Since the film festival, it seems that I haven't been out to watch a movie for a long time. Among the many blockbusters, I chose a small French movie, because the shortest 93 minutes.
Although the film is short, it is very exciting and informative. In the beginning, both parents competed for custody of their son. Under the circumstance that the father was known to have domestic violence, because he said "boys need father's discipline", it should have been raised by the mother herself instead of co-parenting. The judge who made the decision did not realize that the absence of a father may not discipline the child, but a father who is abusive will definitely bring pain to the child. Violence produces not fear but fear.
This mother is really perfect. The father's attitude towards his daughter's puppy love is beating, but the mother is cleverly allying with her daughter's boyfriend and asking him to help her to get rid of her daughter's habit of skipping classes. The daughter's unmarried pregnancies will make some viewers think that the father's discipline is reasonable, but in my opinion, this just shows that years of violent discipline can only be counterproductive and will only make the daughter more rebellious.
In the middle, my father was crying and repenting. He really felt a little bit of sympathy for him. However, one moment he was repenting, and the next moment he committed an attack with a gun. It’s really a dog who can’t change his shit. This kind of domestic violence happened once. Wow a thousand times.
A little thought from this film: It seems that not only in China, but also developed countries have this kind of "masculinity". It is enough to treat his wife and children as his subordinates and want to control them instead of respecting them as independent individuals. It's scary, and what's even scarier is that once this scumbag can't control his wife and children, he will be rough if he disagrees. Developed countries will also collect evidence for domestic violence, while domestic violence is generally muddled.
A while ago, I heard a boy say that he saw a lot of girls on the street wearing revealing clothes, and he must not agree with her when he has a girlfriend. I said, so you don't have a girlfriend, and you still don't know how to respect women. The girlfriend has her own free will and can wear whatever she likes. You can't control it.
There are many such self-righteous boys, and they are born in the 1990s who grew up in big cities, so they are not scary.
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