After watching the movie, I only express a little personal superficial opinion:
For the first time, the heroine felt the feeling of liking. Facing the other party, she was reserved, pretending to be cold, but secretly moved, and seeing him with others broke her heart. As a thirteen-year-old girl, these actions and feelings are very real. I'm probably the same, but I often die in the first step of being reserved and cold. Although she pretended to be reserved, she still used various opportunities such as dances to get close to the male protagonist.
Maybe I'm not romantic enough? Not brave enough.
They are not afraid of being hurt, they are brave to love. Marriages can also be accompanied by extramarital affairs, but they are only episodes, mistakes made by passion and impulse, not because of not loving your partner. Love should be long-lasting, inclusive, and selfish. The father cheated first, and the mother cheated later. The father thought that his wife was pregnant with a third-party child, but he could sit down and discuss it calmly. After the mother was insulted, he actually went to sleep with the third-party. In the end, however, the two reunited. This kind of behavior is of course not in line with our social value cognition. We feel that marriage is sacred and responsible, and it is a promise for a lifetime after an oath. But the three views of this film believe that people can make mistakes, but as long as love is still there, mistakes can be forgiven. It depends on where everyone's bottom line is, and not everyone knows exactly where the bottom line is. Only when a person is really faced with such a situation, can he experience the emotions of the real reaction, coupled with a series of external factors (social status, money, interpersonal relationships, etc. after divorce), can people find out their bottom line in pain.
I think you can still fall in love at the university level, worry less about your future age, and grow up a little more and you need to consider more comprehensive factors of interests, but why might you just have no luck?
Who knows, what will happen in the future, what kind of people and things will happen.
Everyone walks on their own unique lifeline, and there is no need to force anything.
Also: The famous scene & the boy who appeared at the end is so handsome
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