This is a good drama about the growth of young people. I have watched it three times over and over, and I have a few experiences to share with you.
Is it right for Felicity to follow Ben to NYU?
There are elements of the pursuit of independence, but it is very blind. Some people will say: We can desperate for love. However, you must at least understand the other person, does the other person love you too? Accept you too? Otherwise, it will be pressure for the other party and mistake for yourself.
Felicity’s parents objected to her going to New York University and repeatedly asked her to go to Stanford to study medicine. Are they controlling her daughter?
Of course there are elements of control, but it makes sense to think about your parents' suggestions. Felicity’s mistake on this issue was not to oppose her parents’ interference in her life, but to blindly deny her parents’ opinions without careful analysis. This is a common problem for most young people. Parents are used to nagging and have a rebellious mentality. They reject their suggestions without discrimination.
What do you think of this person ben?
Low self-esteem, avoidance, immature, but able to think independently, belong to the slow-heat type. It was not his fault that he did not accept Felicity at the beginning, but after a period of contact with Felicity, he developed feelings for the girl only because the girl did a bad thing (tampering with the thesis). Can't forgive her, but it was a big mistake. Fortunately, I finally woke up, it was the end of the season, this kind of slow heat is too slow.
Is there a reason to love someone?
no. It should be a kind of feeling and perception, or fate, the screenwriter has no trace of blood here, because this is a common phenomenon. Ben didn't do anything for Felicity, but Felicity loved him madly. Even if Noer was so considerate to her, he still couldn't change it. That's why. Poor Noel can only be a spare tire.
What is a spare tire?
I like TA or I also love TA, but not the most ideal one. If you also love TA, you will have nostalgia, not ideal and reconciled. It is not a chicken rib but also a chicken neck.
The characteristics of the spare tire?
Because it is a spare tire, it is mostly caring, otherwise it is easy to be discarded.
Can the spare tire be turned into normal?
quite difficult. People often have a long process to accept the spare tire. This is also the process of hard work by the spare tires, and it is also a process of spoiling each other. It takes a few years for the pampering to be good, and it may take decades, or even a lifetime, for the pampering not to be in place. Therefore, making a spare tire is very hard and troublesome. It is recommended that those who have no perseverance or self-awareness do not casually make spare tires.
Is Knoll's consideration for Felicity a good thing?
Good and bad. The good side is to help Felicity, the bad side is to make Felicity too dependent, thus losing the ability to think independently, which is not conducive to growth.
Is Noel mature?
No. Two ex-girlfriend incidents, kissing incidents, and sex incidents are enough to explain the problem. Some people say: If you want to find a boyfriend like Knoll, you can pet people, and I need people to pet him. In this regard, I just remind one thing: not just a person who pets you, you will accept it.
Can you cheat when you are confused?
It's a bit too much to say cheating (Felicity's innocence incident), more precisely, it is to seek comfort from the opposite sex. This kind of situation abounds in the play, and I dare not agree with it below. You can have a big meal, you can go to the stadium to kill yourself, you can think behind closed doors, you can buy a lot, you can...There are many ways to vent, do you want to be comforted by the opposite sex? Perhaps this is the difference between Chinese and Western cultures.
Can you forgive cheating?
It depends on how deeply you love each other.
How to treat the opinions of friends or girlfriends?
It can be adopted but cannot be without the backbone.
Can men and women be normal friends?
Yes, but love and friendship must be distinct. If you find it ambiguous, you must either transform it or make a clean break.
What does the Pink Man incident show?
First, if you don't like a person, don't have a deep relationship with him. Second, don't rush to liking someone. The third most important thing: you may also commit rape when you fall in love!
What is the hardest thing in the world?
Know yourself correctly.
Come to gather some words, haha, don't take it seriously.
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