Growth, that's what it is.

Giuseppe 2022-12-12 11:09:59

"Honey", another Turkish film, is the third part of the custard trilogy. I haven't watched the first two, but the third one can also stand on its own.
Various film reviews are narrated in a comprehensive trilogy, summarizing Joseph's life, and a lot of time passing sentimentality, melancholy, art, philosophy, and so on. I think this is a film that parents should watch. Film. Look at how to get along with children in a family, build trust and how a child grows up.
Joseph is a smart, introverted and even a little autistic child. He stutters when he is nervous, so he doesn't fit in with the group at school. When the children are playing, he always looks at the window with his eyes wide open, so the teacher put it as a reward in the fish tank. When the number of little red brooches became less and less, he mustered up the courage to read the story, but the result instead attracted laughter from his classmates. . . In fact, this is something that every child has experienced, being ridiculed by a whole bunch of people because of this or that problem. I remember when I was in elementary school, the teacher asked everyone to record a text that they read aloud. I recited "Guilin Landscapes" and recorded it on a tape full of intoxication at home. When it was played in the class, all the students burst into laughter. You think you are full of feelings, but you can't get the understanding of others, huh, in fact, it's not someone else's fault, let alone your own, it's just that we appreciate and understand things differently, although everyone needs to experience when growing up You won't understand this until you grow up, and Joseph is also brooding about it, and he has become more silent.
Fortunately, Joseph has a pair of parents who love him and understand him, especially his father, who should be like many children, the father is the child's idol. Dad was a honey picker and was in bad health. He knew Joseph was stuttering, but he never forced him. He lay in bed and listened to Joseph reading the calendar, encouraging him; he put Joseph on his lap to change his shoes; When Joseph didn't like drinking milk, he secretly helped him drink the milk and blinked with a smile; he led Joseph to the mountains to gather honey, and told his son the story of each kind of flowers and plants in a whisper along the way; he let Joseph participate Come to his work, in fact, this is something every child desires very much; he whispers to Joseph, so that the child does not stutter and can speak coherently; he refused the last time he went up the mountain to gather honey Take Joseph on the grounds that you need to take care of your mother at home.
As for her mother, Joseph rarely communicates with her. She cooks nutritious food for her children, knits sweaters in her spare time, never forces her children to drink milk at every meal, but interferes too much in their world. , In some people think it is irresponsible, but I think this is the valuable part of the mother, this is the performance of respect for the child, even if her child is only 6 years old.
The hard work of his parents brought a neat home, practical appliances and abundant food, and Joseph lived a simple and peaceful life. However, everyone knew that such a good day could not continue to the end of the story, so the unfortunate thing happened that Joseph's father fell from a tree and died while gathering honey. . . And this autistic boy finally got the last red brooch in the fish tank. Ironically, he still stutters when he reads the story. This brooch is more for sympathy. . . At first, the child didn't know that his father was gone, and he also gave the little wooden boat that his father made for him as an apologetic gift to the same table. Although there is nothing left of his father, he has been raised into a strong child! He grew up quickly. When his mother was sad, he drank bad milk in one breath, because his father told him to take care of his mother. . .
So, this is what I want to say, even if a child is young, he still has his own ideas and world, don't interfere too much, learn to respect; he also has his own responsibilities and obligations, only the child understands that he also has Only by taking responsibility can he grow up!
You always ask me: Mom, why do you have to work?
I said: It's the same as going to school. Sometimes you don't want to go, but it's your responsibility and obligation. Going to work is also the responsibility and obligation of your mother. Both of us need to continue!
I like this film. It has a calm and steady narrative, no blood, no violence, no rhetoric, no good or bad reviews. It just tells the story of this poor and ordinary family with Joseph's big eyes, but it is touching and full of warmth! There is no big reason of philosophy in the film, it may be a problem of understanding, I just want to say that this is the story of growth!
It is recommended to every parent to see what we should be able to give our children spiritually when the material is rich enough!

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