Well said, very touching. But it makes me even more sad to see many men use her nobility and "not care" to ridicule other angry women's rights.
I believe Hannah did not say these words to shame irrational and angry women. On the contrary, those words were told to them in the end, more like a kind of enlightenment. But this gentle enlightenment has become a group of people's bullets, used to target women's rights who have not yet reached this state. First, I would like to say that after being victimized, self-comforting and persuading words are not up to the offender's turn to cite the unreasonable protest behavior of women. The second question is, why must all women's rights be required to reach this height? Even Hannah quit at this time to truly reconcile with herself. Why should all women be required to be like this? Hannah said that she has every right to anger, as do other women. It’s Hannah’s choice to have anger but not to spread it. You can say that this choice is more rational and "advanced", but you can never despise other laity because of this. Why? Because as a layman, they have the right to be angry and have the right to choose to express. You can choose not to appreciate it, but the sarcasm should look at yourself first: you are not appreciated by Hannah and your so-called high-level feminists, women collectively, and even disgusted by some of them, but not for the sake of society. Express publicly. I hope you don't appreciate it, please leave some to yourself in the mirror, so as not to become the most taboo word for men, Puxinnan. There are also some remarks that Hannah is entitled to be angry because she was sexually assaulted and raped by men. Of course she is entitled to be angry, and even she has noble choice to look at it from a higher perspective. What is the right of other women's rights to be angry? ? I am speechless to this part of people, and I feel I really beg you not to look at it, the more you look at it, the more wrong it becomes. Hannah chose to conceal the identity of the victim for so many years, and also said why she concealed it, because she did not want to be treated as a story of a special group of victims by her story. She emphasized that her story is valuable, and this value has commonality. If you don’t understand this, don’t read it. Really beg for a good night’s sleep. It’s better for you to be educated than playing two games. ? Head.
I really don't think there are a few men who can really understand Nanette, just like I don't like many men talking about themselves after reading a book about multiple girls' rights. Such people think that they understand it. The fact is that this concept is only reduced to their knowledgeable discussion and proof, without any change in their thinking. Except for a few "authoritative" words when talking, it has no effect. I despise such people very much. Just like "Oh, I know what your women are thinking!" In essence, they are still imposing their own ideas on collective women. If you really understand, you won't say such a thing, on the contrary, you will feel that you are still far from understanding. As a woman, I dare not say such things, "I know women", let alone men? Because the prerequisite for understanding is to understand that there is no concept of "your women, your feminist rights" at all. First of all, everyone is human, everyone is different, but everyone is pursuing human rights. I met a very cute boy who was really shocked by the attitude of women being sexually harassed. Seeing a woman being touched on the bus, he was shocked and unable to understand it as if she had been touched. I think he is very cute, not because he is naive and never seen the darkness, (on the contrary, I think he is a very thoughtful person), but because he understands the most basic principle. Everyone is a human first and then Men, women, transgender people, non-gender people, etc. And these basic principles, in the final analysis, for people who lack empathy (in my opinion such people are born with disabilities, human disabilities) read more books and listen to more stories, so that they will not actually experience the same. The scene will never be understood.
Although it is true that most men have low empathy (except when they touch their own interests). But in terms of gender relations, I am the same as Hannah. I didn't hate men or promote women. I was a state of disgusting human beings. Both of them have some nausea and nausea that I can't understand. Although intj hates communication, it can disguise myself well, and I gradually don't want to pretend to choose to leave the group. This disgusting mentality is a major reason. Speaking of arrogant people, I also dislike the most. But self-reflection, I was once a very arrogant person in some ways. But the more you learn, the more you feel that you really don't know anything. I guess I will continue to be arrogant for a long time, and I will continue to look down on those who know why. But while looking down on it, he may also pay attention to the reasons behind his practice instead of embracing stupid arrogance blindly.
Finally entrained some personal feelings.
I have a wonderful mother, and I give her the highest praise. She said to me almost the same thing as Hannah’s mother. Knowing that the world cannot be changed, I hope that I will change myself, and then I hope that I will learn to protect myself. (Of course, it’s not about sexual orientation. A wise person like my mother doesn’t care about such trivial matters at all.) I feel very lucky to live such a stress-free life, but I also feel very stressful because I’m always in Focus on things bigger than personal life. "Stupid people have stupid blessings" is very reasonable, if I really don't understand anything, there won't be too many meaningless heavy troubles. But I would never sincerely hope that I would be a "stupid". I used to be a very stupid and stupid guy, but when I was very stupid, I did a lot of bad things and hurt some people, and this has become my eternal regret. It's just that you don't want this to happen again, so you have to work hard to face reality and be positive! For the further goal. To yield and not break, that is incredible strength.
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