I still clearly remember that spring 13 years ago, we were in Liuzhou, Guangxi. We met and fell in love as a young man. At that time, I liked watching movies, but every time I went to the city, there was a cinema. That time, we went to the workers' cinema in Yufeng District, Liuzhou City. I saw a sign that said: 30 yuan for adults and 15 yuan for students. I told my girlfriend that you looked relatively young (under 17 at the time), should you buy two student tickets? Then you went to buy them. The conductor didn’t let the student pass or something to buy the tickets smoothly. Let’s go see It seems that there are very few people in this movie. There were not many people watching it in movie theaters more than ten years ago. The storyline seems to be pretty good, after all, I rarely went to the theater at that time, and I rarely watched it. Being together ignorantly, ignorantly marrying and having children for more than ten years, after a lot of experience, feelings have become bumpy, and my heart seems to be farther and farther away. The only thing that remains unchanged is my love of movies. For more than ten years, I left my hometown and came to the remote frontiers, and my daily life was very monotonous. Apart from a few relatives and fellow villagers, I hardly know any other friends here. I don’t like to play with the people’s living habits. Many people's spare time is about eating, drinking, playing, playing mahjong, singing nightclubs, etc. I am disgusted and dislike it.
My only hobby in my spare time is to go to a movie occasionally, and I don’t go too much, because I don’t like a lot of cinema movies, but never once she agreed to go, and never once I went she didn’t get angry. Go alone, not happy, take her with the child, come back late at night, it is not easy to take a taxi, but also angry and said not to call me in the future.
The most serious one was when I went to watch "The Scorching Sun", and the reputation was very good. I must go to watch it.
I went back very late, and the first sentence of her meeting was: Don’t come back at this late in the future.
I was also very angry. I was staying at my mother's house at that time. I was disgusted with her, so I just said: I go back to my house, and I will come back whenever I want! (I really shouldn't say that, but I was very angry at the time. I didn't go on a date. Is it necessary for you?)
She ran out with her about one-year-old child on the spot, at 12 o'clock in the evening. As long as it is a normal person, I will chase it back, but I will never chase it. This is the little thing, I will never go. I think it’s too ridiculous. If you really can’t get through it anymore, you can run out in the middle of the night and not reach that point, so why bother? I came back with the baby the next day, I really don't understand the meaning of this. Later on, she said that she went out to find a hotel for one night. The lady boss looked at her and guessed that she was angry with her family and let her stay without an ID card.
Thinking about it now, it really shouldn't be right. If I ran out to do something, I would definitely feel guilty for a lifetime. If this happens in the future, you must chase it out.
Communicating with her countless times, can't listen. I said that we are no small people anymore, we are all mature, don't let each other be so tired! Give the other party a little free space to do what you want to do.
I met a local movie-watching organization and went to watch the movie twice. The first time she readily agreed (because she had been playing with her children for several days). The second time I was impatient, and it was more than 11 o'clock when I went back, and I started to get angry again.
The day before, I brought a few people who felt good and qualified to come to watch a movie at home. This has always been something I want to do. Some people with common interests come to watch movies at home (I have a home theater at home). But she always feels that there are bad people in the world, as long as strangers come to the house, there will be danger! I'm not stupid. I only need someone who feels good, has quality, and is familiar with it. Sure enough, when she came back from work, she was angry when she heard the child said about it. I would have calmed down if I coaxed, but I wouldn’t do that. I don’t want to coax. Later I found out that I deleted my WeChat again?
When I came back to the cafe for the second time, I was talking about me again. If you say you are going to take both of your sons in the future, I will play by myself. I will not take children at home. I said I'll go to a movie and come back three hours late. You don't need me to be with you 24 hours, right? Why are you so inseparable from me? Can't we have a little space? Have to stick together all the time? Keep going? She said, "How can you stay with me 24 hours a day? You go to work during the day and you come back to sleep alone at night (I don't sleep well most of the time I sleep in a room by myself), what time do you have with me?
I said it was because of this? Didn't sleep in the same bed together? Okay, let's start sleeping in a bed today. The impact will affect. Anyway, I can't sleep well? Then she won't be angry anymore. I thought I would be angry for a long time with my anger, woman, it’s so weird?????
After re-adding WeChat, she flipped through my circle of friends and said that this time, why can't it be in circle of friends when watching the movie? Isn't it your style? I said this movie is too ugly?
Next time, take it to the cafe and make some new friends together!
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