About reorganizing the family, about the will of others. "Just leave me alone, I also have my own freedom." "What are you doing, remarrying? You knew from the beginning that it would hurt me, right? But I still tried my best to accept it and try to live a stable life with you. However, you told me not to force a smile, how do you want to force me?" "My mother too, she left me and left, and now she says she wants to live with me." Children's minds are extremely sensitive and fragile, infinitely so, so is Luo Qiqi from "Those Young Times That Can't Go Back". After being neglected, neglected, abandoned, and changed hands, I have learned to no longer expect and desire warmth and attention, and even feel uncomfortable, overwhelmed, and fearful. Facing the intimacy and warm care of others , they already have their own small world in their hearts, an independent, parallel and beautiful small world. They have lost the ability to interact normally, to build intimacy with these people with complex relationships. Therefore, the growth of children and the shaping of relationships are also an irreversible and irreversible process. If there is damage, there will be cracks, which are difficult to make up. A lot of times, the roles are very important. Even if the latecomers are full of goodwill, it is always difficult to end it perfectly. The best thing is to maintain the balance on the surface and allow time to give everyone a chance to adapt.
About life, about life. "You can only wear a mask if you really want to live a human life." "She can't see the beauty of the future in life, so she can't wear a mask." Everything comes from the heart, with yearning, expectation and confidence in the heart, and full of trust and dependence on relatives and friends, can we live with a more positive, optimistic and high-spirited attitude, better meet every challenge, and strive to overcome the ups and downs of life; Fearlessly rise to the challenge, because I know in my heart that my relatives and friends will always stand silently behind me to support and protect me. And people who have experienced many abandonment and betrayal, their hearts are full of distrust of life, themselves and others, have a negative and pessimistic attitude towards the world, and are more likely to bend their necks in the face of difficulties.
about love. "—I want to witness the other side of you, not just your smile, but also your angry, self-willed look—to let you see that, won't you hate me?—and then I want to change When you return to human beings, you seriously say that you like it, and then look at your smile." "It's not shame, but you don't want to be laughed at from your heart." Every time at this time, I always think of the chicken soup for the soul taught in "Soul Catcher". No one is perfect, and it is those imperfections that make up the bits and pieces of our best life, and the most indelible and indelible love life. The best part. If you love someone, you should love them all. Moreover, sometimes imperfection is like a name cast, and the imperfections exposed by the other party will only make their hearts fall into place, and feel each other more closely. We are all human, not gods. Things that are too perfect always make people feel that there is a greater imperfection hidden behind it or that everything is false. Also, to think from another angle, maybe as my brother said, "everything is relative". Imperfection is also relative, willful can be imperfect or lovely.
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