Very bold and very interesting materials, worthy of careful observation and in-depth thinking.
During the viewing process, I experienced maladaptive reactions several times. Many shots-such as the one often shown on TV in the film, the man is lying prone, charming like a woman, and the words spoken are pitiful. I felt unacceptable and even looked away. But if men and women are wrong, I would love to appreciate it. At this time, I couldn't help but feel that I am so used to the normal state of the patriarchal society? !
Let's take a look at some details in the film, men and women upside down: women need to pay attention to their clothes at all times, no topless, no see-through clothes; sexy naked beauties can be seen everywhere on the roadside billboards in shopping malls; the waiters in bars and restaurants are mostly women. And it is normal to be molested by guests; women drinking alone in bars are easily molested or even raped by drunk men; a girl on campus likes a handsome boy, but is asked for oral sex by the other side, and she has nothing else The choice is only to choose to accept, and the other party just patted the ass and left without giving her anything. In marriage, the husband cheated, but the elders persuaded it to be nothing at all. As a woman, you should be more open to it as a husband. Suddenly there was sex, he could close the store door at will, put his wife on the cold glass surface, and his wife could not resist... and so on, there are countless, how sad! Although the film is slightly exaggerated, and there are suspicions of concentrated expression, isn't this the "hidden rule" of the real society that most people accept?
It's just that we (especially women) are too used to it. We have learned to turn a blind eye and hear nothing, and we already know very well how to accept all this. The education we have always received is equality between men and women, and we think it really is "equality between men and women, peace in the world."
I remembered that when I heard incidents such as women being bullied, I sighed for a while, and then left it behind. I was accustomed to the distribution ratio of men to women in the upper class of the company and even the country; I remembered that I bypassed the billboards of sexy women every day without blinking my eyes. Click; every day I turn on the computer, see the advertising news with naked women as a gimmick, and click the cross...If you are a woman, you are so used to being so "domesticated", can you still count on the men who already occupy the commanding heights? Do you do something? They take it more seriously and enjoy themselves.
But the world is getting better, and we all know what the status of women was before us. Today's women, through their own efforts (but certainly more effort than men need), can also stand at the top, without a doubt.
Think about the history books saying that in primitive society, women were originally respected. Why did matriarchal society degenerate into a patriarchal society step by step? But what I want is not masculine or feminist rights. Is the "equality between men and women" that I longing for in my heart really never realized?
I hope you women will remember that we actually live in a patriarchal society. I also hope that all men will remember that in our society, men and women are equal.
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