Talk about a real thing that happened around me

Barton 2022-01-22 08:01:59

Because I replied to a sentence in other film reviews, and then was said to stand on a moral high point and to blame others for unintentional and untargeted wrongdoing, is it a crime for the family in this movie? Don't comment, just talk about one thing that really happened around me.
The person involved is a couple. I have seen the man several times and the woman only once. The first time I saw them, it was also because the girl’s classmates introduced them to each other. A group of people ate together. The girl’s classmate was my good friend, and the boy was in the neighborhood not far from me. It was this dinner that the two met, and then developed a lover relationship. Because the two of them quickly disclosed their relationship, the boy and I are in the same QQ group, and we can hear news from them every day. However, the good times didn't last long. The boys took the girls home to see their parents. On the surface, they were very satisfied, but there were hidden feelings behind them. The girl is from a province from another province and has a wealthy family. She has a coal mine at home. Although the family business must be inherited by her younger brother, she must be loved by her parents. She went to Australia to exchange for two years when she was in college. , Can be regarded as Bai Fumei. The boy is the second generation of the army, his father is a demobilized cadre at the assistant teacher level, his mother is a senior teacher in a public institution, and the boy himself is a civil servant and looks pretty good. We thought it was right to be a door-to-door business, but the man’s parents didn’t think so. The boys themselves said that his father said that his grandfather was the end of his class, and his father was retiring after he changed his career. If you have the ancestors and ancestors, looking for such a girl from a foreign country, she is a business man who has no foundation in politics and can't help at all, okay? Of course, the boys just said so in the QQ group, not in front of the girls.
Although the parents were negative in their hearts, they did a good job of face-saving. They picked up girls to eat every week. One day the girl fell ill because the boys were civil servants in the suburbs and the girls lived in the city, so the boys called their fathers. I went to take a look, and then the boy’s father complained that it’s good to find a local girl. I don’t know how to have these troubles. Not only can I help you in the official career, but in the future, if you have a child, you can also help you take it. You can find someone Outside, trouble is everywhere. The boys told us so in the group. We can only provide comfort. If the girl's family is so rich, you can hire a babysitter. Don't worry. However, the boys withdrew from the group and did not show up for a while. When they reappeared, they came to their introducer, the girl’s college classmate. Only then did we know what happened.
About two months after the boys took the girls home to meet their parents, they opened the room and went to bed. It was not the first time for boys, but girls. The boys said this by themselves, even though his parents had rejected her as a daughter-in-law at the time. Possibly, but on the surface, she played very well. The girl thought she was already the prospective daughter-in-law of someone else's family, and the girl's parents came to Wuhan to play, and the boys also went to meet. Soon the girl found out that she was pregnant. By this time, the girl had already returned to her hometown for the New Year. Boys go to check their parents. Parents say that fun is okay, but marriage is impossible. If you find one like this, you will have to work hard on your own in the future. The boy probably rushed to the girl’s home during the Spring Festival, begging her to have an abortion, saying that he was still young and didn’t want to get married, and waited for two years to get back to the city to get married. The girl was persuaded and aborted. After the end of the year, the girl came back, and the boys continued to maintain a relationship with her. They often opened houses. However, the girls discovered that the boys would never take her home to see their parents. The girls called the boys’ parents, and their parents directly persuaded them. Please let my son go. He has to go on a different road than you. Then he will be blacklisted and won't answer the phone. The boys really couldn't coax them off, so they said that since the abortion, the boys told their parents that they had broken up with her. When the girl listened, she collapsed. She asked her parents to reason, but the phone couldn't get through, so she went straight to the door, and the whole family disappeared and moved to another house.
Now the boys come to the girls’ classmates, just begging him to persuade the girls to get out of trouble and stop harassing their family members. The girl’s classmate refused, and the boy’s mother called directly and said that there is such a selfish girl in the world who wants to ruin the future of others. Love depends on willingness. If others don’t want her, she wants to marry her? My friend said that love depends on voluntariness. It does not mean that you can just run away after going to bed. It does not mean that you can ask your parents to open a house after breaking up. The boy’s mother is so angry that the boy’s mother hangs up the phone.
Then the thing that surprised me the most happened. Our group itself is a group of friends and colleagues. There are not many people. There are about 20 people. A few people and I directly said that this boy is not only a scumbag, but the whole family is scumbag. A few boys said that this girl had IQ problems and her brain was hypoxic, and she deserved it if she liked this kind of guy, and a few girls said that this girl must be a family that wants to become an official, and she is not capable of it, but she was played by others. , The purpose is not achieved, and it is said that girls themselves are not good people, they dare to go to bed after a few months of talking with friends, and their private lives are usually chaotic, and that men are also poor. Born in this kind of family, marriage cannot be autonomous.
What did the man say? He said, I dare not say anything else. There is one thing you can't refute. I'm right. I didn't break the law at all. The laws of any country in the world can't judge me as a crime. So no matter how you think I am a scumbag, I didn't feel that I did something wrong. If I did something wrong, let the police arrest me and send me to jail.
My friend found the girl directly and said that the man is a civil servant, as long as you are willing to write a report letter, you save the text message as evidence, I teach you, I can let him never think about doing anything in this business for the rest of his life, I can Let his whole unit know how scumbag he is. However, another group of people jumped out of the group and said not to do this. The guy didn’t mean to hurt you, and he had no other choice. Why should you be so venomous that you would not love you again? .
What was the result of the incident? The girl committed suicide, was rescued, and sent back to her hometown. The boy was brought back to the city by her parents' activities. The trustee introduced a second-generation official, who soon lied to bed and married her son.
If you say that you don’t have to violate the law and you don’t have to go to jail, you don’t feel that what you have done is wrong or evil. This is true insensitivity.
I have never believed that good is rewarded for good, and evil is rewarded for evil, because so many people are looking for reasons and excuses for doing evil, and they repeatedly condone them, and at the same time put all kinds of moral shackles on the hurt people to force them. They forgive. If they do not choose to forgive, they will become worse than the wicked and less worthy of sympathy. In this case, retribution will occur? Confucius has said that if you repay grievances by virtue, how can you repay virtue?

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An Inspector Calls quotes

  • Arthur Birling: [about his workers] If you don't come down hard on some of these people, they'll soon be asking for the earth.

    Gerald Croft: [obsequiously] That's right.

    The Inspector: They might. But it's better to ask for the earth than to take it.

  • [last lines]

    Arthur Birling: [hanging up the phone] A girl has died. Suicide. A police inspector is on his way to ask us some questions.