If the world remains unchanged, it will only bury love for more crimes

Rusty 2022-06-11 22:34:12

Movies with lesbian themes are not easy without the hardships of vigorously rendering together, ingeniously focusing on the reaction of the family after the heroine comes out.
I really like some of the scenes and some dialogues. The excerpts are as follows, with spoilers.


[The conversation between Jenny and Kitty in the car before deciding to come out to the family]

-You are not motion sickness, you are just afraid to walk in.
-What if I am scared.
-Then you can't do it. If you are ashamed of yourself... -I
don't, I am not ashamed of myself.
-You always say that, but I am still confused. Why do you tell everyone, but you can't tell your family?
-Because they live in a small circle, they have a good time...I just couldn't find the right opportunity to...drop this bomb.
-You have been hiding it for a long time, that's what you are really afraid of. When you tell them, you will change how they think about you.


[Rose's reaction after Jenny came out to her mother Rose]

You can do whatever you want. But I beg you, for my sake, don't tell others not to do it now. Because if you do nothing, everything will be business as usual. Maybe everything is different for you, but your life is no longer here. If you don't like what's happening here, you can just leave and I can't. This place, these people, they are part of my life, and I have to be here and live with them. I love you Jenny, nothing can change a little. But I also have my own life, you can't just change my life like this.


[Mother Rose met with Jenny after learning about the wedding]

When you were a little girl, I imagined your wedding, I thought about helping you choose silverware and tableware, your porcelain, helping you choose your wedding dress... Now I don’t know if you will wear it. Wedding dress...you might wear a suit...or you wear a wedding dress Kitty wears a suit...and where did you get married? Not in church... church doesn’t allow this... this kind of thing... I’m a step-by-step person... I cook, follow the cookbook... and dance, I don’t like your kind of dance... I like dance steps, I like to follow Konka dance dance dance ... like ... I always jump the same pace ... I like Konka dance, I know how that dance should skip the wedding ... but I do not know how to do ...


[Jenny marriage hearing to inform her sister Anne]

- we Sister, why haven't you told me all these years?
-Come on, Anne, we never really shared our secrets. The reason is, for example, if you see me and Kitty together, but you come to me, you go directly to my mother.
-...What you said makes sense.


[Michael’s reaction after Jenny came out to his brother Michael]

My God, Jenny, you are sometimes too pessimistic. I mean, you have thought that if you hide your sexuality from others all your life, you won't have a chance to understand what other people are like. I didn't disagree, okay? I will go back to your wedding, you are my sister.


[The quarrel between Jenny and his father]

Tell you, I'm grown up. I used to care too much about your feelings, but now it’s not. Why should I care? You actually told me that you met the right person, you know, have you and my mother changed anyone? Still the cowards who are full of lies, from now on, I only care about my feelings and my own affairs. If you don't like this, you can leave my life. Believe me, I won't miss you, I will live more easily. If all you can do is tolerate me and you leave, I will be happier


[Rose’s reaction when I found out that my friend was talking about Jenny behind my back]

Tell me, Marion, is your daughter normal? Is it the right thing to do? She got pregnant by a stranger and threw the baby to you for support! Also, Karen and her useless husband have never been able to find a job! Nibble on you and Denny's old man, I ran out of your pensions! They are normal and right, just because they are men and women! Or a woman sleeps a man! But Jenny is... she... is generous and kind, and has never hurt anyone. She just wants to marry the woman she loves, so is she abnormal? Jenny is great, I love her, only one thing is wrong, I didn't support her.


[Anne, who has been unhappy in life, is about to divorce her husband]

When I saw that the lawn was dry, I realized that I was not happy. The lawn raised by happy people will not wither. It's like the problem of chickens and eggs. I don't know whether there is a chicken or an egg first, whether there is happiness or a green lawn first. So I watered it first, the more watered, the happier I was, and then the lawn came alive.


[Dialogue between neighbors and couples before Jenny's wedding]

-We were all present the night Jenny was born. I always thought we would attend her wedding.
-Why do you think that two women in wedding dresses walk across the red carpet of the hotel, how come they are married?
-Jenny thinks so.
-what?
-Jenny made me think so.


[Father finally attended the wedding]

No, these are not the main points, I am not angry. I left because I... I think, I was hurt... You said you didn't want me to appear in your world, you said it would be easy for you to say that I was not there, you said... You said you would not miss me... unlike me, You said you don’t miss me... I’m your dad. In the past, no one would love you more than me. In the future, no one can compare. How can you miss me... You know, when... When I get hurt, I don’t Will talk about it, I will leave, I do it every time. But, I can’t leave your side...So, if you can, you are my daughter, and I hope I’ll take you on the red carpet...



The words of Jenny's family in the film made me cry several times. Because I have an uncle, her daughter is gay, the kind of T that can be seen at a glance, my mother told me several times, I don't know how to answer. Because to be honest, I don't know if this kind of thing happens to me or not if I can completely accept it. But I know that most parents cannot accept it. Fortunately, the uncle, although he could not accept it, because of his love and tolerance for his daughter, he finally acquiesced in allowing his daughter and girlfriend to live in the house.

Sexuality is not something you can choose, there is no right or wrong. Why do people who work hard and live hard have so many crimes because of their sexuality? The words of my mother Rose made me cry like a fool. Yes, irresponsible people are normal only because they are heterosexual; while responsible and hardworking people are criticized or even cursed because of their sexuality. this is not fair.

Human sexuality should never be a crime. What people do is the eternal criterion.

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Jenny's Wedding quotes

  • Michael: Has it ever occurred to you that, if you spend your life lying to people about who you are, you never get to know who they are?