Do you know that I love you so much?
——A brief analysis of the love of a boy to a girl in love movies In
literary and artistic works, the emotional development of a girl is often used as the main line to describe a love, because people's mindset is often limited to a girl's love, and they feel that a girl's emotions are rich, delicate, and delicate. It is easier to convey the essence of the work. In fact, this view is biased. Personally, I prefer love movies that focus on the love of boys and girls. The Japanese movie "Love Letter" (director: Iwai Shunji), the Hong Kong and Taiwan co-production movie "Love Letter" Heartbeat" (director: Zhang Aijia) and the Iranian film "Barron" (director: Maki McGidi) are good examples.
u Fate makes you and I meet. There is an old saying in China: "If you are destined to meet each other for thousands of miles, you will be hard to hold if you are not destined to meet each other." It means that
love is available but not available.
In "Love Letter", a pair of boys and girls have the same name and surname - both are called Fujii Tree, and they are in the same class. From the first day of middle school life, there have been misunderstandings one after another. Although they are both miserable, their relationship is like the "Bible". Adam and Eve live in a campus where they are repeatedly mocked every day, and they are trembling with fear, and they don’t even pay attention to each other. Tightly hold.
In "Heartbeat", a 17-year-old girl Xiaorou met 19-year-old Haojun because of a concert. The two took the same bus and looked at each other secretly across the passengers. At this time, they Already "hearted" for the other party.
The story of "Barron" takes place at a construction site. Najaf, an Afghan worker hired by the foreman Meima, broke his leg. Najaf's eldest son, Ramat, took over his father's position. So, Ramite and Meima The nephew Latif met by working together. An unexpected opportunity, a gust of wind and sand blew, and the curtain of the dormitory where Lemmett lived was blown by the wind. Latif saw a blurred mirror reflecting a beautiful long black hair, and he discovered the secret of this silent young man. : It turns out that Lemmett is a girl whose real name is Barron. She has to disguise herself as a man in order to get a job and support her family.
In the vast sea of people, I met you among thousands of people. The hand of fate connects you and me. I don't know what will happen. I only know that I met you. Seemingly fortuitous encounters are inevitable.
u Love does not know where it started, and it goes deep. Ki Vasilev said: "The foundation of love is always mutual affection and mutual
liking." When both men and women are not aware of it, feelings have been quietly rooted and extended in each other's hearts.
"Love Letter" is about a story tied to memories. In the film, because the two Fujii trees were assigned to be on duty at the same time, Fujii (female) asked Fujii (male) who was on duty the next day, and Fujii (male) asked Fujii (female) what mathematics was taught that day. The two unintentional and incorrectly written questions imply mutual affection and shorten the distance between the two. Later, the two Fujii trees were elected as the book chiefs at the same time because of the mischief of their classmates, and they managed the school library after school. Everyone became more and more violent. She couldn't help crying. When he saw her crying, he immediately rushed forward and kicked. hooligan. He vented his dissatisfaction in this way, and he protected the girl he loved in this way. In the library, she worked diligently to sort out books, but he often neglected his job, hardly worked, and often leaned against the window sill to read books. The most strange thing was that he always borrowed a lot of unpopular books, and liked it when no one had borrowed them. She was bored with his name on his library card, but he never tired of it. She asked, "You read this kind of book?" He replied, "How can you read it?" After that, he walked away, leaving her confused. There is a good saying: "The authorities are obsessed, and the bystanders are clear." When we are loved or loved, we are often confused, and we do not understand the deep meaning of each other at all. Years later, she went back to school, just like she did back then, but now the school library is managed by elementary school girls. They accidentally discovered 87 books with Fujii's name on them. She said that a friend did it back then. As a prank, the elementary school girl said, "That person must like you, so he wrote so many of your names!" She did not admit it. In the end, the truth was caught in the words of speculation. He wanted to tell her—he loved her, he didn't say it, he just wrote her name over and over and showed her his love for her, but she didn't realize the mystery for a long time— She thought that the "Fujii tree" he wrote was just his name, but she didn't know that the "Fujii tree" he wrote was her name. When she finally knew and understood his love, it was too late. He had died in a mountain disaster more than two years ago, so she jumped into the dusty memories and indulged herself... He loved her silently, He chose a special and implicit way to express his love for her. He thought that maybe one day she would find out what he meant, but he regretted not waiting. Love is like this, you get it unknowingly, and pass by you unknowingly. In the dark, everything is already doomed, life and death are no longer important, in the moment of forgetting and remembering the lightning and flint, we finally perceive love, and because of love, we can exist forever.
"Heart" tells a simple but heartwarming story of first love, pointing directly to the softness of the heart. The film describes a middle-aged woman's recollection of the past, and the bits and pieces were carefully wiped off by her, slowly revealing the original luster. Xiaorou is waiting by the river for Haojun who returns, Haojun is waiting for Xiaorou to leave school at the school gate, and the two touch inadvertently at the party... This is how love begins. Xiaorou and Haojun experienced a short but sweet love time, and later broke up because Xiaorou's mother couldn't accept Haojun who failed the university entrance exam twice. When they became adults, one of them was in Japan and the other was in Canada. They were busy with their respective careers. They had met and had passions, but they were very independent from each other. Xiaorou gets married and has children, and Haojun plans to remarry. Years later, Xiao Rou went to Japan to attend a memorial service due to the death of Chen Li, a common friend of herself and Hao Jun. She also knew that Chen Li was actually Hao Jun's divorced ex-wife. They parted at the airport, and Haojun gave Xiaorou a gift-a box of photos of the same sky taken when he missed that person for decades. Telling a person that I love him (her), I think he (she) does not need expensive gifts, as long as there is a heart, the truth can be expressed in ordinary things. The photo tells about Haojun's love and affection for Xiaorou for a lifetime. At the beginning of "Heartbeat", he said, "You may be in love with this person, but you may be married to another person". In the film, we saw the youth that cannot be turned back. When we were young, we simply loved and hated, believed in the so-called fate, and believed in love at first sight. Some things are really about fate, even if you have loved each other for twenty or thirty years, even if he later gets divorced, and you have nothing to worry about, but you can't be together after all. Love can be buried in the bottom of the heart, take root and sprout, after years of polishing, and finally grow into a towering tree, but marriage is often another matter.
"Barron" describes love in a big context. When the Soviet Union withdrew from Afghanistan in 1989, the country was immediately plunged into a chaotic civil war. Millions of refugees poured into neighboring countries, with Iran alone hosting more than 1.4 million. They struggle in poverty, and most are limited to the hardest jobs for low wages - like construction. The film takes place on a construction site north of Tehran. Latif saw in Barron the other side of life—the boundless poverty, suffering, and struggle. He began to like this strong girl, and did not reveal the secret to anyone, and secretly protected Barron. When Latif was verbally bullied by co-workers in Barron, he stood up to protect Barron when the co-workers broke into Barron's dormitory. Because the relevant authorities sent special personnel to the construction site to investigate the Afghans, Barron was frightened and ran all the way, and the special personnel from the authorities chased after him. After Latif saw all this upstairs, he ran desperately, more than one or two people... Barron was dragged down by a special person, Latif stepped forward to push Barron away, and he was beaten by several special people. . Because of this, the Afghans on the construction site were fired, and Latif determined to do everything in his power to help Barron and her family, and he began a journey to find Barron. He first asked Mema for a salary that he had not received for many years, and asked a person to send it to Najaf in the name of workers' compensation, but the person who handed it over actually left with the money. When the salary transferor left with the money, Latif was not discouraged, but continued to find ways to help Barron, which stemmed from Latif's deep love and pity for Barron, as well as his own kindness and simplicity. He used all his savings to buy a pair of crutches for Najaf, which he kept silently in their outbuilding. He sold his valuable Iranian ID card again, and he gave the money to Najaf in the name of the foreman, hoping to share the burden of life for the girl he loves and allow the Najaf family to return home. Latif's love for Barron was pure to the extreme. He knew that he could not help Barron directly, so he chose to help Barron's father and Barron's family indirectly. What Latif assisted was money, which in our opinion was a very vulgar thing, but from the background of the film, the money and ID card that Latif paid were the scarcest and most precious things at that time, and of course there were More priceless, that is Latif's beautiful soul. If you don't love to the extreme, how can you love so much that you have everything you have?
Boys express their love for girls in a variety of ways, either clever or simple, but if we dig into these external contents, it is not difficult to see the infatuation of boys. In the age of innocence, we may not quite understand the true meaning of love, but in the above three films, the young men expressed their view of love in their own way-love is giving, giving without expecting anything in return. This kind of love may seem silly to us, but it is as clear as a clear spring and penetrates our hearts. No matter how many loves a person has experienced in his or her life, the most unforgettable one is the first love when he was young. The first love is always beautiful. The sincere love that happened in a young age cannot be forgotten in a lifetime, because only once in a lifetime.
u Love without regrets, love without results. Ki Vasilev also said this: "The one who loves is always
Looking for ways to express the depth and intensity of one's feelings, finding a way to the heart of another person. Speaking of the three films "Love Letter", "Heartbeat" and "Barron", I have to mention the intriguing endings of these three films. At the end of "Love Letter", the elementary school girls are Fujii Tree (female) A book called "In Search of Lost Time" was sent, and this book was sent to her house by Fujii Ki (male) before she transferred to another school, and she still remembers putting this book back on the shelf. She was reluctant to give up at that time. The school girl asked her to take out the book card. She saw a portrait sketch of her that he had drawn on the back of the book card. Tears welled up in her eyes. Loving her... The film ends here. In the process of reminiscing, we find that the love has long been in her heart, but we don't know it. In the memory, the rising and falling of the sun and the moon also shine. That feeling, although illusory, is very familiar, like that sunny afternoon in the library, he was quietly behind the curtains, the breeze was blowing, people seemed to disappear behind the curtains, but after a little concentration, he was actually there again. There, it seems that there is not yet. It turns out that he has always existed in the space, in the hearts of you and me, which cannot be erased and will never be forgotten. Another clue of the film is the woman who opened the memory of Fujii (female). ——Hiroko, the fiancée of Fujii (male). Hiroko understood why he said he was in love with him at the beginning, it was only because he looked like the love in his heart-a woman with the same name as him, he did not love I, I am just the shadow of another woman. After Bozi knew the truth, he finally got rid of the memory of him that he couldn't do anything about, and started a new love of his own again. The lost time will not come again, maybe only in the memory, Only then can we "seek the lost time".
At the end of "Heartbeat", Xiaorou and Haojun parted at the airport, Haojun gave Xiaorou a gift, Xiaorou opened the gift on the plane, and left a message on the card - "This is the day I miss you, give it all Give you!". This is a box of photos of the same sky taken by Hao Jun when he misses Xiaorou over the past decades, holding a guitar and lying on his back on the roof. There are simple words after each photo——78'10:00 , 78' noon, 78' 4:30pm., 92' is very cold... Xiaorou's eyes filled with tears, she arranged the photos in order of time, and finally put a photo of Chen Li's registration when she was a student. The last shot Moved to the outside of the cabin, Xiaorou Haojun, who was young in his youth, cuddled under the tree, and their bodies were dyed with the brilliance of the sun... The film stopped with this imaginary picture of a beautiful dream coming true, while Chen Li's The photo is the finishing touch of the film - the reason why Hao Jun married Chen Li was because he could miss Xiao Rou through Chen Li and continue his love for Xiao Rou. The keynote of such an ending is a forbearance of sadness, but the inner passion deeply shocked the audience - countless days, Hao Jun lay alone on the roof, holding a guitar, singing sad songs in a low voice, At this time, how much he wished Xiaorou could hear, how much he wished Xiaorou was by his side, but he could only see the sky and the birds that were as lonely as him. He picked up the camera and photographed the ever-changing sky. He used the camera to leave a momentary moment, the momentary sky under the momentary moment, and his momentary thoughts of Xiaorou. "A moment is eternity", and countless moments merge into eternity. Haojun can no longer see Xiaorou's tears at this moment, and Haojun doesn't need to watch it either. Because of all love and love they both know - you love me, I love you, but we are separated after all. Maybe only in a dream, maybe only when we meet in heaven, our love will have the ideal result, and we can break through all obstacles together. "Heartbeat" gives people the feeling that it is the first snow in early winter.
The end of "Barron" - because Najaf got the money sent by Latif, he left Iran with his family and started a long journey back home. Latif rushed to see him off, he understood that there was an insurmountable boundary between himself and Barron - nationality, gender, current situation... There are many factors. The food in Barron's hand was turned over. Latif was the same as helping Barron at the construction site in the past. He instinctively stepped forward to help. Barron smiled at Latif in an instant... This is her first time in the film. The second and only smile, she gave Latif the smile. This smile is worth a thousand words, full of Barron's gratitude and love for Latif... "Who can be ruthless without being a grass and tree?" Touched by Latif's help at critical moments time after time, Barron finally opened up. heart. Barron took off the veil and walked to the truck that was going to take her home, but because of the muddy soil, her right shoe got stuck in the mud, Latif crouched on the ground, pulled out the shoe, and put it on Barron's foot Before, Barron put it on. Because Barron is wearing a veil, we can't see Barron's face. It is this "covering up" that allows the audience to have more room for speculation and aftertaste. Barron was leaving in the truck, and we saw Barron staring at Latif until the truck was gone... At this time, it was pouring rain in the sky, and Latif was looking at the shoes that Barron had just left in the mud. Yin smiled, this is a smile of relief - all Latif's hard work was not in vain, although he did not have any love story with his beloved girl Barron, but through his continuous efforts and efforts, Barron was able to return to his hometown. I finally understood that I love her, everything is enough. At the end of the film, the rain was getting heavier and heavier, and Barron's footprints quickly filled with water... In fact, the rain showed Latif's mood very well at that time. The rain was one of Latif's long-standing feelings. Complete venting, this is a boy's surging, passionate, selfless love for a girl, and her beloved girl finally understood his heart and his sacrifice at the moment of parting. When the footprints were filled with water, it was actually the water of love that filled the hearts of Latif and Barron.
The three boys in the three films opened the girl's heart by expressing the depth and intensity of their feelings. Perhaps in our opinion, such a "deduction" was too late, but it was successful. The past of love poured out like a mountain of mountains and seas at the opening of this moment. Who said that their love has only results and no process. In fact, they have already fallen in love in the past years.
Zhang Aijia, director of "Heartbeat", said in an interview with reporters: "When we were young, we refused to regret. Now we think differently. In fact, it is beautiful to have regrets in life! It makes you reminisce about your life, which is eternal." In fact, the three films "Love Letter", "Heartbeat" and "Barron" jointly told us. The three films moved the audience in the way of accumulating their feelings little by little. They were sad and touching, and the tenderness was integrated into the sad mood. I am not only "watching" "Love Letter", "Heartbeat" and "Barron", but also experiencing a baptism of love.
- "Do you know that I love you so much?" - "I finally know." This is the emotion conveyed by the film.
This article is an assignment when I was in college and later posted on my blog. In addition, it was published on www.mtime.com on 2006-08-03 .
Note: This article was originally written in conjunction with the Japanese film "Love Letter" (director: Shunji Iwai), the Hong Kong and Taiwan co-production film "Heartbeat" (director: Zhang Aijia), and the Iranian film "Barron" (director: Maki McGidi). It was written together with the video, and taking it apart will destroy its integrity, so paste the original text and share it with everyone!
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