you have a choice

Americo 2022-12-02 20:44:17

After watching "Eavesdropping Storm", Long Yingtai used her sharp pen to shoot sharp arrows at people who are good at rationalizing themselves or their barbaric or injustice or cowardly or selfish behavior: "You have a choice."

Yes, you have choices. Before the crossroads, either left or right, the turning of life is at your own feet; or a smooth career, or an unintentionally awakened intuition of good and evil, like Weissler. Or a sweet love, or a tasteless marriage, like Harry; or to stay away from dreams for comfort, or to be displaced for ideals, like Bo Yang; or to be a dutiful son whose parents are not far away, or to become a crybaby With the "Jinse" thoughtful wanderer.

Yes, you have choices. Don't say that you have no choice, don't say that you have to. Everything is based on your own choices. Even if you really take others as the starting point and morality as the criterion, the ultimate beneficiary actually includes yourself. Or seek conscience comfort, or seek emotional satisfaction.

The story of Ehuang and Nuying is just a legend after all. Many things, after all, have to be weighed on both ends of the balance. If you want to Grasp all, you can often only lose all. The balance between the two can only be dynamic and short-lived in the game and see-saw. In life, perhaps it is a matter of constantly having to choose to give up and then choose, to move forward in an unbalanced and unbalanced manner. It is rare to be able to go straight to the end of life.

This is what suddenly came to my mind after watching this "Married Life", so I borrowed it as the title. Of course, compared to the two films, the latter is far less serious than the former, but they are both about human nature and the choice as a person of what to do at the crossroads.

It's funny, isn't it? Although, humorous, a little dark. Narcissus-style narcissism makes the couple in the play have different dreams and flowers outside the wall, but they are hesitant to pierce the last layer of screen paper and face divorce. Overestimating his own charm and influence, thinking that if the other party leaves him, there will be no second spring, so, driven by desire, strange logic begins to carefully set up a plan, murdering his wife, and directing to "A blessed release" run away. As everyone knows, how can people compare to the "actuary" of God? ! The candor he had made to his best friend some time ago actually planted the cause of jealousy and "wife". The allure of beauty. In front of the desire for love and jealousy, friendship is so vulnerable. The long years that have come all the way from childhood are not as good as the moment when a beautiful woman catches her eye.

Have you ever hesitated? some. once. One minute. Isn't fate always like this? A minute earlier, or a minute later, everything will be different. However, it happened to be this minute, neither sooner nor too late, so the crumbling marriage was stabilized, although the husband and wife were both crying and crying; Entering married life hand in hand, and slowly returning to the world of betrayed friends, the laughter and laughter are tacit.

Finally, amid the hustle and bustle of the room, Pierce Brosnan's elegant voiceover asked indifferently: "Did we build our happiness on the unhappiness of others? That's for you to judge. Whoever in this room knows what's going on in the mind of the people who sleep next to you, please, raise your hand. I know you can't, can't honestly."

Tell me, in a life full of mud and sand, who can hold a candle?

Just be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle. Though, you do have choice.

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Married Life quotes

  • Richard Langley: I'm not at all certain that one can build happiness upon the unhappiness of someone else

  • Richard Langley: Whoever in this room who knows what goes on in the mind of the person who sleeps next to you... please, raise your hand... I know you can't, not honestly...