It's all natural, don't worry about sorrow

Verlie 2022-01-20 08:03:00

Even though I knew the ending, I couldn't help but burst into tears.

Before watching the feature film, what I thought about was Me before You, Sweet November and other movies, in fact, it is also-it just expresses a lot more. The ending Fionna finally confessed to Jack because of Adam’s death, crying bitterly in front of him, and Jack patiently comforted, although he may not understand why Fi is so sad, but he understands that she is a person with rich emotions and a person who sheds tears. You will also encounter difficulties, you need his care and help, and you need to be understood-instead of "It's just me you don't want" as he guessed before. He didn’t know anything about this case (and the follow-up) before, but now he knows what to do, how to care for her, how to make this family full of love and warmth; that’s enough, even if he put Fi The grief over Adam's death is not related to regrets as pure "such a waste". And Fi can see clearly that Jack really loves her, and sincerely wants the two to know more about each other and help each other, not just physical affection. As a result, their relationship began to improve, which is a little hope at the end.

For Fi and Adam, it's all kinds of crying plots in this film. What Adam said when he arrived in Newcastle with her in the rain reminded me of another Yeats poem: "But I, being so poor, has only my dreams. I have spread my dreams under your feet. Tread softly because you tread my dreams. "And did Fi tread softly? Yes, she said that Adam can be with her. They can travel the world by boat, appreciate the rhythm of poetry, and feel all the love, beauty and poetry in life. Unfortunately, this was what Adam said when he was critically ill, and in Newcastle, she just drove him back to London. This attitude seems too sloppy in my opinion. Is it because she really has a different feeling for Adam and avoids contacting as much as possible because she is afraid of Jack's misunderstanding? Perhaps like Adam said, she knew that the court would order a minor blood transfusion, but she still went to his bed to baby him, sing with him, and let him have hope in life; furthermore, if only to bid him take life easy , She will definitely refuse the parting kiss. But she didn't, and she was sad about it. So when Adam finally refused treatment and told her, "My choice, my lady", I was heartbroken and sorry.

The bill "opens up clearly"
I knew it! Everything is a foregone conclusion

However, when Fi read the letter again, I seemed to understand that everything was a matter of course. Adam knew that the court's decision was inevitable, and knew that he would eventually die because of it, but he could be set free. He lost his faith in Jehovah, and did not receive Fi's care and salvation, so he gave up treatment, because only in heaven can he get peace. Fi must have not really understood that letter before, otherwise he wouldn't be so indifferent. This is a bit regretful, but Adam only lived a few months longer, but he felt a different way of thinking, felt "All of life and love that lie ahead him", acted in a drama, played Bach, and read Yeats. In all the poems, I understand that the beauty of poetry lies not only in rhythm, but also in true feelings, and became a dreamer full of hope, albeit impractical. It's just that he didn't accept his parents' way of expressing love, which is also a pity. But it doesn't matter, there are always regrets in life.

As Mr. Liang Qichao said, “From the moment a person is born to the moment of breathlessness, there is no moment when he is struggling with the gods." In the process of "catching the gods and struggling", we have dreams and do valuable things for more lives. It’s a matter of giving love to other lives, which is enough happiness, and it’s not a waste. Don’t we all have this day in the end? Maybe it's not leukemia. From coming to the earth, to survival and development, to the day we all understand, it is all natural and natural, but in the middle, in the process of life, there is still a lot of love, beauty and poetry! So, dream a lot and keep trying something new. Of course, it would be better if you can find your spiritual support. Adam was unfortunate and found it just before his death. But the few months in between have proved that it doesn't matter if there is no one. As long as you don't immerse yourself in the presupposition of death and great grief, life is so meaningful and colorful.

tips: After watching Dunkirk, don’t abuse it~

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The Children Act quotes

  • Jack Maye: Listen, I left this marriage for two days. Two days. *You* left it years ago.

  • Fiona Maye: Well, do join me. I'm afraid all I can promise you is two neglected children.