I admit that my mood is still in a low ebb. This low ebb has been going on for more than half a year and it has not improved. The main manifestation is that there is something wrong. When I wake up and drink alone, the low ebb is even worse. Alcohol is a mood booster, and so are movies. During the day, I suddenly had an idea, today's movie night, I want to watch an old movie that can move me, with a low mood and whisky, it's best to make me cry but not enough to burst into tears, So I thought of "Soul Broken Blue Bridge".
So when night fell, the hour hand passed nine o'clock exactly, and the wine I drank for dinner in my stomach was almost digested, I poured a glass of the naked grouse, double-clicked the mouse, and the movie started. As I watched, one keyword after another kept popping up in my head—love at first sight, war and love, Cinderella and the rich second generation—and none of them resonated with me. Until the end of the whole film, I finally found a suitable topic for this article, which is the title of this article.
All men have a bunch of brothers, but every woman has only one best friend. The so-called girlfriends, Baidu Encyclopedia explained: they are female friends who can stand the test of mundane affairs, can tell each other their sincerity, trust each other, depend on each other, no matter how far the situation is, they can sincerely bless each other. Putting aside the first half of the sentence, the relationship between a woman's best friend can really arouse the envy of an emotional man. It is said that three women are in one play, but the things between the two women are also warm enough.
I once told a female friend that I wanted to write a novel featuring several women as the protagonists, and the friend mocked me and said that it was impossible to write well. I ask why? She replied because you are a man. I was a bit resentful at first, because I had always called myself a feminist, claiming to know a lot about women. But after thinking about it carefully, what she said was the truth. As the opposite side of gender, the girlfriends I see may only talk about basic necessities, food, housing, work, life and feelings, or go shopping side by side for dinner, and at most I can hear some naked hugging and sharing the same bed, other girlfriends are more secretive relationship, it is really difficult to see the leopard. This scenery only belongs to women. It is beautiful, fresh, and beautiful. When two men reach this level, it is a bit unpleasant.
My past experience tells me that as a man, we must face up to the existence of best friends around every woman. If you pursue a woman, you must also have the mentality of pleasing her best friend. It can even be said that to pursue a woman, not only let her like you, but also let her best friend like you. If this mentality is set right and done well, then the best friend can act as the lubricant between the two in love, just like Matchmaker is to Yingying, and Kitty is to Myra in this play. ! Don't you see, if it wasn't for Kitty who secretly passed on Roy after the show, I'm afraid the romantic scene of the Candlelight Club would have been killed by Madame korowai. Where is the poignant story behind? Of course, if you can't handle the relationship with your best friend and anger her, or if you fail to make a good impression since the beginning, the consequences can be imagined. I have made such a mistake. As a result, every time I go out with my lover, his best friend will accompany him like the eldest sister protecting the younger sister. People are uncomfortable. This is still the case in front of people, not to mention the fact that he is completely deaf when he is in private with his best friend.
Different from men's righteousness and stabbing swords, the mutual assistance between girlfriends is more calm and flowing. When Roy went with the army to the European battlefield to fight an unjust war between imperialists, two helpless women were embarrassed on the streets of London, and the box of roses sent by the rich second generation who didn't know the truth was just for him Stupid and naive are marked with natural footnotes. If Myra did not follow Kitty's suggestion to ask Roy's mother for help because of a woman's self-esteem, then Kitty's willingness to sell her body for her best friend has vividly told us what friendship is. One side is the bread that is exchanged for the body, and the other is the beautiful and useless flowers. Comparing the two, you will know the difference.
Of course, this method is debatable. In a sense, it was Kitty who was her best friend who pulled Myra into the water. Doing this business was like getting on a pirate ship. Once you get up, you can't get down. The process of tragedy is irreversible. If Roy was the director of the tragedy, it would not be an exaggeration to say that Kitty was the assistant director. Women are soft-hearted and short-sighted, and most of them are easily influenced by others. This is not a disadvantage but a characteristic. If Newton is reincarnated, I hope he will study the gravitational force between girlfriends. If it can be turned into a mathematical formula, I think it must be greater than mg. So once the best friend goes astray, the other half will follow suit. If you still can't understand it, it is recommended to watch "The Endless Flower". Girlfriends are poisonous, that's not bad.
But it's better than starving to death.
Finally, let's talk about the hero of the film. I am not very interested in whether there is love at first sight in this world. The so-called love at first sight is whether you believe it or not. You can vulgarly explain it as the impulse of a man or a woman under the influence of sexual attraction. My point of view is that love at first sight is okay, but flash marriage is a bit irresponsible, especially in the context of such a war. Of course, I'm not saying that Roy's feelings are insincere - most men with rich emotions are like this, impulsive, naive, and childish. If you fall in love, it will last forever and you can't wait to get married immediately and have a child as a witness to the crystallization of love. I don't know if Robert Taylor himself is such a person, but I admire his acting skills, he plays such a man so vividly, I look at him as if I saw myself in the beginning of every relationship in the past- Falling in love regardless of everything, looks really stupid.
However, such a man looks stupid, but is deadly. Because of his impulsiveness and naivety, because of his naivety and sincerity, he will blow out dream bubbles, the surface of which is crystal clear, through which one can see houses, cars, bills, children, and maybe Florence, Maldives, Provence. The motives are good, but they are different from girlfriends. , men tend to ignore the process and each other. If a woman doesn't have the skills to control it, and she sinks in with one foot, the bubble will burst sooner or later. And when that day comes, the man will still make a statement of innocence. The unfortunate one is the woman who wastes her youth and affection - I can't stand this waste!
At such a moment, the one who can worry about a woman is her best friend. Towards the end of the film, Roy and Kitty go around looking for the missing Myra, which really impressed me. Although the two were anxious at first, they didn't take it seriously. Roy had experienced such a thing, not to mention that he was still in the stage of not knowing the truth, while Kitty thought that he would find traces where Myra often went. But with the search process, the mentality of the two has changed significantly - this is evident from the performances of the two excellent actors. Kitty began to worry about Myra more and more. Based on her relationship with Myra, I guess she should have thought of the worst ending, so she looked devastated; and the process of Roy following Kitty to find Myra is a process of gradually discovering the truth - please Allow me to defend the men a little - when a person who has been kept in the dark suddenly finds out the truth, that huge gap can completely take over the heart and mind. Sherlock Holmes once said that the human brain is like a cupboard that can only hold a limited amount of things. So it is conceivable that Roy was completely shocked by the truth at the time, and finally started his normal thinking as a man - this thinking is often dominated by himself, and Myra's fate - that is the second thing.
Of course, having said so much, there is no need for men to be discouraged. In fact, men and girlfriends are not completely comparable. As above, there is heaven, and there is Suzhou and Hangzhou. If we discuss the superiority of Suzhou and Hangzhou, each has its own characteristics, so there is no need to study it carefully. Friendships are natural. Brothers are like siblings and women are like clothes. In the era of equality between men and women, this can also be used by women as an analogy, not to mention that we are not Mr. Perfect. Acknowledging the existence of girlfriends, don't complain, if you have more grievances, you will become a resentful woman.
After the movie was over, Roy was left alone on Waterloo Bridge. Unconsciously, after two glasses of wine, people began to feel high. The biggest advantage of alcohol is that you will wake up when you are drunk.
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