The first point (what
is love) is whether it is the same sex or the opposite sex. What exactly is love, we can easily subdivide it. In two individuals with little or no communication, two people without blood relationship or interest. Because of their personality charm, or male humor, gentleman. Do things, talk about interests and hobbies. Or women’s intelligence, kindness, beauty, love and self-independence and so on. Two people are in contact with each other, attracted, and more contact is more attracted so that they harmonize like gears. This is a rare and precious emotional contact, because everyone is a unique individual that cannot be copied. Without worrying about any emotional benefits, it is purely the harmony of soul, feelings and body. Strangers become lovers and sublimate into love. It's as if the heroine met the handsome and charismatic male lead in the bar. The woman's freedom and cheerfulness also attracted this man. It's like a man saying "Because I am not the kind of nerd you can meet in the library, because of my personality charm, because I am me so you fall in love with me" because of the unique charms of the two people and become together. With a partner, this is love.
The second point (what is marriage)
When a love sublimation and harmony reach its peak, marriage appears. This magnificent ceremony, sincere and moving blessings, is a sacred and powerful ceremony. Let love, the emotion that has reached saturation, rise to another seemingly beautiful point. Just like two being in love, the emotional fit is based on perfection when the man wants a child very much. The two naturally walked into the hall and held hands. The birth of marriage will be accompanied by responsibilities. When two people live together, they have to deal with their respective friendships and the family, which is full of responsibilities and conflicts. What's more is the mutual understanding and tolerance of two people from their respective lives to their union, and to take on more responsibilities. Including family relationships, everything is comprehensive. And the free and easy in personal charm, the priority and treatment in the interpersonal relationship of self and friends. It is precisely the contradiction that the family brings about taking responsibility as the main reason and forming a contradiction. It's like a man does not change his style as always. When a woman said that she wanted to divorce and separate, she said, "You love me, so we don’t need to be separated, and I won’t change. Because you fall in love with me because of me." Ironically, the two same words are put in marriage. Like a scumbag, he continues to do his own way, without responsibility, and tolerates women without scruple and consideration. This is the personality charm at the beginning of love. Great irony.
The third point (what happens from love to marriage?)
When a woman is in love and therapy, she is the most free and harmonious. When I am the happiest. Wanton laughter, even if it is the huge physical damage caused by the leg injury, physical torture. As long as you are yourself, the one you are in love, the other is yourself when you are hurt. Calm and humorous. Funny, real, delicate and happy. And marriage, whether it is reminiscing about her healthy body during the marriage process, or reminiscing about the spiritual damage brought about by marriage. Her spouse's wanton behavior in the marriage, lack of responsibility and tolerance, tortured her into nervousness, washed her face with tears, and even needed drugs to soothe herself. This marriage that she was doing her best prevented her from laughing and humorous anymore, she could only become a joke in front of the guests like a crazy woman. It's just because of this man who is self-conscious from beginning to end, a man who has never changed. And this is also brought about by marriage. It is useless for a person to take 99 steps alone. Just like after the first divorce, this man's usual charm and diligence, as well as the temporary compromise and weakness, let her find her self in love and fantasize that it will change and remain the same after recombination. Later, I discovered that some people will never change some things. So that they parted ways in the end. The meeting between the last two may be a relief and reconciliation. It's just that some people never know what responsibility and reconciliation are. It is completely impossible to leave a woman with a smile, trying to use marriage to maintain feelings and try to change a person. The cruel facts and plot have perfectly explained all this.
Suddenly I was thinking that marriage is the most ferocious in love, with a mask of hypocrisy and yellowish whitewashing. Because marriage is just a relationship of tolerance, reconciliation, advancement and retreat, beyond cooperation. And love is too perfect and harmonious, and the texture cannot tolerate any form of ritual to restrain it in an attempt to change and sublimate it. Some people understand that responsibilities will change before they get married, but some people never understand or even understand and will not make any changes.
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