Before watching this movie, I read the introduction of the movie and said it was a movie describing the trauma of war. Moreover, there is Tim, who I like, in the movie, and I have always had my heart for his acting as Andy in "Shawshank's Redemption". Respect, so just take a look. This time, the short two-hour movie actually allowed me to watch a period of three nights until the wee hours of the morning. When I got tired, I went to sleep, and then resumed the next night.
Occupation and position are determined, the time that belongs to me can only be late at night. Whenever it is late at night, the empty night sky is filled with neon flashes outside the wall, and there are only swaying dark shadows of trees beside me. My footsteps are clearly audible, and I can hear the soles of my shoes and the concrete road every step of the way. sound. The whole world is asleep. Except for the construction workers and me in three shifts, we are actually the same kind of people. They use calloused hands to cover the gorgeous palaces of others. What about us? Exhaustion of heart and brain power, turning youth and health into gray ink or gold dust, and sprinkling it on the merits of others...the
night is not quiet. Watching movies allows me to immerse myself in a life of other people and forget all the troubles during the day. I call myself a clear mind. But perhaps it is the inertia of the high-speed working mind during the day. This kind of clearing of the brain, clearing one kind, often blends into the other. Watching a movie, watching it, it's easy to fall into it.
From this point of view, I am not a man, I am not a man. Whether in terms of natural attributes or social attributes, a man or a male should be strong, excited, bloody, aggressive, energetic, never admit defeat, never give up, stand upright... Maybe I have ever At this age, but now, it’s more and more easy to sink into thinking instead of acting. No matter how turbulent the heart is, no matter how much I want to soar into the sky, I often only smile and only look at it with my eyes. People come and go, rarely speak, seldom talk, and it is even hard to bear others chattering in front of me for a few minutes.
The power of words is for expression, the desire to express is for communication, and the purpose of communication is for communication. But now, all the words, before they are uttered, I can already anticipate the reaction from the outside world, telling, it has only become a kind of vent, what is the point? So, keeping silent gradually became a habit, and getting used to silence became a kind of life.
In the movie, it is such a group of people who consciously, unconsciously, voluntarily and voluntarily stay away from the world. A closed offshore drilling platform has become the platform for almost all the plots of this story. The film describes the story of a girl who was brutally injured by war and a man who suffered extensive burns in a drilling accident. Yes, it sounds like a bland story about love saving life.
Girl, her psychiatrist said that she was a survivor of the war, and that this kind of surviving was actually a greater misfortune. For people who have experienced that kind of inhuman abuse and have seen the ugliness of all humanity, living is not necessarily God’s mercy, but Satan’s punishment. By the opportunity of being abused and deaf, she completely closed off all communication with the world. She only put on her hearing aids when necessary, necessary, and unavoidable, and listened to the words of others, and then, indifferently. Make a simple response. Soul engineers may be uncomfortable. They always think that life should be positive, live well, live well, and forget the past. To live, you must embrace the rising sun every day, enjoy the beautiful scenery of the sun, and feel the ubiquitous truth, goodness and beauty in the world. We must selectively forget all false evils and past tragedies-this is a positive and upward attitude towards life. Maybe they are right, only once in life, and enjoying life is worthy of life, so that they will not come to this world in vain. This is their life creed. However, I never believed that by throwing these steadfast optimists into Auschwitz concentration camp or the Siberian labor camp, and then letting them "survive", they could still be so optimistic and treat life so excitedly. People, the courage to judge the lives of others, come from a superior sense of superiority. All comfort or encouragement comes from their own life insights, perhaps by convincing others to comfort themselves. In this movie, the girl’s psychiatrist is the character that touched me the most. She answers calls from girls from all over the world. Even if the girl just dials the number and doesn’t say a word, she also answers, just staying with her silently until She hung up.
The man, the man played by Tim who suffered extensive and severe burns in the fire, is not as silent as a girl. He is like many men working on the drilling rig, almost always spitting out boring and even nasty words. When he first met a girl, he didn't have eyesight yet, but when he felt a young girl by his side, he immediately spoke frivolously, molested and foul-mouthed at any time. He didn't know that the girl had taken off the hearing aid. For her, all the sounds in the world were her own heartbeat. Like all emotional mingling, the feelings between some people can only come from the long-term understanding and the closeness, trust and dependence that arise from this understanding.
Nowadays, many young people say to their opposite sex that we have been dating for so long, so how come we have no feelings? Why don't you love me yet? Every time I see these kinds of complaints in my life and on the Internet, I feel that such people are very pitiful, not because of the so-called long-term dedication of those people and not getting the so-called love in return, but pity their IQ. If you have been in contact for a long time and still cannot make the other person love you, it means that you can't make the other person feel close at all, don't get the other person's trust, and don't let the other person have any sense of belonging and dependence. None of these can satisfy the other party. What else can you talk about giving love to you? The anger of the loser often comes only from the frustration of their own failure and the sense of loss after being unable to satisfy their selfish possessive desires. Therefore, for this kind of person, there is no act of harming the other person or hurting himself. Suspense. Fortunately, in the movie, there is another pair of successful communication. Although, this communication is very difficult.
There are many kinds of man's silence. A kind of silence is just silence, taciturnity, just watching the world coldly, without making any comments. The other kind of silence is to talk endlessly about everything, as if the whole world is waiting for his comment. The former is easy to understand, but it is easy to be understood as cold-blooded. Men are more willing to be social animals, and cold-blooded animals will obviously not be accepted by group dwellers. Therefore, more people choose to do the latter. Comment on everything, and say their own expressions to everyone. Expected answers and unexpected answers will be selectively ignored by them. They are just expressions, expressing the thoughts of a person who wants to express, and that The true self is still silent in my heart. It is easy for a man to talk nonsense, just give a topic; it is difficult for a man to tell the truth. The barriers in their hearts can defend against all attacks from the outside. They can only be breached from the inside, and they can only open their hearts voluntarily. Door-I'm talking about ordinary men who have a little thought but can't form an ideological and theoretical system, and have a little brain but are not enough to run the country in Anbang. Other elites are not included in this list.
There is a scene in the movie where the girl and the only cook on the rig sit on a swing. The two suddenly took turns calling each other's name, and then the other asked: what? The one who asked laughed: nothing. The one who asked yelled again, and the other asked: yes? Then they laughed together: nothing...the swing was swaying back and forth, and the two asked back and forth, occasionally smiling at each other. I don't know why the movie arranges such a plot and dialogue similar to a child's game, but this scene allows me to remember this movie forever.
This is a happy ending in which a lover finally gets married. However, I want to write down the ending lines forever. The man finally found the girl who left.
Man: These few days, today, now, come with me...
Girl: No, I think it's impossible.
Man: why?
Girl: I... If we go somewhere together, I'm afraid that one day, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but one day, all of a sudden, I will start crying, no one can stop me, tears filled the whole Room, I can't breathe anymore, I will pull you down, and then we drown together... The
girl finished speaking, tears filled her eyes, turned and walked away.
The man put his hand in his pocket, followed a few steps gently, and settled down and said: I will learn to swim... It
was quiet at night, and the cold wind was flowing in the high-rise dormitory with open windows, but I felt warm and soft. Softly, in the eye contact between men and girls, I feel the warmth of being dependent on each other, cuddling with my son and knowing each other, and between lovers.
Sometimes, we reject everything from this world, sad and desperate in loneliness and silence. But is this not a kind of waiting? Waiting for someone to appear, and with that ordinary, flat knock on the door, we will open the closed heart. With you, the world can walk into my heart with you.
After watching this film, Tim’s acting skills are more deeply rooted in my heart, and at the same time, I know another actress named Sara Polly. The real acting skills do not come from the ever-changing expressions and the beautiful and inextricable faces, but only a pair of deeply rooted and sincere eyes.
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