There is no so-called elite temperament, fashionable look and feel that modern workplace movies use fast and slow motion switching, soft light, close-up of handsome men and beauties, and post-production special effects rendering. Lots of simple long shots, facial close-ups. In the morning, the whole city rushed to the workplace, the trivia of employees in the elevator hallway, the group makeup of the women in the office was ready to start... The vivid daily pictures, accompanied by light and cheerful music, presented the original urban flavor of the Soviet Union. How should I put it, although it depicts the life of different countries in different times, there is a sense of simplicity and intimacy.
Because the recommendation said it was a movie depicting a Leo woman, I felt a little bit immersed in it when I watched it, and I was a little bit curious, and I didn’t know what kind of woman a Leo was in the eyes of others.
At the beginning of the story, the heroine (Kalukina, Director of the Bureau of Statistics) has a vague office image, rigid and rigid like an efficient machine. Really reluctant to admit that this cold, hard role is Leo. It is shameless to say that from the point of view of myself and the Leo women around, it may not be beautiful, but it must be confident and infectious, and it will never be rigid and boring.
But the turning point in that crying scene was amazing and instantly changed my mind. Many of the details surrounding this crying scene are quite similar to what would happen to Leo women, to be precise, all women who are soft-hearted but love to die.
One, don't cry easily, at least not in front of people, after a long time of depression, it will suddenly collapse because of a small fuse. When the heroine was accused by the hero (employee Novaselitsev) of being a "cold-blooded animal with no human emotion" at the party, she pretended to be calm, "Why are you angry? It is very meaningful to understand the true thoughts of the subordinates", presumably It is the pressure of the hurt feelings. I couldn't hold it until the next day. As the crying voice was slowly exposed, the grievances were slowly revealed, and the weak side of the little woman was also revealed. There are a few words that are particularly charming and irritating, and they have to be ignored—“Don’t point fingers here, I am the leader here! I can do whatever I want! I am the master, and I am the mistress of this place!” “Then Why are you messing with me?" I was overjoyed.
I especially resonated with this crying scene because that's who I am. Usually I don’t cry no matter how sad or difficult it is, but the negative emotions will always explode once every six months. The burst point is also very strange. Some pedestrians ask for directions without saying thank you, and my friends do not reply to text messages, which can suddenly make me collapse. The last time I burst into tears at Starbucks, I made the friend across from me wonder whether to laugh or cry. After crying for two hours in a row, I finished crying for half a year of grievances...
Second, I was too serious at work to be strong, but I neglected my own life. Even though Kalukina was crying, and when she poured out her thoughts, she did not forget to ask "what did the minister say on the phone just now?" She is strict with herself, and the same with her subordinates, so at the beginning she thought that the male protagonist was confused, unmotivated, and not serious.
But the truth is, people who work so hard that they squeeze their lives are actually living for fame.
You can't lose to your colleagues, otherwise how to keep yourself irreplaceable; you can't lose to yourself, you can't do better than last time, otherwise how can people feel that your talents are reliable. In this way, colleagues will become more and more dependent on you, and leaders will become more and more accustomed to entrusting things to you. As a result, you have won reputation, but you have been living for others and lost yourself.
A line of dialogue in the film shows a complete change in the heroine's mentality-"My reputation is very good, I think it's time to destroy it". I believe this sentence makes many people who have been living hard and cautiously shout out "Happy"! I am one of them.
I'm also the kind of person who's picky about myself and lately trying to "destroy" my good name. Because I have been forcing myself to do well, the longer an excellent record is maintained, the more reluctant to break it. But in fact, it is enough to achieve 80 points in work, and the world turns like no one else. Don't take yourself too seriously. Making small, innocuous mistakes on purpose will give yourself some space.
Third, the performance after crying is also wonderful. Immediately restored to the invulnerable proud devil head model, pretending to be free and easy to say, "I'm very good! I lead an agency, and the minister just praised me." Disappointing the male protagonist, "I thought you were the real you in the morning".
For this type of woman, you can't imagine that she has always exposed her soft side to you. For her, weakness is embarrassing, and she is reluctant to use weakness to gain pity and love.
Fourth, be smart, but don't pretend to be stupid. According to the male protagonist's description, he is "insightful" and can always see through the other party's true thoughts and expose them in person. This kind of sharpness is unbearable for ordinary people, but it is also cute and straightforward. Especially when she found out that the male protagonist was sitting on her desk imitating her speech, she deliberately played the role of the male protagonist and pointed out the reasons why the male protagonist was not suitable to be the director. This exchange of identities is particularly fun, and it also imitates a man who uses scissors to trim his beard.
It's a pity that not all men can tolerate a woman's insight. Some so-called happiness can only be maintained by being stupid.
PS. After the heroine suddenly turned into a fashion girl, she was exactly the same as my previous Leo female leader. Hairstyles, clothing styles, confident postures, and joking looks are all too similar! I would like to recommend it to her.
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