Book Club Movie Appreciation [Guardianship] Another translation of "Family War"
Alas... After reading all kinds of comments on the Internet and sharing my experience, I said... Why do most people see the same thing -.-? It seems to be purely from the perspective of "Domestic Violence", but is a movie that took three years to produce really as he advertised?
In the past, when I wrote movie ideas, I didn’t follow the trend, and I definitely found more and more clues. Readers often said to me, wow, I finally saw a different point of view shared with others...
Am I being too weird? -.-
It's not just this movie, I've always been in this rhythm when I watch movies and write opinions! Probably because you see this apple is red or green, I said it can be black when the light is turned off! Or other colors can be formed under different lighting! There is no certainty in color, color does not exist, but it exists because of light!
In other words, this movie is fun, and it turns out that there are elements of reasoning!
French director Xavier Gehong said in an exclusive interview that the film directors he admires most are Hitchcock, the master of suspense and reasoning, and Hannek, who likes to explore the dark and violent side of human nature. It took him nearly 3 years to create it delicately, and he hopes to pay tribute to the classic masters of the film industry through this film.
——————Research on Dad ——————
This movie will remind myself of an article I wrote before "If you have low self-esteem".
In fact, the lack of support and indifference of the original family made the male protagonist very helpless. Later, the wife's fear of the male protagonist also made the wife choose to stay away from and avoid the male protagonist, which made him even more helpless.
The male protagonist's eyes seem to reveal "I'm helpless, I don't know what to do?" A person with low self-esteem is like a big child, caught in his own emotional whirlpool and unable to extricate himself.
It's like taking a toy out of a two-year-old's hand, and the child immediately breaks down and bursts into tears. In my opinion, the emotional state of the male protagonist is actually that of a two-year-old child.
When we encounter people and things that we fear, it is easy for us to subconsciously rebound and defend. Our common thoughts are "this person is very dangerous!", "this thing is very dangerous!" The next action is to quickly protect ourselves to avoid Danger, it is easier to avoid danger, but few people are willing to take the initiative to do the work that understands the danger.
Just as the masses run when they encounter a bomb, but the bomb disposal team goes to defuse the bomb.
If we say that there are such people around us, the first one is "don't hit hard", after all, we have "zero understanding" of "bomb disposal knowledge", but don't stay in place stupidly?
In fact, the key characters in the film are all ignorant. When ignorance meets ignorance, the result is the end of the film.
Inferiority makes people ignorant, and fear makes people ignorant. Ignorance makes us only see the surface of things without getting to the core.
When you really can't, try to get rid of your inferiority complex, fear, and ignorance, and try to deal with it with the power of knowledge. Maybe the situation will be much better...
No matter what, people must constantly cultivate themselves in their lives. This is how "cultivating one's self, balancing the family, governing the country and the world" comes from! come on ?
When encountering things that you bounce back, you might as well try to play the spirit of a researcher and not let yourself only see people and things on the surface.
If the husband is reluctant to see a doctor, the wife can try to find out how a specialist can help the husband. I belong to myself. If I decide to go with a person for a lifetime, I will not want to give up the other half easily. I will study what happened to this person to make him like this.
I won't let myself be kidnapped by my emotions. If it's really difficult to help him... Even if we separate, I won't find another one... (feeling clean)
——————Research on Moms ——————
In the middle of the night, my husband said he wanted to watch it too, so I watched it a second time. This time, I switched to the perspective of studying mothers. When I saw it for the first time, my opinion was that both husband and wife have problems, but the mother's problem is more recessive, while the father is dominant, so the first time I will be biased. Study Dad like this.
After reading again and again, it is also necessary to keep one's eyes from being too one-sided, and not to just look at one without knowing the other.
At the beginning of the trial, it was mentioned that the mother did not recognize the six relatives overnight, and disappeared with the child, so that the father could not find anyone, which made the father very puzzled, so the father began to look for the mother and the child everywhere.
The problem with the daughter's medical checklist, the only checklist, exploded because the father saw his daughter kissing her boyfriend. (Our father added here: Maybe my mother did something similar, which made my father think that mother and daughter were indiscreet, so my father exploded!)
There are also two couples who have been together for so many years, but there is only one injury inspection sheet to testify, and the injury inspection sheet is still three years ago, but the parties were reluctant to use it later, which means that the injury inspection sheet is just three years later. Proof of being dug up.
The husband's performance in the film is "doubt who the wife is with?" So what exactly did the wife do to make the husband so uneasy?
There is also a mother's expression of "guilt" in her eyes and actions during the trial. This is actually obvious. Her eyes often drift, and she dare not see if the husband is out of fear or sin? Both are actually possible.
Near the end of the film, the husband asks one last time, "When will I pick up the baby?" The wife says, "Let's go to sleep at my mother's tonight."
When the mother had a conflict with her husband at the party, the mother's boyfriend said to the mother, "I won't go to your place tonight." It can be seen that the mother was very afraid of being found out that she had another boyfriend, and specifically told the child not to ask Others say your dad has been here. The kindness of the husband is not known, but the bad behavior of the husband is eager to be known. This is a typical "I don't care about you, I want to find a chance to run".
The wife hope in the film is not what I judge, similar to the wife in another film "Control". Because in real life, there is actually a type of people who will show weakness, hide their true purpose, and try to influence the people around them to support them.
In the eyes of a child, the adult world is pure. In the eyes of the youngest son, he only saw his father beat his mother, and maybe he also saw his father beat his sister, so he would think that his father was bad. At this time, if the mother has an affair with her father, she will start a brainwashing mode, especially women are very good at using their softness to make children think that the mother who needs protection the most...
Maybe because my own mother is in a similar situation to the mother in the film, so I have a sense of deja vu to some of the expressions and tone of my wife in the film...
In fact, to put it simply, the husband's distrust of his wife is likely to be caused by the wife's long-term indiscretions, and in the film, it can be found that every word the wife says to the husband is often faked, and even the children are faked together. It seems that this kind of example is actually a big problem for mothers.
What the wife gives to the husband may be long-term mental violence, while what the husband gives to his wife is straight punch violence. Mental violence is recessive and difficult to detect, while straight punch violence is dominant and easy to see.
Mom's dodging mode may be biased towards "fear of having an affair being discovered". On the surface, it seems that she is afraid of her father, but in fact, the overall performance is "a woman who has changed her mind".
At the end of the video, a neighbor "saw" Mr. with a gun ramming the door and called the police. Finally, the neighbor quietly opened the door to see how the neighbor on the opposite side was doing? But the policewoman closed the door, and there were several holes on the door.
What could this possibly mean? Maybe things are not as simple as what we see on the surface. This house has long been pitted, and what are the factors that lead to potholes in the house? This is really not something we can see just by looking at the surface.
Why was Dad the winner at the beginning? Because my father's expression is really more sincere than my mother's. When my mother talks, her eyes drift and there are many small movements (it is these details that make me feel that my mother is actually not simple).
We can also try to imagine that if we are wives and disappear and run away simply because of the violence of our husband, do we really still have the intention to have a boyfriend?
The broken family... On the contrary, my mother is more open to my father. There is also a very scary part of this film, that is, it is really so simple that the audience can see it directly ? Is the problem all about the father?
I don't think it's such an intuitive movie, and I think the director is trying to guide us to "see in the direction we thought we would see." That is, "everyone who sees is 'controlled'." Even myself first The point of view in this article is to pay attention to my father. Although I can vaguely feel that my mother is also weird, my father's performance is more direct and mindless, so I pay special attention to my father.
"The devil is in the details" Some directors really know how to play like this-.-
French director Xavier Gehong said in an exclusive interview that the film directors he admires most are Hitchcock, the master of suspense and reasoning, and Hannek, who likes to explore the dark and violent side of human nature. It took him nearly 3 years to create it delicately, and he hopes to pay tribute to the classic masters of the film industry through this film.
It turns out that this is a "suspense reasoning" movie ?
There is also the room that the two brothers and sisters are fighting for in the film, the only room that can put down the double bed, and finally the mother's room. ?
What does it mean when a daughter finds out she is pregnant and decides to run away with her boyfriend? It may be that the sudden disappearance of the mother is because she was pregnant after cheating and ran away for fear of being discovered by her husband? It is also possible that the decision made by the daughter imitates her mother...
The picture of the pregnancy test is quite long, and the last daughter's elopement can't be meaningless.
I have to say that the director of this movie is really super strong ? The audience generally has a one-sided support for the mother... There is even a dispute over whether the mother wants to control... From a personal point of view, it is true that both husband and wife have their own problems. ?
In conclusion, both parties are both perpetrators and victims.
This movie is really awesome ???
If people with strong reasoning ability see it, they should be able to easily discover many hidden secrets. This movie is like playing a reasoning game to me, it is very fun ?
It is also found that the director is using the "power of the media" to lead the audience in "the direction the audience thinks".
Suppose the news broadcasts for a month, "According to the research of so-and-so experts for many years, apples can fight cancer, what are the anti-cancer ingredients?" Then people will rush to buy apples, and start to share their newly obtained information with their neighbors. Tout the goodness of apples.
After a while, the media started bombarding reports "According to the latest research, apple turns out to be carcinogenic. What are the carcinogens? (Professional list like this)"
So people crowded out apples again and again, and the sales of apples declined. At this time, some people would say, "Isn't it good for me to eat for so many years?"
All in all, the human eye is... if there is a big red in front of our eyes, our eyeballs will be immediately attracted to red! I didn't notice that some of them were green, white and black.
The director of this movie gave me the feeling that he is using the fragility of the human brain to affect the intuitive judgment of human beings?
Everyone is talking about where does the mother have control? And attacking someone whose mother is controlling.
It turned out that the audience had already unknowingly fell into the director's operation trap. In fact, the strongest controller is the director?
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