You don't know what love is?
NO.
Oh, well, that's a shame.
"Don't you know what love is?"
"I don't know."
"Oh, that's a shame."
Are you looking for love?
No, not really. I'm kind of content.
There's tons of guys out here. If you go out here, you can find your soulmate.
"Are you looking for love?"
"No, I'm happy by myself. "
There are thousands of people here. Just walk around and you'll find the other half."
I just think love is a hard thing to find.
When you find it, keep it. Hold on to it.
"I It 's hard to find true love."
"When you find true love, grab it and hold on to it."
So you say you don't believe in love now, but have you always felt that way?
I believed in it when I was a kid, but again, all my ideas about love kind of came from movies and feiry tales.
And as I grew up I realized that life is nothing like that.
"You said you don't believe in love now, right? Did you always think that way?"
"I believed in love when I was a kid. But, all I have The concept of love is more or less from movies and fairy tales.
When I grew up, I realized that life is not like that."
So you don't know what love is. You've never felt it, so you claim.
And you also know for sure that you will never be in love. I've never been in love, ever. So I'm not
sure if I'm capable of it.
Know what love is. You never felt it, so you say it. And you're sure you'll never find it."
"I've never met love, never. So I'm not sure if I'm capable Go."
Your love glass is halffull.
"You're only half a lonely soul now."
And why wouldn't you get married again?
Because I don't want to go through the hurt again.
When I took those vows, for me it was for life, you know, as far as I was concerned.
But it wasn't. People fall out of love. People change.
And what they want and what the other person wants, it's just different.
When you get older, you have all this experience, and then you start thinking about, you know ,your past loves.
And ture love is a whole different thing. That only comes once in a while,once in a lifetime,I think.
"Then why don't you get married anymore?"
"Because I don't want to be hurt anymore. When I said my wedding vows, I thought it was a lifetime commitment, you know, I thought so. But it's not.
People think love is gone, people change. They don't want the same as their significant other. When you're older, you'll experience it.
And then you start thinking about the love that's gone, and true love is a completely different thing. It's only occasionally, once in a lifetime, I think."
But I think the problem with ture love is that it has to be on both sides. That's what makes it so difficult. Like
she might have been my ture love, but maybe I wasn't her ture love.
. That's why it's so hard to find. Like she might be my true love, but I'm not necessarily her true love."
I think the young love can sometimes be the most important. I
know that many people now are waiting until later to get married, but I think you lose something.
A lot of people are waiting until very late to get married now, but I think you're going to lose something."
How did you guys know that you were in love if you're never been in love before?
Wait for the lightning bolt.
Sometimes it's slow and it grows and all of a sudden you realize it's there.
Many times it happens in the beginning, like it did with us.
"If you've never been in love, how do you know if you're in love with someone People?"
"Wait for the quiver in the heart. Sometimes it's nurtured slowly and all of a sudden you realize it's there. Most of the time it's like that in the beginning, and that's how we are."
People think there's a formula to romance novels and there's not.
The only thing that romance has to have is, they have to have a relationship between two people
and they have to have some kind of conflict or struggle that they overcome
and then live happily ever after, we call it. It's an "HEA ending"...happily ever after.
"People think love stories have a set pattern, but they don't. "
The only thing a love story needs is that there is some kind of relationship between two people. Then they go through some emotional conflict and struggle."
"And then they get over it and live happily ever after. We call it ' HEA ending' and live happily ever after."
How would you define a divorce? I think probably the
best definition of divorce is the taking of two people who once proclaimed their love for each other and separating them as far as you
can apart. , like two people who once showed their love to each other and then got as far apart as possible from each other." It might just hit you one day. You might just wake up one day and go,"I don't know, I think I really love this guy." You might suddenly realize one day, and you'll wake up and think, "I'm a little confused, I think I really love that guy."
When you meet somebody and you just get that feeling like you'd known them forever
and they're definitely a part of your life, and you can't imagine life without them
and you want to be with them every minute of every day and share everything with them, that's love.
"When you meet someone, you just hit it off."
"They're like a part of your life, you can't imagine life without them, and you want to be with them all the time. Together, sharing everything with them, that's love."
It just hit me when I talked to him. When I first saw him even, and then when I talked
to him, I knew right away that that was the one.
I was attracted to him when he spoke, even seeing him for the first time, and then as soon as I spoke to him, I knew right away that he was the man I was looking for."
As far as, like, knowing it for sure ,no one ever really knows anything about love,
but you just gotta go with what feels right
.
What would your advice be for someone who isn't sure if they're in love and will find love?
Well, I would say, take a minute and look at your life. Look at the person that you think likes you.
Find out for yourself.
"If someone isn't sure if they're in a relationship or can find true love, what would you give him Advice?"
"I would say, please take a moment to think about your life and trust the people who love you. Find out for yourself."
I'm just really overwhelmed right now.
I know I'm not in love right now, but that doesn't mean I'll never fell in
love
.
care! Life is too short to be wondering what if!
Sometimes you just gotta live and see what happens, even if you get hurt.
Sometimes you can only feel something if you take a risk.
"I don't care! Life is too short to wander!"
"Sometimes you just have to live and wait for what's going to happen, even if it hurts. Sometimes you just have to let it go and you can feel it."
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