Love is when two people don't give up on each other
At the beginning of today, let’s ask a question that hits the soul:
How many people have used social (yue pao) software?
It’s the apps that make you swipe over and over again, you know what it’s repetitive.
But you don’t have to be ashamed to admit it.
Except for a momentary refreshment, the people who can get to know each other may only be very few.
In the film we are talking about today, the hero and the heroine meet each other after constantly sliding the screen, and the story begins.
"novel"
The film scale is not small, very exciting, ready to start~
Martin is a pharmacist and has a history of marriage for 8 months. He is single now and looks tall and handsome. He calls × or clicks ♥ with his mobile phone every day when he has nothing to do.
He has his own unique taste. His ex-wife is a Japanese-American mixed race, so his friends laughed that he liked Asians. Although he didn't admit it, he did prefer non-native girls from behind.
Gaby is a physical therapist who helps patients recover. She is from Florence, studied in the United States, and stayed there.
Gabby loves appointments very much. She has only one purpose, to find the man who can make herself really happy.
On the night when Martin and Gabi moved to each other, both had a disappointing first half.
Gabi's Yoyo hastily, Martin's Yoyo vomits.
On this lonely night, the two matched successfully.
We met at the bar to drink, play dick, and play games, and didn't go to Martin's apartment until dawn.
The sky thunder hit the ground, and both of them took off.
Sexual fit is also a very rare and important kind of fit, so the two established a relationship.
I took out my phone and unloaded the social artifact together, and then sprinkled super dog food for about ten minutes. Gaby moved into Martin's house, and then sprinkled super dog food for about ten minutes...
Looking at the progress bar, we know that the common problem between couples is time to commit, and then it will soon be cold.
The male lead is played by the very handsome Nicholas Holt. It turns out that no matter how good the looks are, they are ordinary people.
It was a good thing that Martin took Gaby home, but Gaby discovered that Martin hadn't told her many things.
For example, his mother has dementia, he also has a younger sister, what happened to his previous marriage.
When he got home, Gabi asked the question to the end. The more he asked Martin, the more he escaped.
One said you don't force me anymore, I really don't want to say.
One said I was your girlfriend, but I didn't know anything.
I feel that I have seen the daily lives of many couples. One wants to occupy more, including his past, and the other just wants to be content with the present and reserve some space.
After this quarrel, the two of them were both badly injured. They said that they were tired at night, and actually turned their backs to play with their mobile phones. The previous ones are gone forever.
The two respectively agreed to the invitations of others, went to the party separately, and then derailed simultaneously at night.
Gabi hurried home in the morning, unable to hide his guilt. Martin is cleaning the sheets that he had rolled with others last night.
Gabby cried and confessed that he had cheated, and Martin was silent for a long time and said that I too.
You two agree on this point.
then what should we do? I didn't mean to break up, just look for the reason.
So the two ran to trouble the psychiatrist. The psychiatrist was very tired and asked why you didn’t tell your spouse these words directly.
Both said that they were afraid that the truth would frighten each other, and that their original image would be damaged in the other's heart.
The psychiatrist had no choice but to prescribe a drug called "Frank", which allowed the two of them to spend some time fully expressing their feelings.
The two accepted this suggestion and began to dig deeper into each other's past to heal the broken relationship.
Not only that, they also decided to implement this method to the end.
After all, the loss of freshness over time is the root of all illnesses, and it is precisely that both of them are people who cannot bear loneliness.
So the two reached an agreement on a 100% transparent relationship.
You can't hide any emotional needs, any trivial matters in life, you can just say who you are interested in, and you have to support if you want to tease the other party.
So they started to play "you go fuck, I watch" and then go home and have sex.
Gradually, the scale became bigger and bigger, and both of them recovered their social artifacts, but this time they chose 3P objects together.
After such a smooth progress for a period of time, it seemed joyful, but they were actually at a loss in their hearts, so they ran to listen to an expert's lecture.
Experts talked about the difference between "infidelity" and "open relationship":
The essence of infidelity is a secret, and an open relationship is to explore with others, not a secret.
Open relationship means "When I am looking for others, it is not always because I want to leave you, but because I want to be away from that self; not because I want to find others, but because I want to find another self. ."
These words have a very important positive meaning for Martin and Gaby, which is to agree with the rationality of their behavior in theory.
So they went to the experts to ask for answers in person, but the experts did not advise them to do so, but from another perspective, doing so does not mean it is meaningless.
"It's not so much a destination, it's a stay." This is the last advice of the experts.
After returning home, the two continued their previous trajectory.
Martin has always been confident that he is the only one who can let Gaby fly, so he tries not to take Gaby's more and more out-of-homes seriously, and he also thinks that he doesn't have each other, so that the two are closer.
Until he knew that his ex-wife had a child, the memories of his wife's miscarriage flooded with him, and he fell into endless self-blame.
At this time, he really wanted Gaby to be by his side and listen to him once. But when faced with the message that she was staying overnight at another man's house, he had to reply "Of course."
On Gaby's side, she met the second man who made her orgasm. This is a successful person of a handful age, who has been married twice and has two children.
Gaby feels very comfortable and happy with him and his daughter.
Is zero distance without secrets really that easy to do?
The answer is almost impossible.
Gaby received a necklace from the old man, she hid it in the book without telling Martin.
Martin couldn't find a chance to confide in Gaby, so he could only talk about these concerns with one of Gaby's girlfriends, and wrote an email to his ex-wife.
Sleeping with other women is fine, but sharing her thoughts with other women is unbearable. Gaby was very angry when he learned about it, and found an email in Martin's computer.
The two had a big quarrel and began to confuse each other.
Martin admitted for the first time that all this was not what he wanted, he was just cooperating with Gaby.
Gabi moved out of his house in anger and moved into the old man's house.
The old man wants to be transferred to Europe for work. He offered an invitation to Gaby, but at a party, the old man's nature was exposed, and Gaby's needs were treated as unreasonable harassment by him, and the relationship between them was just the equivalent of an adult. exchange.
I give you the necklace, you help me take care of my daughter; you give me some company, so you can live in my house and go to Europe with me.
With such a thorough comprehension and profound Taoism, otherwise he could divorce twice.
This truth may be acceptable to many women, but Gaby cannot.
She moved away again, mingling in various sensual occasions, drinking, dancing, and missing Martin crazily.
Martin met with his ex-wife during this time, and listened to his ex-wife's past with tears in his eyes, and then the two smiled and blessed, hugged and said goodbye.
Martin experienced this incident and also understood a man's responsibility and responsibility better, and he grew up.
So facing Gaby who came back to look for him, he just said that he could no longer be as crazy as before, and Gaby also said that she couldn't play anymore.
The two reconciled.
But they know that there will be boredom and resentment in the future, but they need to keep reminding each other what makes them choose each other and choose to stay.
Martin’s good friends have been married for ten years, and his grandfather has been married for 57 years. There is only one secret to their marriage:
"Love is when two people don't give up on each other."
This sounds simple, but it is even more difficult in practice. If you want a sense of security, you want freedom, you want intimacy, and you want space, two people must be very synchronized and trust each other to complete this business together.
So we always say to find the right person. This concept includes the unanimity of the three views, the unanimity of the rhythm of life, and the harmony of the sexual life. It is so difficult.
So there are so many people who want to compromise in the relationship between the sexes, and so many single dogs who can only hold themselves tightly.
Experts in the film also pointed out: "When I am with you, I can have stability and security, but I can also have freedom and autonomy. Such a relationship is incredible in marriage.
How to reconcile the relationship between belonging and freedom may be a huge topic and challenge for modern love. "
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Public number: Xiaoxianmovie (xiaoxianmovie)
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