part 1
- Are you looking for love?
- Nope. I am happy by myself.
- There are thousands of people here, just walk around and you can find your other half.
- I think true love is hard to find.
-【When you find true love, grab it. Keep it going]
part 2
- Why are you not getting married anymore?
- Because I don't want to be hurt anymore. When I said my wedding vows, I thought it was a lifetime commitment, you know, I thought so. But that's not the case, people feel that love is no more, people change, they don't want the same as their significant other...not the same. When you grow up, you will experience it, and then you start to think about the love that has passed... [True love is a completely different thing, it only happens occasionally... once in a lifetime], I think.
part 3
- Have you ever had true love?
- Well, have
- your ex-wife?
- Actually, no. She's... God, that's all, maybe 20 years. But every time I hear her name, her look immediately comes to my mind. I will remember some trivia, and all kinds of times.
- Why weren't you together?
- She was with someone else then. She... just came close to leaving that person and coming to me, but she couldn't.
- Did you know she was with someone else then?
- Yes, but so what? As long as they're not married or engaged, we're playing fair. I do think so, I mean, just boyfriends. Because I thought, maybe I'm the one she's really looking for, right? But I think [the key to true love is: mutual affection, which is why it is difficult to find. ] Like she may be my true love, but not necessarily my true love. When we're talking about love and true love, how do you know if you've found love? Well, listen to me tell a little story:
Last May I went to Alaska to hunt for grizzly bears, and I rode 130 miles north of the Arctic gorge for two weeks, just me, my guide, and my horse. We rode all the way to the river and wanted to cross the river. It was late spring, the water level was very high, and the water was very cold. There were still ice cubes in the river, and it was freezing cold. Anyway, let's start crossing the river. As I was about to reach the other side, my horse tripped and the river washed me and the horse away. The water was flowing so fast that I gradually sank in the river for 30 seconds... no, 45 seconds. I remember feeling so peaceful. The color of the water is beautiful, I drifted with the waves, like in the vast universe... I told myself, I can't die like this, things can't be like this. Suddenly, I saw Sarah...my ex-wife's face, she didn't say anything. She didn't look at me either. That's when I began to strain, and with all my might I went upstream, out of the water, grabbing a twig and crawling ashore. The guide made a bonfire for me to keep warm...the reason why I am here to tell you the story now that I am saved, but the point of this story is that the love of that marriage is still there, and when I come home and tell Sa When asked about this, she said that she was sitting in front of the computer working at the time. I can imagine her expression at that time, sitting at the table. As for the one I said earlier, it might be the one I really love, but what I saw before dying was not her face, but Sarah's. So looking back on it, maybe Sarah was my true love. Who knows?
part 4
- Remember your first date?
- Remember. I invited him to my 14th birthday party, from infatuation to deep love, to deep love. He proposed to me in high school.
- Do you remember how he proposed to you?
- Don't remember, how about you?
- I don't remember either. I'm sure I didn't get down on one knee
- Neither my parents wanted me to get married so early. But they knew I loved him and they knew we wanted to be together, so they had to sign me off because I was 17 at the time. Actually it is. Sometimes I feel that the love of youth may be the most real. I know a lot of... people are waiting until late to get married now, but I think you're going to lose something. We could choose not to get married before he goes to college, but it might be another 5 years before we stop calling. I'm not encouraging everyone to get married at 17, but sometimes that's the case, and it's not for everyone. We had a lot of friends, got married early, but didn't end up together. We have been very happy. 【If you have never loved, how do you know if you are in love with someone, waiting for the throbbing in your heart? ] That's what I've been saying, sometimes it develops slowly and suddenly you realize it's there, and most of the time it's like that in the beginning, that's how we are. Yes, if you were to ask us what impressed us all these years together, we would just say one thing, and I would say this:
when our second son was born, he had to go back to the barracks. Although we all knew our son was about to be born, he still had to go to the barracks. The labor was difficult, my son and I were in some danger, and I was especially excited to hear the heavy footsteps of his military boots as he walked down the hall. I know he is here. After we were safe with mother and child, he ran into the room, saw that we were all fine, and immediately fell unconscious on the ground... We all remember that delivery.
Part 5
The development process of emotional bondage, this is a love story. People think love stories have a set pattern, but they don't. The only thing a love story needs is that there is a certain relationship between the two, and then they go through some emotional conflict and struggle. In the end they got over it and lived happily ever after. We called it the 'HEA ending'... happily ever after. The characters always give up something... [One gives up for the other, which is a sign that they truly love each other. ] So in a way, the characters in the story have to make some sacrifices for the other character, and that's the mark, that's the mark of their love.
part 6
-Love sometimes has to be vigorous. I think love must be passionate and passionate, and I think 'true love' is the most critical thing in a relationship. You want to enjoy every moment with that person, because some people live a certain period of time when they can't stand each other anymore.
- Then how did you know you were in love with each other?
- I just thought...I don't know if I would see the meaning of life without Bill.
-【Love also has to go with the flow. I don't think a strong melon is sweet, and you must open your heart. ]
- I think so too, like your boyfriend, you know, you really like him, maybe you won't see him for a long time, you will miss him. When you feel like you're about to lose him, you're like, "Wait, I don't think I can lose this guy"
- which is amazing, because I think everyone's definition of love is very different. And, like, you just said... I was like, "I don't feel like I'm in a relationship" because I miss him so much and so much.
- Yes, you know, 80% of the time you are in love. One day you may suddenly realize that you will wake up and think "I'm a little confused, I think I really like that person". [When you meet someone and you feel like you just hit it off, they're like a part of your life, and you can't imagine life without them. You also want to be with them all the time and share everything with them, that's love. ]
part 7
- I remember asking my mom, "When did you realize you were in love?" and she said "when you feel like you can't stand without him"
part 8
- When you've been married a long time, you It has a history, an irreplaceable history. You know, [you have a memory that you both have, and it is worth fighting for and working hard for. That person is irreplaceable, irreplaceable. ]
part 9
- Life is too short to wander. Sometimes you just have to live and wait for what's going to happen, even if it hurts; sometimes you can only feel it if you let it go.
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