If you watch such a movie, it only arouses disgust for domestic violence, it is an insult to this work, and it is an insult to the director, and it also shows that moviegoers only stay on the level of repeating what others say. If the audience belongs to this group, then this movie is not suitable for you, please move to "Fast and Furious Series". It does not mean discrimination. It is a matter of cognition and experience. Non-discrimination does not mean denying people and people. huge gap between.
We look at the source of the violence from the husband's family. First of all, the director explained the reason for the violence of the husband. Although it was only a few strokes, it was already a three-pointed piece. When the husband and son had their second meal at their parents' house, the husband kept asking questions that the son was unwilling to answer, and looked at the grandfather's reaction. The grandfather almost overturned the table several times when the persuasion was ineffective, which caused the husband to lose face in front of his son, so he also broke out at this moment. This scene shows that the violent nature of the husband has family factors. The grandfather is a violent person. When he was unable to persuade the husband, he used violence. The husband followed the grandfather's way of dealing with the problem. To make matters worse, Grandpa actually kicked her husband out of the house. If slapping the table is superficial violence, or at most expressing anger, then rushing is deep violence. Violence is the most incompetent performance in dealing with interpersonal relationships, and it is the last straw that can be grasped after doing nothing to achieve the purpose of making the other party submit. The husband has inherited the two characteristics of the original family: 1 is strong, and the goal must be achieved 2. If he fails to achieve it, he resorts to violence. In this family, the grandmother was absent and did not play the role of dissuasion and reconciliation, which made the already disheartened husband fall to the bottom. Judging from the later episodes, the husband realized his problem and was determined to overcome it. However, when we see conflicts between husbands and wives, the husbands still resort to violence unconsciously. It can be seen that this way of dealing with problems has been imprinted in his bones. From this point of view, the husband is a failure, which is worthy of sympathy. The absence of grandma in this family is a factor that cannot be ignored. The guiding role of women in a family is a decisive factor in whether a family can move towards health. This is especially worth reflecting on every family. A woman should persuade her husband to be gentle, and she should use warm words to comfort her son's helplessness and loss. If this is the case, the husband will not get out of control. Criminal psychology research has long shown that family factors are an important factor leading to crime. Whether the family can become a harbor for an individual's soul determines to a certain extent whether he is going to commit a crime.
Let's look at the wife's performance. The wife and grandma are completely opposite. Grandpa and grandma can live together, but the breakup of the wife and husband is inevitable.
In modern society, the goals that individuals cannot achieve should be given up as soon as possible, and resorting to force will make things worse. Wife and children are not the whole of a person's life. They are all passers-by in your life. You don't have to be too obsessive. Be kind to those around us. People should pay more attention to themselves and do what they want to do. "I" is the eternal theme of a person, enriching him, tempering him, delighting him, and sublimating him.
The director depicts a typical family problem with the most delicate narrative technique, which is worthy of everyone's contemplation.
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