In the past, I was very disgusted that Korean dramas artificially created "moving" through the setting of the plot and the specific atmosphere, but "Only You" has changed my prejudice. Indeed, we should face up to the ordinary and trivial life, and bear the unbearable lightness in life. . But sometimes, we also need some Korean movies that have been criticized for deliberately extracting the sweetest and warmest moments in life and eschewing the hard reality, so that we can spend a lazy afternoon or a quiet night with us, so that our emotions can be comforted. It is not necessary all the time to analyze the sensual area with rational thinking and to measure love reasonably.
In fact, for many young people who are struggling in the city, they need such Korean movies or Korean dramas. A friend joked to me once that his current life has everything except love, while the hero and heroine in the screen works seem to do nothing but fall in love. The two lives complement each other and fit perfectly. Although this is a joke, it does describe the predicament and helplessness these young people are currently facing. They are busy with life and ideals all day long, but lack a sincere emotion. Movies are undoubtedly a good spice.
When it comes to the movie itself, the plot of "Only You" doesn't stand out too much. An uncle, a boxer who used to be bloody, who became ordinary and kind after experiencing hardships, and Jinghua, a blind female operator who was harassed by his boss, met at a coincidental moment in order to cure Jinghua. The eyes of the boxer became disabled, and because he did not want to implicate the girl, he chose not to contact him anymore, and finally met in the place of love. Among the similar works full of car accidents and terminal illnesses, it has not taken a new path, but it is not a work that wins by this. With the usual plot setting and ingenious atmosphere rendering, the film tells a mundane and exciting truth: love makes people change.
Love will make us think more about others. In the eyes of the uncle, the loss of eyesight of the beloved girl is more intolerable than losing his life, especially when he knows that the cause of this consequence is related to himself, so Willing to pay any price to heal her eyes. As for Jinghua, even if he lives in a world without sunshine and full of insecurity, he is unwilling to live in a world without him, no matter how worthy of looking forward to life after regaining his sight, he can give up for the safety of his uncle. Here, there is a deviation between giving and need. Each chooses the way of love that they think is correct, and does not consider each other's real needs, but we are still moved. The process of two hearts approaching each other is not based on wisdom and insight into each other's everything. Catering, but relying on the perception of the fiery heart to explore and approach each other, there will be misunderstandings and deviations, but in the end, they will understand each other. Regarding Jinghua and Uncle, I think, how much do we need to love to let us push away someone we love deeply? Love does not necessarily mean giving the other person what she needs, but rather what she thinks the other person should have, not what the other person deserves, but what she thinks the other person deserves. It is an achievement for a person, not possession. This principle is simple and profound.
Love makes us willing to make life better. The uncle before we met Jinghua went astray and became very decadent. He lived a life of delivering water during the day and watching more at night. He had no concept of the future. Feelings, let him slowly open his heart, be willing to care for others, and work hard for a common "future". Therefore, when he gave Jinghua a guide dog for the blind, when he renovated the room for her convenience, when he wanted to help her open a studio to solve life problems, we saw that he gradually became more cheerful and matured. Foresaw the sacrifices he was willing to make for love later. This is the power of emotion, it warms you first, and then allows you to warm others regardless of gain or loss. Some people say that the first reaction to falling in love with someone is low self-esteem. If you want to make yourself better, you must always have a thought and a hope in your life. Love should be the most gentle and beautiful one among them!
In reality, many people care more about the size of the house, the salary, the family background of their parents, and many, many things that make his life more comfortable and easier. But this seems to have been forgotten: love is the most important thing between partners. We no longer believe in love, or because of the ravages of time, we no longer believe that love will patronize us, so when establishing a marriage, we consider ourselves and each other's chips to find a balance to reach a deal. Therefore, I am fortunate to witness so many betrayals, family property disputes, extramarital affairs, and divorces. Love has become a luxury that can only be obtained by luck. In the past, we used to believe that even the poor could have love, but later we felt that love must be built on a certain material basis. Now, we are no longer confident in having love, but believe in it. Those "hard currencies". We are smart enough to understand that all emotions depend on time and place, and blindly paying may fail miserably. But it was also stupid enough to gradually forget the reason why the two were together. It's its absence from real life that makes the movie so moving.
For many people, maybe love is gone forever, maybe they have love all their lives, and some can only "make do" under various pressures. This is unacceptable, but it is not yours or mine. In the future, when we face this, we can understand the invaluable value of love, and we can seize it more bravely when fate favors it.
Life is short, and love is impossible. If only you can make me want to become a better version of myself, if only you are willing to make me give so much without expecting anything in return, then although this relationship is a luxury, it is also a necessity.
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