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Jennings 2022-10-27 21:49:03

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"Stay in Time" tells a story that can't keep time, and is very stubborn, to keep

The film coexists the past tense and the present progressive tense, the memory is synchronized with the present moment, and the way of interlude is not abrupt at all.

The movie takes the male protagonist's life as the main clue. He is not in harmony with his family, his work is not smooth, there are no more than three disasters, and he has cancer. The originally turbulent life has become more turbid. How to tell his family and his lover has become a problem. The emotions that have stayed since he was a child have not helped him, but have become an obstacle.

Change the name to a more fashionable name, it can probably be called, no, fashion is not worthy of this movie, this movie is worth staying, no need to keep up with the times

The male protagonist is a photographer, with his own style and range of control

also uncontrollable

In addition to the uncontrollable work, the body is also uncontrollable

The first question the male protagonist asks when he finds out that he is ill is "is it AIDS?" This sentence is not only asked for himself, but also for his boyfriend

The second question is how long to live, this sentence is for more people

The father of the male protagonist is not good at expressing and is too forbearing. I really love the children, especially the male protagonist. When sending the male protagonist home, I care about the relationship between the male protagonist and her boyfriend. I see that the male protagonist still buys heroin and sits in the car and sighs, and asks the male protagonist not to do stupid things. , although under the pretext of "your mother can't take it"

But swimming in marriage, occasionally swimming into restricted areas. The male protagonist asked him why he didn't get a divorce, he smiled before answering, and answered because of love. Even the male protagonist knows that this kind of excuse is only half the truth

The grandmother of the male protagonist, who lives alone, pays attention to romance, and is romantic in the details and words of life. After listing her pile of drugs, she said to the male protagonist, "Tonight, I am very willing to face death with you."

Therefore, it is not difficult to know why the male protagonist loves her and relies on her, even more than his mother and lover. I planned to tell my parents, but I couldn't open my mouth. I planned to tell my lover, but I couldn't open my mouth, but I can tell it calmly on my grandma's side.

The grandson relies on her to love her, but the son does not love himself. The reason is because she left some shadows on his childhood.

For the father, the son relies on his mother more than himself, and the reason is the same, because he left some shadows on his childhood

The male protagonist, father, and grandmother are actually the same type of people, and each of the three generations has spent some bad times for each other.

It's just that grandma lived a free and easy life and knew the direction of her life. Although she was not responsible to her father, she was responsible enough to herself.

The father who spent too much negative time in his childhood wanted to be responsible for everyone, but didn't know how to be responsible for himself

Knowing that the marriage is powerless but still forcibly staying, knowing that the son needs more love from him, but always restrained, when sending his son home, the son kisses him, but obviously dodges

The male protagonist is also eager to be responsible to his family and lovers. Earlier, he was in a cautious state. He went home for dinner and practiced how to speak calmly and tenderly in front of the mirror at the door. In the bathroom, he was advised by his mother to treat his divorced sister gently, but before leaving. The chat time suddenly clashed

I want to tell my boyfriend, but I forcibly separate each other under the pretext of not loving, and say sorry after my boyfriend leaves

After the boyfriend leaves, take out the camera to leave a memory, leaving every demeanor and part he wants to leave behind

After separating from his grandmother, the male lead gradually brightened

After receiving the letter from his sister, the male protagonist is brighter

The relationship with my sister, loving but sharp, and switching from time to time in childhood is mostly related to my sister, and my sister relies on each other.

My sister divorced and raised two children alone. After arguing with the male lead, she sent a letter, hoping to get back together

The male protagonist also wants to reconcile with his sister. Due to the deterioration of his condition, out of not knowing how to deal with it, out of fear of losing control of his emotions again and causing harm, and out of protecting his sister, the male protagonist is still cautious, and is only a few hundred meters away from his sister. Watching sister and nephew play, left alone behind their backs

After the phone call, pick up the camera to take pictures of my sister, sister and nephew

The male protagonist also wants to reconcile with his ex-boyfriend and meet his ex-boyfriend again. The ex-boyfriend thanks him for introducing him to a job.

The male protagonist wants his ex-boyfriend to feel his heartbeat, he hopes the heartbeat can keep beating

He agreed to surrogacy requests from infertile couples in the service area, and he made a will that vested all the property in "his children." And want to feel his child, eager to feel the child's beating vitality

After explaining everything, it seems that he has reserved his time and left it to the next generation

The male protagonist went to the beach and recorded others with a camera. A boy's ball ran to him. He picked it up and returned it to the boy. This boy was him when he was a child.

Returning the ball to my childhood self is like a handover on another level

Then he lay contentedly on the beach, weeping but comfortable enough

Let people go, the tide ebbs, the sun sets, let time not stay, just leave the rest to yourself

At the beginning of the movie, a boy appears on the beach, and the boy is the male protagonist. From childhood to the present, he has finally fulfilled his dream of the beach, and finally he is no longer the person watching the exhibition, but also will stay in time.

The movie is over.

A few snippets worth staying:

1. After the male protagonist learned of cancer, before entering his parents' house, he practiced how to express himself in the mirror. He used "I love you"

2. After the male protagonist learned of cancer, he went back to his parents' house and hallucinated himself in the bathroom. A boy appeared in the mirror. This was the first time he appeared as a child. The male protagonist was very surprised by the boy's appearance.

3. The male protagonist has repeatedly expressed that he does not like the child. The first time was before the dispute between his parents and his sister, and the male protagonist expressed that he did not like the child; the second time was when the surrogate couple made a surrogacy request, the male protagonist said that he did not like the child; and When my sister called, she said that she didn't like the child, but in the end she was willing to accept surrogacy and was looking forward to the child

4. When I received the letter of reconciliation from my sister, at the beginning of reading the letter, the flowers were half-draped, and after reading the letter, the flowers became dried flowers

5. After saying goodbye to his sister, the male protagonist came to the church and met his childhood self again. He played with his ex-boyfriend when he was a kid. After his ex-boyfriend kissed him, he ran away, leaving the two of them disappointed.

The hero's eyes

6. After the male protagonist said goodbye to the surrogate couple, on the bus to the beach, he encountered a crying baby whose mother was breastfeeding. The male protagonist's eyes were both tender and reluctant.

7. The male protagonist's father sent the male protagonist home, the male protagonist hugged his father, and the father said "good night, son"

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  • [Romain's mother expresses her interest in Romain taking photographs of the family]

    Sophie: Save you breath, Mom. We're not hip enough. He prefers actresses and models.

    La mère: Don't say that. He just hasn't had time yet.

    Le père: Of course.

    Romain: No, she's right.

    La mère: Why do you say that?

    Romain: I don't want to photograph her kids.

    Le père: Romaine, stop.

    Sophie: Leave it, Dad.

    Romain: And you know why? Because they sprang from you, and your ugly mug would be in the picture. It makes me want to puke.

    La mère: Romaine, stop it!

    Romain: No wonder your man left. It's like you made the kids alone.

  • Le père: How are things with Sasha?

    Romain: Not bad, not great. We'll probably break up soon.

    Le père: Shit. Why?

    Romain: Like in all couples, routine kills desire.