Father's Model - Chen Daoming in "Tangshan Earthquake"

Kellen 2022-11-07 10:01:22

Caption: No matter whether it is positive or negative, I don't need to add any comment to the film. I'm also just recording my feelings about another line in it that goes beyond the film itself.


Parents are always the backers, the last protection, and the most staunch supporters of a child's life. Father's
love is even more generous.

Watching "Tangshan Earthquake" on the weekend, I couldn't help crying several times, all of which were the scenes of the adoptive father played by Chen Daoming.
I don't want to praise Chen Daoming's acting skills here, because there is no doubt about it. I just want to talk about my father and my father's love on a case-by-case basis.
This role has set an example for all fathers in the world.
This low-key and kind man is full of scars Fang Deng has created a warm family and is also the most staunch supporter of the girl's life course.

He raised Fang Deng as his own child, and regarded her as the apple of his eye. When the child didn't want to talk, he would not force him to ask questions, but gave the child space and time to adapt slowly; when he had a headache, he rubbed her head until later, When she has a headache, her daughter will pinches her head like her adoptive father. Maybe the pressure of her fingertips relieves her, which represents her father's support and peace of mind. There are also a lot of trash.”
Parents in today’s society are so reluctant to express their love for their children in this way.
When a child has a headache, some parents will talk to their children so gently and gently rub their children. Temple.
The matter of the university entrance examination is even more. We often hear that parents say, you must pass the entrance examination, so that you can give me your best! Ah! Not to mention a statement like Chen Daoming.
Some things, parents don't really understand what we need, many things are for their face, not really for the children.

He loves his daughter. When her daughter was pregnant and ran away, he put down his dignity as a soldier and beat the heartless man. On the court, Chen Daoming's face became more and more ugly. He seemed calm, but he was actually extremely angry. Lu Yi just slapped him hard, and the slap was so hard, the harder it was, the more he showed his love for his daughter. Then he almost growled: I'm not looking for you and I'm not looking for you? This sentence alone brought tears to my eyes. Because this father understands his daughter and knows that his daughter has been wronged because of this boy. He is not like many parents in today's society, he will only scold his daughter and say, "Why are you so stupid!" Even "the person who lost us before you got pregnant, we don't have your daughter!" Instead, he educated the other party for his daughter's grievances.
What a blessing it is to have a father like Chen Daoming! We have already suffered outside. Aggrieved, we can't do anything to the heartbreaker, how much we wish we could go back to our own home and lick our own wounds. My father also beat the heartbreaker for us. In addition to feeling that we have the best father in the world, we can also How.

A few years later, when his daughter appeared before him with his granddaughter, his father's love was beyond words. He even forgot to participate in the chorus of the group meeting, and he was too busy to tell his comrades that his daughter had come back with The granddaughter came back and wanted to share this joy with everyone right away. In the eyes of her daughter, her father was always so tall that she bought a down jacket. The father asked, "Where have you been for so many years?" Zhang Jingchu explained The reason for disappearing in these years is that I feel ashamed to see my father, and I am afraid that he will worry. At this time, Chen Daoming suddenly slammed the armrest of the sofa, almost shouting: So I won't be worried, I've been worried every day for the past few years. In the silent living room, Chen Daoming stood up from the sofa, two lines of tears pouring out of his eyes. It was this scene that made me cry in the cinema of Nuoda University.

Why are we sometimes reluctant to tell our parents when we have something to say?
I hope my parents' love can be properly expressed. I know they love me, but theirs The way we express it, and the misdirection caused by the problem of the way we express it, prevents us from opening our hearts to them.
Home is the warmest place. When we are wronged outside, even knowing that we have made mistakes and shameless to go home and finally have the courage to go home, we can return to the warmest place to heal, but often, we get It will be a scolding, or a long-term nagging. If my father can be like Chen Daoming, I will go home and tell my parents first. Because I am sure that they love me and understand me.

No matter in good times or bad, I hope that I can be spoiled by my parents as a princess.
Parents can always be my backers, my last protection, and the most staunch supporters in my life!

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Extended Reading
  • Kellen 2022-03-18 09:01:08

    If this movie is called "A Family in Tangshan" or "A Family in the Fall of Heaven", it may be much more peaceful for everyone to accept it. In fact, I feel the most pity that there will never be a movie called "Tangshan Earthquake" again.

  • Amani 2022-03-18 09:01:08

    First of all, I don't think Feng Tao is using the earthquake to make money. There are always special times when he needs to use artistic means to remember that day for those who have never experienced it. On the contrary, I think this kind of subject matter and content is still worth seeing, not just earthquakes, but more of the blood and water affection. Secondly, the acting skills of the actors are remarkable, they are very devoted and passionate, and in some parts of the scene, I even feel so sad that I almost cried. ~

Aftershock quotes

  • Li Yuanni: But I'm against it precisely because of your dad and elder sis. The last time we moved, I had to tell them exactly how to get to our new place. And I've been telling them constantly for more than 20 years. If I were to move again, I would've to tell them the new directions. I can't keep telling them anymore. I'm tired of telling them. End of discussion. I'm not moving anywhere.

  • Fang Da: The 1976 earthquake destroyed my mom's entire life. Her heart... was shattered like debris. Do you know what my mom often says?

    Volunteer of Tangshan rescue team at 2008 Sichuan earthquake: What?

    Fang Da: Only after you've lost something, then do you truly know what loss is. The houses that fell had been rebuilt. But the house in my mom's heart was never put together again. 32 years have passed, yet the old lady continues passing the days guarding the ruins of her heart.