EP7: The person who knows me best
As expected of an ally who has experienced hardships together, handsome asks a smile a little uneasy, you have heard about me too (left my brother there), smiled and nodded, I heard that you lost that memory, it must be very painful, don't Too self-blame. Instead of laughing at the vice president, she comforted him that they knew each other.
Why is Yingjun so disgusted with smiling and chasing past memories, on the one hand, out of her desire to protect her, on the other hand, to protect herself and her family. Just like President Park, a good friend, in order to prevent Yingjun from seeing the smile and having a sad date with Li Chengyan, he went to great lengths to cover his eyes. The protector is out of good intentions, but can the protector understand?
Li Chengyan hoped that Smile could recall more details, but Smile said that he couldn't remember it. However, when Li Chengyan suggested that Smile could be called his brother, Smile was obviously a little embarrassed. Why is her little brother so unfamiliar? Is there a problem with memory?
Sometimes our memories are unreliable, as Ying Jun said, what we thought was big as a child turned out to be small in adulthood. Memories can also go wrong. The perception of the past was vivid at the time, but recalling it now is full of errors. Even though he "found" the little brother, he couldn't find that feeling, which made Smile very confused.
Although the kidnapper is hateful, she is also a victim of social problems. I don’t know if she was a third party unintentionally or deliberately. She also experienced the pain of losing her child. . Usually we all think that the perpetrator is hateful, but if we look deeper, we will find that the perpetrator was also a victim. Would she have made the same choice if she wasn't so weak and cared more about herself?
What can relieve the fear of smiling are handsome and caring words and a candy. In an instant, the smile reminds me of the little brother in the past. What can really move the smile is not the excellent external conditions of the handsome, but the words and behaviors of the handsome and considerate.
What is the function of the bridge? connect, lead somewhere. What is connected is the handsome and smiling heart, where does it lead? Walk into each other's hearts and walk towards the future together. The marriage proposal was rejected, and the smile showed that handsome's urgency was due to jealousy, why? Just out of fear of losing. But when handsome and magnanimous tell a smile, I can accept what you want, and I have the confidence to accept everything from you, will the smile not be moved? If you are afraid of losing, you will lose more, but what if you can let go of your obsessions, learn to let go, tell the other party how you feel, and leave the choice to the other party? The smile at this time will cherish the handsome heart and will not live up to his trust.
Has it been with the vice-chairman for a long time that Secretary Yang has become the same gentleman? In order not to embarrass Section Chief Feng, he decisively took off his coat, without asking anything, handed over the coat covering the cushion to her for safekeeping, and ran to the other place. Such considerate behavior, I wonder how Section Chief Feng will feel? The noble man she longed for was actually not noble, he was a little stingy, a little deliberate, and he paid attention to details, but Jin Zhiya was careless and informal.
PS Park Seo-joon's eyes are very good. When I saw a smile for the first time at a new employee dinner 9 years ago, I expressed my deep affection, gaze, and disappointment for the smile. Park Min-young also played the smile when she first entered the workplace. She was lively and restrained. The clothes were completely different from the current style. The tops did not fit well, and the skirts were more fancy. Compared with the professional wear that fits well today, it reflects the precipitation of 9 years.
EP8: Brave Smile
It is not easy to walk into one person's heart, and it is even more difficult to open one's heart to another person, especially for those who have been traumatized, such as Li Yingjun, but who is Jin Xiaoxiao? A friend who has experienced painful times with him, a good partner who has worked with him for 9 years, and is now a woman who makes his heart move. Although he said that he was willing to take on everything, the question from Smile was beyond his expectations. This question troubled Smile. For a long time, the best way is not to struggle with myself, but to ask the other party, why did you push me away when I was about to kiss?
The reaction of the parties? Yingjun's answer was half-truth and half-truth, and he only said part of it. The clever smile made her guess the reason, and it was related to nightmares, but if it went further, Yingjun was joking again, and he was still covering up the real answer. He just has a psychological shadow on kissing with closed eyes, why is he unwilling to admit it?
We are reluctant to expose our shortcomings in front of people we like, especially narcissistic people like handsome who think they are perfect. But where in this world are there perfect people and things?
The bravery of smiling lies in the fact that she faces her own feelings and can express them to let the other party know. When she understood Yingjun's intention, when she saw Yingjun's courage to take on everything, when she understood that Yingjun pushed her away, when she confirmed her intention, she didn't want any misunderstanding between the two. , she wanted to tell Yingjun her own response. At this moment, apart from confession, what could be better than hugs and kisses? A close body is the best comfort, and it is her bravery that breaks the spell that plagued Handsome. Her bravery comes from love, and her smile is such a wonderful girl.
The importance of this kiss also lies in the fact that Jin Xiaoxiao inadvertently performed a "flooding therapy". On the basis of gaining the full trust of the "patient" Li Yingjun, he approached him and closed his eyes directly, letting him experience the kiss again. The feeling of closing his eyes, Li Yingjun did not expect that it was not fear, but sweetness. Naturally closing his eyes would not be so scary, refreshing his bad memory. It also echoes what Yingjun said before, instead of looking for memories, it is better to create memories with me.
Usually we women are more reserved and don’t openly discuss the topic of physical contact with men for fear of being seen as rude. So there are often small meetings between girls, and they are constantly entangled. What does he mean by doing this? Do you like me or hate me? However, the discussion for a long time will lead to no result. It is impossible to understand men's behavior from the perspective of women, and different people's behaviors have different interpretations. If you don't ask each other, you will never get the answer.
Here, we see that a smile gives a good example of love. Of course, it is more suitable for a woman who is self-confident and who knows how to appreciate this kind of self-confidence.
Now that families with two children are more and more common, the relationship between the two children and the education of their parents will breed some problems. For example, in the play, an excellent younger brother gets more attention and love from his parents, and a relatively mediocre older brother becomes jealous. How should the competition between the two children be balanced? How can parents care for their children equally? This play gives a negative teaching material, which is worth thinking about.
PS The acting skills of the two actors are really much more powerful than reading comics. The current and spark between them, the subtle feeling cannot be conveyed by comics. Because of this, the actor who plays Li Chengyan still needs to work hard. In my eyes Here, he is not the second male, but the second male is President Park, and he has always been very exciting with Yingjun. Many scenes in this art center part added after the adaptation are also very good. In my opinion, the comics are only supplements, and DRAMA is the foundation. Halfway through the episode, enjoy! To be continued
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