This movie was recommended by Yang Miaofei-Mi Niang on Weibo, and saw her introduction "The Perfect Housewife" is based on the poet's memoir in memory of her mother, "How My Mother Raised Ten with Less Than Twenty-Five Words" Adapted from "A Child", those with postpartum depression should watch, those who think their husbands are useless, those who are tired of complaining all day long by a child, and those who are irritable because of the child's wrongdoing. Different people may have different impressions. "I watched it without hesitation. I want to know how powerful a woman can be in the face of children.
In the process of watching the movie, I kept thinking, ten children, one unsatisfactory husband. If you have such a life, how long can you last without breaking down.
There is a saying that "a woman is weak, but a mother is strong", and her inner strength can be seen in the film. She wins advertising competitions by her talent and luck. She is persevering and doesn't give up every opportunity. Faced with a group of children who are still living in an orderly manner, she devoted all her time to bring up the children one by one and send them to different places and different occupations. In the face of her husband's narrow-mindedness, she is still tolerant, and she strives to maintain family harmony. Although the children are not satisfied with their fathers, she still stays with her husband.
Although her life is an extreme situation now, there are indeed many mothers who have brought up many children alone in the past years. For example, my grandma has 6 children and my grandma has 5 children. They have raised all of their children, and they are all very successful people. At that time, there were no conditions, and it was difficult to eat and live, but they still brought out so many brothers and sisters with their perseverance. Nothing but admiration.
I have a child and a good husband. We each have an income. We don't have to rely on luck to win prizes. Parents help to take care of the children during working hours. Compared with them, my life cannot be better, but, I still always complain. I complain that my kids take up a lot of my time, that my husband doesn't earn as much as others, that I don't have good luck... should I?
The process of my child growing up is also a process of constant reflection for me. I often wonder how I can accompany her while raising my child and improve myself. In Wang Xiao's time management class yesterday, someone asked her how her mother with children manages time. She said that in fact, the time with children is also a time to practice concentration. I never thought about this. I'm always absent-minded when I have kids. Look at your phone and think about something else. Never focus on the present, to experience the fun of raising children. Maybe, if you devote yourself to playing with the child wholeheartedly, carefully observe her every move, and experience her happiness, you will also enjoy it.
The first habit in "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" is "being proactive", which can be used in the life of housewives. Only by being proactive can we complete tasks more efficiently and happier. Different mentality, different efficiency in completing tasks. I immerse myself in the child's world wholeheartedly, and I may develop the same curiosity as her, understand her better, and be more involved in her growth. In the process of taking my child half-heartedly, I wasted time and did not bring any benefits to the child. due responsibilities. Especially now, if only one child can't be brought up well, compared to the past case of a mother taking care of several children, how weak one's ability should be.
After watching this video, I am suddenly very satisfied with my current life. Someone helps to take care of the children, I have a husband who does not spend money, and I have free time to work. What else is there to complain about?
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