I miss my old self

I don’t know since when I suddenly felt that I grew up, and I don’t know when I started not believing in true love so much. Sometimes I think it’s okay to be alone. Over time, I began to deceive myself and tell myself that I enjoy the freedom of being single. Suddenly, "If You Are the One" became popular one day, and then blind dates became popular, and the fire continued to burn around many older single men and women. It was not until every time I was on the phone with my mom and dad that I was forced to ask if I had someone I liked and when I would accept the single life, that I began to rethink what many people call love. I've never been on a blind date, and I don't need it, but I've seen the miraculous changes in my friends around me, and I'm starting to feel cranky. If man is an animal, no one would refute me, at most someone would correct me and add some modifiers such as advanced and thoughtful. But man is indeed an animal, and also has animal nature. Animals will come into estrus at a certain period of time, and when people reach a certain age, they will also be in "estrus" under the action of hormones after sexual maturity, and have a good impression of the opposite sex. Of course, people are rational, and they won't mess around at will. As you get older, if one day the girl is over 26 and the boy is over 28, you have an inexplicable sense of crisis. This sense of crisis may not come from within you, but from the outside world. When you see friends and colleagues around you, even strangers are right in and out; when your parents are always urging you on the phone, your relatives and friends will force you to ask you during the New Year and festivals, and your leaders and colleagues look at you with strange eyes You, you will feel a nameless sense of pressure and urgency. First you will start to look at yourself, including your own conditions. Your education, diploma, appearance, job, income and family status, and even your hobbies, sexual orientation, aesthetics and personal taste. When you have a certain understanding of yourself, you will go to any opposite sex that is not bad for you, such as going on a blind date. The same is true of older men of the opposite sex, and they will even lower their own requirements. When they met someone who was similar to their own in all aspects, they would like to give each other a chance. What does it mean to be eye-catching? do you know? Going to find chickens with a man and thinking that the price is right and can do it is one thing. When two people try to be together, they will try their best to adapt to each other's temperament, try to show their good sides, try to tolerate each other's small shortcomings, and constantly self-paralyze their hearts, giving themselves and each other a chance. After a long time, when you get used to that person, your friends, colleagues, neighbors, leaders, your parents, brothers and sisters all know that you are a couple when you are together, and you really become a couple! It took so long to get used to a person, even if you find that person is not what you think at the end, but you can make do with it, that person has his own small advantages, you will deceive yourself and accept everything. After all, it is not easy to get used to a person. It takes so much youth and time. If you quit this habit and get used to another person, wouldn’t it be another adventure? Why not make do with it. So there is the so-called love, the urban love of modern men and women. Growing up, the reality became cruel, so many people began to need memories, if possible, it is better to live in good memories. [The girl we chased together in those years] is such a beautiful memory. We don't know how much Jiu Dao loves Shen Jiayi, but for so many years telling ourselves that he likes a girl all day long, this kind of liking has long since become a habit. What we watch is not a youth film, but a piece that can find resonance and can be substituted into the story to provide ourselves with an opportunity to numb the cruelty of reality, or to make up for our once too bland youth. Although many people's youth is not as turbulent and joyful as in the movie, but everyone can find some resonance in it. We see that it is no longer the girl we used to chase together, but the pure self. It turns out that when I was still so pure, so stupid and so cute, it was just that I was no longer who I am today. You don't know how you have become what you are today. In short, you have changed, and youth will never return. I really hope that there is normal time and space or time travel, I can no longer be me, you can no longer be you today, and more importantly, we can no longer be us today. We can also have another chance to make up for those regrets today. It is a pity that reality is always reality. What exists in reality is only the most familiar strangers in youth. PS: Some people say that this movie is nostalgic, and it is more or less their own youth. In fact, these words are not movie reviews, they are just my own experience, it can also be said to be the so-called resonance, and I am so easily moved. I like you, and I prefer myself who used to like you. It's a pity that my youth is not so beautiful, so let's entrust it to the movie.

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