy once said to Elizabeth Bennet "I've tried for a long time to calm my feelings about you because if we got married there would be an obvious difference in pedigree, but at last I realised it was all about you." It's a futile effort." The affectionate confession was answered by Elizabeth, "You want to tell me that you have overcome your pride, responsibility and principle to love me, so I should be grateful to accept it? You can't see this How insulting is it?" This was the first confession of the two, and they both hurt each other proudly. Although at the end of the story, they still live happily together, but after many years of marriage, does such true love still exist?

The Pemberley Murder attempts to answer that question, as the BBC pays homage to Jane Austen's great work on the bicentennial of Pride and Prejudice. The married Darcys are planning a grand dance, but are interrupted by a murder. The culprit is still the same Victor, who brought shame to the family, this time he becomes a murder suspect again, and Pemberley and his master are once again in danger of ruining their reputations. But murder is just an appealing gimmick, and implicit in it are the elements that best represent Austen: class, morality, honor, and, of course, love.

Although she has become the respected hostess of Pemberley Manor, Elizabeth can't get rid of her own knot. She knows the disparity in the status and wealth of the two families, understands the compromises made by Darcy, and cannot forget the high society at the ball. Reproach and ridicule, and also remember how embarrassing the shallowness and nagging of his mother was. As smart as she is, how can she not understand that married life not only depends on passion to maintain, but also requires reason and patience to make concessions to trivial family life; independent as she is, but also always worried, Darcy's love for him will be consumed in these complexities By then, their lives could fall apart. Murder is already worrying, but the graceful Colonel proposes to Darcy's sister, Georgiana, the pompous man who thinks this is the time for him to show his chivalry and save the fate of his family. But he never thought about it, the Darcy and his wife disagreed on this matter. Darcy was a traditional, rigorous, and aristocrat who attached great importance to family responsibilities. I am afraid that marrying Elizabeth was the bravest and most out-of-bounds thing he had ever done in his life, so he naturally wanted to She chose the right marriage for her sister, but Elizabeth was disappointed. She thought that her husband had forgotten the importance of love, and only focused on maintaining their so-called "class matching." Perhaps in her heart, Elizabeth was more afraid of her husband. Having regretted his original choice, he returned to the ruthless Darcy who put his family first. "You don't even bother to know your own sister's true heart!" This complaint is more of a reminder to believe that true love has the power to melt class differences.

Speaking of it, "We are people from two worlds." I am afraid it is the most indifferent and unfeeling of rejections. It cuts off all possibilities and isolates all opportunities. Even if someone is lucky enough to break through the obstacles and be combined, like Elizabeth, they will always feel like they are stuck in their throats, and from time to time, they will come out and sting people's nerves. No matter how the times change, the difference between lovers will always be there. It just appears in a different way, and the tormenting couple is still suffering both physically and mentally. For this reason, there are many people who work together. Mr. Darcy is well aware of the importance of following social norms, but he still chooses to listen to his own heart; although Elizabeth has prejudice and pride, she still cannot refuse the attraction of her heart. They have gaps, they will experience ups and downs, but they will sacrifice for each other And compromise, from the outsider's eyes, who said that it was not the result of the joint efforts of the two? Love is never omnipotent, problems will arise, difficulties will always be annoying, everything depends on whether you want to solve it. In the story, Darcy and Elizabeth ultimately choose to trust each other despite their disputes and misunderstandings.

Just as Darcy told his sister: "Marry for love, marry the person you desire most, and when you meet that person, don't doubt him, not for a moment!" Love is always admirable. It is courageous love to swear to death. On the other hand, even though there are thorns ahead and you are clearly afraid, you still choose to move forward and are still willing to find a solution. In fact, it is more courageous love. This is a universal truth. Whether it’s falling in love, making a plan, or even chasing a dream, we all need to take risks and sacrifice. The traveler feels remote and hard. But once you taste the lusciousness of it, anyone will understand that all the previous efforts are worth it. The chasm will always be there, and at first glance, it can be daunting, but fortunately our choice is simple - either cross it, or be swallowed by it. You think you can't get over the hurdle, but you admit defeat, that's all.

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