However, after watching this movie and commenting on it, I found...Well, what is it like "because of the birth of the little sister, I feel that I have lost the attention of my family, so my child is psychologically bt"? How come no one here has ever been a sinister kid?
So let the once insidious child tell you that if it is to grab attention, you should fight, steal, run away from home, or be autistic and let the grown-ups circumvent themselves in a hurry, instead of hiding the dark side and behaved as a good child—— Good children are the easiest to be ignored. If it is out of jealousy, the first thing that should be dealt with is his sister. It's not easy for her father to be busy with work and her mother to have a nervous breakdown.
Disposing of the adults but leaving the sister behind can neither resolve jealousy nor attract attention (note that the source is gone, right?). It is completely illogical to "get love" by "disposing of" relatives. Ah,
so this story, as Joshua said, is a story of "establishing order in chaos"-insidious children are born, don't always dream about why family environment and education methods can change a person's nature. This is the same truth as sexual orientation—it does have elements of acquired nature, but most of it is determined by nature. A baby is not a blank piece of paper, and a child is not a mortal angel. Children are small adults, and the difference is only in IQ.
Joshua has always had no sense of identity with the few adults in the family-a sunny dad who wants to conceal the nature of his cold all day long, a family history of mental illness/childhood shadows, and a mother who insists on pretending to be a normal person. Religious grandma who wants to take care of her son's family affairs.
These people are not Joshua’s ideal family members at all, because although they keep saying that they love him, they actually don’t know him at all. They just treat him as a puppet and become the child they imagined-obviously he doesn’t like sports, but his father takes him. He also called him sport when he played football, and his mother and grandma were chatting on the sidelines while he was playing the piano and interrupted him to be quiet.
Joshua must feel that these adults are hypocritical, annoying, and have been in the way for a long time, and his little sister will suffer the same fate as him in the future-forced to pretend to like sports and be obediently to be the way adults expected. Don't watch them hold her in their hands and love her a lot, but it won't be long before they will play with her like a doll.
But how can a child gain control at home? After seeing his mother's previous videotape, Joshua finally discovered his mother's weakness, found a way to create chaos, and had a plan to establish his own order.
His originally well-behaved sister is restless from this day, isn't it? Joshua deliberately teased his sister to cry to induce his mother's old postpartum depression-he certainly knew that his mother would not ask for a helper to take care of his sister because of a mental disorder. After the mother started the treatment, she secretly replaced her mother's medicine, and further stimulated her with the help of a religiously fanatical grandma until the mother collapsed. One goal was solved.
It is easier to have a religious grandma. She is older and can't listen to heresy. As long as she finds a chance for two to be alone, who would doubt a child? Two goals are solved.
That video tape is not fun to shoot. This is also part of the plan, deliberately for Dad to find out. When the relationship between father and son became tense, he told his uncle that his father had abused him. And draw a picture according to child psychology so that the psychologist thinks that he has been abused-do you remember what the psychologist said? This is a painting that a "typical" abused child would draw. Dad is an old man-don't care how foreign he is on the surface, he is actually very stupid, he doesn't know how to control his emotions, and he can play in his hands. Three goals are solved.
But he is a kid, and grown-ups can't help but live with his sister-even though he is much smarter than grown-ups. Therefore, before proceeding with all these plans, he has identified himself an ideal guardian, that is, Uncle Net (this is also the reason why he needs to dispose of his grandma)
The reason is simple, because Net is the only person in the family who knows him. Uncle will play with him four hands. At the concert, everyone thought he was wrong. Only his uncle knew that every sound he played was what he wanted. Yes, when he went out to deal with his toys, what Uncle said-"Go to destroy the evidence." Joshua treats his uncles as the same kind.
However, according to the end of the film-my uncle said "Let’s work together for a song", but he sang one sentence and couldn’t continue. Joshua went on to sing his own voice. Uncle looked at him in surprise-Joshua may have overestimated him. uncle. Net's fate is also very worrying.
Joshua loves his sister, of course. In this family, this is the person who poses the least threat to him and does not hinder him. If there are no adults around to get in the way, they will have a very close relationship-just like his uncle and his mother.
You kind children really don’t understand...
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