The video broadcaster at station B saw the commentary on this movie and thought the plot was quite interesting. The Chinese translation of the name "Only Love Duojin Nan" is somewhat sensational, but it is not as good as the original English name "My one and only".
The background of the story takes place in the 1950s in the United States, and the status of women is increasing day by day. And like her mother, she married a famous conductor and lived a decent life in the middle and upper classes. As an elegant and beautiful housewife, her life was also relaxed and comfortable, and her daily life consisted of jewelry and costumes and seaside vacations. However, this leisurely and comfortable rhythm was broken by a derailment from the conductor's father. When the mother broke the adultery, she still maintained her elegance and decency, but she resolutely packed her things and prepared to run away from home and divorce her father.
So, the mother took her two adolescent sons on a journey to find the next happiness. At this time, the mother is still full of confidence. She believes that she is beautiful and elegant, and it will not be difficult to find the next rich man who is willing to marry her. Sure enough, she soon met one, and they talked very much, and met one after another. But these so-called "multi-gold gentlemen" have touched the mother's principles and bottom lines more or less. Mothers won't look back once they find out that they've hit the bottom line, including the father who sent money to them hoping to be forgiven. When my mother was most helpless and indecent, she also let go of her self-esteem, and when she called her father for help, her father's affair still blocked the possible reunion of the two.
In the face and when the mother was engaged for the second time, but she was unable to marry a gentleman, the music and lyrics that sounded so fit her mother's mood at that time "So tired, of dreaming daydreams". After all, life is not a romance script, and men appear to be no different from women. In life, there is never a shortage of reversals. Labeling yourself or others is like wrapping yourself in a cocoon.
My mother is actually not a person who cares about labels. Although my brother George dreams of being a theatrical performer and likes clothes and embroidery, which are conventionally liked by women, my mother will not interfere with my brother's interests and hobbies. And my brother also showed a particularly brave side in his life in the future, and also found that his real interest was not in theatrical performances but in theatrical costumes.
And did the mother finally sink or give up because she couldn't find the "many golden man"? No. Even if the mother finally took her two sons to Hollywood for her son's dream, she still maintained and continued her inner grace for the less than ideal life. After all, optimism and elegance are immersed in the bones, and they are more involved in daily life. They are also attached to the surface because of her rather than superficial, and they do not fade with age, and they do not give up because there is no man to appreciate them.
Elegance lies not only in her decent dress and perfect makeup, but also in her bravery in life. And when the unexpected and unbearable in life come, the brave face after acceptance. When my mother was looking for a "many golden man" to protect her life and future, she finally found that this expectation was totally unnecessary.
Therefore, although this film is a bit "short of" a mother's unhappy experience, the core still sees the prototype's identification and love for her mother, as the title says "My One and only".
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