It is normal for a child who lacks maternal love to fall in love with a woman of the same age as his mother. For Chéri, she represents love, elegance, beauty, sensuality, and even excitement, and can satisfy the maternal love that is missing in his heart. Lea is tolerant, gentle, generous to him, and has a wealth of life experience, she seems to be able to help him. Shelter from the wind and rain.
In her arms, Chéri can never grow up, can always be a child.
If I am a woman, I hope I am Chéri's wife, young and beautiful, even if the marriage fails, there is still time as capital, but the other party is Chéri, I hope I am Lea, even if I am old, she can monopolize his love , from the point of view of pure love, she is happy.
If I were Chéri, maybe my choice would be the same as his hesitant fear, "I can't live without Lea", but I can't divorce an innocent woman and cause more harm, and he hopes that I can I have both, I hope it can be comprehensive between the two. Love is difficult to control, and marriage is tasteless, but unfortunately it cannot be lost.
True love is a matter of two independent souls. It has nothing to do with age, status, or experience. Everything outside is just irrelevant. The story also reveals one thing: Lea has a lot of experience, while Chéri seems to be just a blank piece of paper, with different experiences and different lives , even the so-called three views are consistent, there is no common topic, these do not prevent two people from falling in love.
Love is dominated by a person's adult attachment patterns, driven by subconscious systems, and adult attachment patterns are derived from the evolution of childhood attachment patterns. With such a mother, little Chéri would fall in love with Lea and couldn't extricate herself. She couldn't help herself
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commotion....
The ending was only brought by a few narrations. Although it was an expected tragedy, my heart still sank. For love, asking for nothing is the most painful...
Chéri and his beautiful wife, the marriage was ordinary, the fate of the parents, it was just the right match. For that era, it was even an ancient tradition. I hope that the marriage that we have never met can cultivate love after marriage. The panic of returning from the honeymoon, leaving home in a hurry, and a bullet a few years later, all proved that this would not work for little Chéri.
He couldn't handle his inner turmoil....
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