The movie "Infinite" (aka: "I Want to Cry, I Put on a Cat's Mask", was launched on June 18 on Watermelon Video, Douyin, and Toutiao today. It is a new work by Japanese healing animation screenwriter Okama. It has been loved by many people since its release. This is also another movie that premiered on headline apps such as Watermelon Video after "囧 Mom" and "Big Winner".
Okama's work "Infinite" is a fantasy film of pure youth and pure love. It tells the story of Miyo Sasaki (nicknamed "Infinite"), in order to escape from life, she chose to wear a cat mask and turned into a white cat named Taro. , She often accompanies her favorite sage Hinode, and hopes that Hinode can give her warmth, but she was deprived of her face by the cat shop manager, and finally regained herself and gained happiness through many hardships s story.
When I first started watching this movie, I was moved by Miyo's persistent love for the male protagonist Hinode, until I saw the second half of the movie, especially when Miyo's stepmother found out that Miyo didn't like her very much. At that time, Miyo's feelings broke out immediately. At that moment, I couldn't help but burst into tears and began to sympathize with the heroine's experience. She lives with a smiley face mask every day and is carefree. In fact, her heart is already riddled with holes and very sad.
Most of these mental scars are caused by her parents. The parents think that the child is young and ignorant, but they did not expect to have such a big impact on her soul. Life. In this article, I will interpret the absence of family affection and its impact on adolescent psychology from the perspective of children.
1. The separation of parents will cause psychological shadows to children and affect their physical and mental health.
Mrs Stena said: "Family should be the most beautiful place in the world for children, as ancient poetry says."
When Miyo was very young, her mother left her, and Miyo could only rely on her father. In Miyo's heart, it was her mother who abandoned her and caused great trauma to her young heart. Dai even thought it was boring to live in this world.
Especially at the beginning of the movie, when Miyo and her mother were visiting the temple fair, her mother wanted Miyo to talk to her father instead of her, hoping to get back together with Miyo's father, so that the family could live together. However, Miyo's mother chose to stay away from her when Miyo needed her. Now her father has found a stepmother for her without Miyo's consent.
It was precisely because Miyo's parents treated her as a child and didn't understand anything that made Miyo feel that she was not important and that her parents never considered her. Miyo even felt that her parents were selfish. That's why Miyo said: I hate this world the most, so let it be destroyed.
Due to the changes in her family, Miyo lost her reliance on her family and felt no sense of security in life. Even when she was at school, her classmates laughed at her as a child no one wanted, and she was almost a child. stolen by other students.
Because of the misfortune of family life, Miyo wants to escape from life. Although she looks carefree every day, her heart is very fragile, and it will shatter with a slight touch. Therefore, when Aunt Xun hurt her pain, Miyo's inner emotions were on the verge of breaking out, and she immediately put on a cat mask and ran away from home.
Parents occupy an indispensable position in a child's heart, and a child will thrive only when he enjoys the love of a complete family. But families that only think about themselves and divorce easily without thinking about their children will only make the children feel more lonely, inferior and insecure.
Just like the Meidai parents in the film, they actually love their children very much, but they deal with the problem in a wrong way. They always think that their children are still young and do not understand adult affairs. The fission of marriage makes Meidai's rebellious character and personality Vulnerable heart, this is a lack of parental love for their children.
As a parent, if you have a child, you should handle the relationship between husband and wife carefully. If it is really necessary to separate, you must explain the reason to the child, respect the child's opinion, and let the child accept it slowly. After all, in the child's heart, parents are ranked First, as long as the explanation is clear, I believe that children will understand.
2. From wearing a cat mask to finding your true self, love is an important factor in melting estrangement
What do you choose to do when you are in a family where both parents live for themselves? Although Miyo in the movie has become very rebellious under the influence of her family, she still faces life very optimistically. She deliberately hides her inner fragility and bravely shows her love to the boy she likes Hiyori. But in order to escape from life, he ran away from home with a cat mask to take revenge on his parents. This phenomenon also reveals the importance of a complete family to a child's development.
Psychological research shows that separation and bereavement are the most impactful events in the entire human life. This impact has a huge and extensive negative impact on the psychology of adolescents with immature and fragile minds, and even the healthy development of personality.
In this movie, due to the lack of love in her heart, Miyo heals her inner pain through her crazy pursuit of Sunrise. In the process of her pursuit of her own ideal, she changes from a human to a cat, and almost in the end In the process of becoming an adult, her relationship with her parents went from hating at the beginning to slowly understanding. During this period, she experienced 3 processes:
- put on a mask, disguise yourself
In order to escape from real life, Miyo didn't hesitate to put on a cat mask to make a cat, but she didn't know that her reckless behavior made many people worried, but it was her running away from home that also made her feel the original There are still so many people who love themselves. Especially Hinode, he learned about Miyo's real life in depth through Miyo's run away from home, and blamed himself very much. At the same time, he also made Miyo feel sorry for him. In the process of them being together, Miyo was Getting closer and closer to becoming a cat.
In real life, escaping doesn't solve any problems and complicates things. Just like Miyo, she thought that a cat could relieve her pain, but she didn't think that after becoming a cat, it would be a world, and the cat store manager was mercenary, so she would sell Miyo cat toys. So when you have a problem, don't run away.
- Take off your mask and be your true self
When Miyo was still hesitating, her face mask was taken away by the cat shop manager. At this time, she realized that being a cat can only enjoy temporary happiness. The most important thing is that she wants to To help Hinode, but because he is a cat, there is no way to help. Immediately after, a cat owned by Miyo's stepmother wears her face mask and takes care of her parents for her.
Miyo's desire to become a human became stronger and stronger, so she came to the world of cats, but fell into the whirlpool of cats. At this time, in order to help her become a human again, they went through a lot of difficulties together and finally got the opportunity to be human. Only by experiencing some things will people grow up and mature slowly.
When Hinode tried her best to help Miyo get a chance to be a man, Miyo was completely infected. She didn't expect the boy she liked to care about her so much and risked her life to save her. Some people pay attention to her, and it is this that makes her want to take off the cat mask and desire to realize her true self.
- Reconcile with parents and accept their divorce
With the help of Hinode's help, Miyo slowly became a human being. In the process, she felt Hinode's strong love and made her feel the happiness of being loved again. Because of her willfulness, she felt that everyone around her didn't love her, and when she saw Sunrise working hard for her, the memory slowly came to her mind. She recalled how her father greeted her at the dinner table, and Aunt Xun was also very patient with her. It's just that the knot of her heart abandoned by her mother has not been opened, so she has not opened her heart to accept that love and care.
Now she also understands that the reason why her parents are separated must be due to their unavoidable difficulties, especially when Hinode bravely expresses her heart to her, Miyo feels that the whole world is lit up, and she understands that she will not be alone in the future , and the people she loves and those who love her are waiting for her, so she is full of hope for the future, and her desire to be a man is even stronger. In the end, they finally defeated the cat manager and took back the mask of being a man.
Because of the family, Miyo put on a cat mask. She wanted to escape from real life and to give herself a little comfort. However, escaping from life is no way to solve the problem, on the contrary, there will be more troubles. Therefore, people can only dare to face the problems in life and find their true self. In the process, they can definitely feel the power of love and being loved, and all estrangements can also be melted through love.
3. In the face of family changes, breaking through oneself and transforming in growth is the way out
At the end of the film, Miyo is not only with the person she likes Hinode, but she also slowly opens up to accept her father and Aunt Xun, and often finds time to spend with her mother. From here we can feel that when a person is facing difficulties and bumps in life, sometimes changing his identity and escaping from reality will not make you happy. If you choose where to fall and where to get up, you will be a hero. After all, running away from it can be addictive, and it will make you more and more cowardly and afraid to look directly at the problem. So when you encounter a problem, you must face it bravely. Although it may not be able to solve the problem, it will definitely grow.
So how should we learn from the growth experience of the heroine Miyo in the movie, how can we break through ourselves and find our own growth path in the face of family changes?
1. Face the bad life with a positive and optimistic attitude
Because of the divorce of her parents, Miyo felt insecure in her heart and was often ridiculed at school, but she did not feel sorry for herself, but showed a careless and carefree look. She only lived for herself and liked a man. Children will take the initiative to pursue. In this process, no matter she is getting along with her family or friends, she can feel her cheerful and kind character, because even though she is in pain, she doesn't want others to see her.
In our life, many families may be similar to Miyo's. If you are blindly immersed in pain, not only will you not change anything, but your mood will get worse and worse, so learn to face it with a positive and optimistic attitude. Life will be less bitter and more sweet.
2. When you encounter a problem, you can solve the problem by facing it bravely.
Each of us will encounter many problems in the world. It is the most unwise way to blindly avoid problems. Even if we may feel relieved at the time, we still have to face the problems correctly afterward. The problem is not scary. If you tell the problem and solve it together with everyone, the stone in your heart will fall to the ground, and you will feel very at ease.
Just like Miyo, she thought she could escape from real life by wearing a cat mask, but she didn't expect that after becoming a cat, the cat's world would be more complicated. So, no matter who we are disguised as, we go around in a big circle, in the end we still have to take off our masks and face it bravely. When I faced it, I realized that the problem was not as bad as I thought.
3. Use love to melt estrangement and realize the beauty of the world
What made Miyo strongly want to be herself? In fact, it was the Hinode she liked that influenced her, especially when Miyo saw the boy she liked desperately to save her, her inner desire to be a man was bursting, and it was only after she was saved that she found out I should have accepted such a family a long time ago, my parents have come out, and everything was complicated because I didn't come out.
There is no parent in the world who doesn't love their child, and Miyo's parents love her very much, but their handling is wrong, which makes Miyo more rebellious and neglects her care and love. There is nothing in this world that is greater than the power of love. Learn to use love to melt barriers, and the world will become a better place.
Conclusion:
The growth experience of Miyo in the movie "Infinite" has brought us a lot of inspiration. This is not only a healing movie, but also a very likeable movie. From the process of wanting to be a cat and finally wanting to become a human being, Miyo can see how powerful the power of love is.
I hope that parents who have watched this movie must manage the relationship between husband and wife well, and don’t go into divorce unless they have to. After all, children are the biggest victims. The child explains clearly, do not let the child feel that he is being
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