Chatting with an old friend not long ago, he has made new achievements in his career, and he may even participate in the creation of our favorite movie IP in the future, but looking back at himself, he is still calculating which one to keep in the Taobao shopping cart. Which day I deleted, I couldn't help regretting it. If I had chosen a purely rational life like him, would I have lived happily ever after?
But looking back on the past, even if there are too many regrets or regrets, the joys of those years were not fake. I remember taking an elevator with someone once. Maybe he could go up the stairs, but I had gone to the wrong floor, but when the door closed, he just squeezed in, like a passerby, standing there. On one side, of course there are other people in the elevator. Of course, a self-disciplined person like him would not do anything out of the ordinary. He didn't even glance at me, but at that moment, I knew that this person only had me in his heart. My feelings towards him are exactly the same, even if later, it may be nothing more than a chance to see you again in this life, or even, it is not that I have never met. It would be a great regret if I didn't meet him, but, at a certain moment, I suddenly thought of that time. To be such a person, and to love him unreservedly at that moment, I think, maybe the first half of my boring life is meaningful, right?
I watched a movie not long ago - "The Virgin Mountain". As a love movie, it is not sweet at all, and it is not as sharp as "500 Days with Summer", and even the protagonist is really frustrated. , bald, obese, socially terrified, working in an indecent job, and even living with his mother in his 30s. Even if he was bullied in the workplace and wronged by his neighbors for his love for Tong, he has always been submissive and worked hard to live.
Such a fat house that seems to have failed in life is very touching. He seems to be very insensitive, and his life is leaking everywhere. For example, when he is middle-aged, he has been single and still lives with his mother. One time he came home and accidentally bumped into an elderly mother who was ooxx with his boyfriend, so he could only escape downstairs. , Waiting downstairs for a long time in the wind and snow. He is a gentle person, so gentle to the point of being useless. Because he is fat and single, he was pranked by his co-workers. He was dragged to the ground by some vile co-workers and forced him to take a bath. Not only did he report them to the boss who was his friend, but even a co-worker who had bullied him begged him to help him fix his car, and he agreed. His kindness brought disaster after all. The little girl who just moved in from the neighbor has no playmate of the same age. When he sees him playing with car models downstairs, he takes him as a playmate. Occasionally, when his father comes home late, he will come. His family asked him to play games, and finally once, she begged him to take him for a ride, but the girl's father reported jing, so that he was notorious as a pervert. In the police station, he answered why he was really funny and pitiful when he took girls out. He said that girls often came to his house to play games with him. What game do you play? Girls don't like his World War II model sandboxes, she prefers to play house.
Such a person, although he has already reached the age of an adult, still retains the innocence of a child. He seems to live a lonely life, but he is not alone. The radio DJ who often orders songs remembers his music taste, his boss It is a good friend who plays the World War II model sandbox together.
But he is always an adult, and he has reached the age of longing for love. Even if he has such an image and such a fat house character with extreme social fear, it is difficult for him to have the chance to meet love. But such an honest man who seems to be the most impersonal is not without bottom lines. When the superficial workers arranged for strippers to help him have sex, he broke out and beat the well-intentioned worker for the first time.
When he met a girl in a dancing club because of the tickets given by his mother and boyfriend, he finally began to be moved. He could also be a very active boy. He had the courage to go to the club and continue to learn dancing in order to create a chance to meet. After learning that the girl didn't have the courage to go out because of depression and almost lost her job, he went to visit him silently, helped her clean up the house, and helped her to go to the garbage factory to sort garbage, just to keep her job.
Even his mother complained on behalf of the official, "Do you have to find a girlfriend who works in a garbage station and is depressed? Baby, don't we have a better choice?"
At that moment, on the side of the screen, I couldn't help but burst into tears, yes, this is "The Love of a Virgin", putting aside all the noisy sounds of the world, like falling in love with someone for the first time, love without reservation A person who only loves her has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance, even if she is just a girl who has depression and is sorting garbage, even a fat house like him is regarded as a bad choice, but love, Originally it should be unconditional, and no trade-offs can be tolerated.
Therefore, even if the girl was moved, she slept with him after all; even if she offered to let him move out and live together, but after the move, she suddenly regretted that she was not ready. Regardless of surprise or despair, he accepted everything, even knowing that it was impossible, he still took out his savings, helped her buy a promising house, made an appointment with a good friend, finished the decoration, and helped her realize her dream of opening a flower shop. , even when he did all this, he didn't expect her reply, just took the air ticket he bought long ago and went on the journey that was originally two people.
At the end of the story, the moment when sb spent his savings and traveled alone, and walked to the cabin, he smiled contentedly and calmly. At that moment, I once again burst into tears uncontrollably. Such an ugly and useless person tells us with his sad story that any kind of person can live with starry eyes and love without reservation. one person.
I once argued with my friends, if you meet someone you love, is it better to sleep once, or stay in the ambiguous stage forever? After watching this "Mountain of the Virgin", I realized that if you truly love someone, sleeping or not sleeping is not important at all, and love is never possession.
I think of Aiden, the most uneasy male second in "Sex and the City", which is known as the urban love bible. I just bought a house for life. Now, since you have no intention of having a future with me, so dear, I'm sorry, please return my money to me, I still have my own way to go. At that time, even if I felt surprised, I understood Aiden's actions. After all, Kelly made a mistake first. After all, this is a normal behavior. After all, everyone is an adult. Love is one thing, but life has to be go on, don't you?
When I watched "The Mountain of the Virgin", I realized that love, true love, is originally beyond rational constraints. When you truly fall in love with someone, you will not care about personal gains and losses, and there is no time to spare. Weighing the pros and cons, you just want to give everything you can to love him, even if all he needs is to let you go.
So, I understand the virgin love of this sb who stepped on the plane with a smile, just like those smart people who are busy laughing and sneering will never understand the happiness of us sbs.
In those short periods of mediocre life, our lives were once glittering like jumping to the moon every day because of one person. Of course, we are also very aware of the pain at the moment of falling, but my one day, two days or 500 God, I laughed when it was over.
Thank you for meeting you in this life, even if the pain is more than that little sweet.
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