After watching this film, I think the most outstanding part of it is the portrayal of several female characters. They experience love in different ways, but each of them is so free, casual, and love for love's sake.
Let's talk about Wei first, as a 13-year-old girl, the ignorance of adolescence and the hormones that are just around the corner are the biggest characteristics of this period. So she fell in love with a boy easily. It's normal to be happy because of being with him, but sad and lost. These emotions that come and disappear in a flash are normal. And she thought lying in his arms was proof of their love for each other. Seeing him hugging with other girls made Wei sad, but instead of feeling bad and not good enough, she tried to provoke him. When Wei came all the way to find the boy and learned that he couldn't be with her all the time, she naturally got angry and left without hesitation. When she met another boy, she suddenly fell into another tempting and confused love.
Maybe adolescent love mostly comes from hormonal impulses. The performance of the previous generation's love is to join this layer of marriage and family. Therefore, the shaping of the mother's role is more plump and meticulous.
Wei's mom is a busy cartoonist and has been married to her husband for years, and that hormonal urge has subsided. She runs a busy job and manages her appearance well. After her husband broke his leg, she specially rented a set of protective equipment suitable for sleeping on the bed for him. She cares and trusts her husband.
After knowing that her husband cheated, she was sad, but her attitude was very firm. She didn't blame her husband, and she didn't cry out that she was pitiful or ashamed. Instead, there is a very clear way to deal with it. First, it is explained that they want to separate, and then the mistress is torn by hand. Have an attitude!
Although I was dating a German teacher, I kept the bottom line and didn't make any deviant behaviors. Dignity has a bottom line.
On the night when my husband made an exception to go home, I could see that my mother still had a deep love for her husband, and she prepared breakfast thoughtfully the next day, but she still refused her husband's request to go home. Stick to your own rules!
Including going to Africa with the fetus and teacher in the womb, and finally choosing a husband. These few turning points, it can be seen that the mother clearly recognizes what love she wants, who she wants to love, and in what way. No one in the marriage and family can make predictions about those unknown relationships. In the face of these injuries, my mother did not humbly ask or test, even if it was her overnight relationship with her teacher, she did not humbly ask for forgiveness. She clearly knew that she was in a free and equal position in this love. Not humblely attached to anyone. So the image of my mother impressed me too deeply.
And these characters and ways of doing things should come from my grandmother. That is, Wei's great-grandmother. Grandma is an old and fashionable person, an old lady with an unusual personality. Even passers-by can't accept my grandmother's education. She took the initiative to take Wei to the other place to find the boy, help her take pictures of the boy she likes, and make suggestions for her love. It's really a highlight moment for my grandmother to help my mother smash the scene.
Although my grandmother is not married, she is the most free, even arrogant, in the face of loving her. She also has admirers, and she enjoys the relationship. I feel that my grandmother is the kind of straight-ball heroine in the current sweet pet drama.
Several different forms of love have the same attitude, that is, there is no need to humbly pray, but to love freely.
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