Lao She said, whatever you are addicted to, you will fall into something. Men and women in the world are obsessed with one thing, and that is love. Women are silly and naive in expecting the love of marriage to last. Men dare to practice, there is no love at home, go outside to find new love. No one is right or wrong. Everyone wants to prove that they are alive through the so-called passion of love.
A particularly touching episode, the first date of a male and female lead, is quite special. It's not out of the ordinary here, the screenwriter is wonderful! They did not completely succumb to lust. The man first tried to lead the woman to pray for her husband who had already cheated. Love upright and unsuccessful. Then he kissed her, touched her, and helped her masturbate. She had an orgasm and was crying in his arms. At that moment, her restless and aggrieved soul found peace. The first time they had sex, they didn’t really do it, but even you in front of the screen were touched and felt the love. The male protagonist’s restrained and direct way made the couple look directly at each other’s hearts instantly. . Sometimes, only by confronting desires can we confront our souls and truly love each other.
The male and female masters have been pursuing their hearts and exploring their beliefs. Although they are often painful, they are really awake people after all.
I have admired and believed in love all my life. But it is not easy for people to live in the world to meet and enjoy love. The cruelest fact is that any love has a time limit, no matter how you struggle, love will eventually disappear, it will disappear. So I warned myself that I must remember this truth, love is short-lived, love will die, it will die, and will leave you alone again and again. Note, I'm not saying that my lover or my heart changes when I leave, no. But love itself, love, desire, desire for each other, these things will disappear, will be exhausted, and will die. The life of love is much shorter than a person's life. It's sad to say this!
The saddest thing than the above is that when love disappears, there will be a long-lost heart in the heart. It is unusually comfortable and peaceful. When walking on the road, you will involuntarily look up at the blue sky and laugh unconsciously. , As if you have become a friend of your own, looking at the self who was once in love next to you, those stunned, ecstatic, suspicious and depressed will make you smile before you. You start to find yourself again, pay attention to yourself, and you start to look at the blue sky carefully, as if you haven't really lived under this blue sky before. You begin to return to the truth, remembering where you have always been interested, and your life returns to normal. Of course, this kind of love and no love journey is best to be crush or online dating. Minimize the actual loss.
The most unfortunate is in marriage, especially having children. This is undoubtedly a huge tragedy. Therefore, I myself do not agree with the marriage system. Marriage itself may originate from love, but it is not limited to love. When love ceases, most people choose to continue living together. Therefore, if there is no spirit of compromise, the courage to let go immediately after not being in love, or people who encounter entangled men and women too much, it is not suitable to choose the road of marriage. At the end of the marriage, love will disappear, love will die, passion will fade, each is forced to put away desires, most people will live like dead people. In other words, in marriage, divorce or infidelity is inevitable. If it does not erupt in silence, it will perish in silence. It's hard to say that what Mr. Lu Xun said was not the marriage life. Didn't the husband choose to break out? He left the chaff and chose Ms. Xu.
Therefore, to some extent, free loneliness and passionate love are actually the same beautiful things. I believe the ultimate fate of both points to faith. That is to say, you have gone through thousands of sails, cycled through love again and again, experiencing breakups, enjoying loneliness, and met love again, and experienced all kinds of painful unloving and breakups. In the end, you should let go soberly, and eventually you will become tired. Beauty will grow old, love will wither, only the soul will be eternal, and only faith will be the ultimate destination.
Recently fell in love with a few poems by Li Bai. When waking up, they had sex together, and when they were drunk, they were scattered. Forever knot of ruthless travel, phase Miao Yunhan. Li Weng has the highest realm, and he has a clear and precise understanding of free loneliness and passionate love. Bosom friend! !
Like the ending of the movie, Papi followed the heart and chose to continue to believe in love, without the psychological shackles of her husband's first loss, and ignore the child's natural dependence. Strong self-confidence, not afraid of the age gap, brave enough to set off again, the pursuit of happiness, this is the posture of life.
Dreamy long-winded, good night everyone.
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