The psychological and material basic factors of a happy life

Julie 2022-12-28 18:24:11

If I say that there are many psychological similarities between myself and the protagonist of the story—of course, the rise is not so serious—I think my mother will probably agree. The English name of this film and its content seem to be wrong, but if you look at the film carefully, you will know that the male protagonist has a mental illness. The name is "bipolar", which means that a person has both polarizations at the same time. The character will be gentle, elegant and kind at one time, and violent and excited at the other. The pronunciation is probably similar to "bear polar", which is a polar bear. This is my state. I remember when I was young, I was actually not too young. I always had it at the age of eleven or twelve. Because I couldn't handle anything, it had something to do with the scissors, so I threw the scissors to the ground angrily. At that time, the house was still on a concrete floor. For a while, sparks splattered, a crater was smashed into the ground, and the tip of the scissors also made a corner. This incident impressed me deeply. Whenever I think about it, I feel deeply that my emotion control ability is too poor. Since then, reckless behaviors based on anxiety and anger have continued to occur. I don't think this is a mental illness. When people's lives are always turbulent, when they are threatened by anxiety, anger, sadness, and guilt, most of them will show a stress response. If there is no response, it is abnormal. The mad father role played by Mark Ruflow is also largely a more serious stress responder. He was expelled from school twice because of his madness, fired from school, and abandoned by his wife and daughter, and entered into a mental hospital. None of these destroyed his confidence in life. Although it cannot be said that he was free from distress in this process, it is clear that this distress is not as strong as those around him. After arguing with relatives time and time again, and being looked at by neighbors, he can still maintain his kindness and regain his ability to sustain himself. He doesn't regret his licentiousness, nor does he care about the weird vision of the world towards him, buying a car, sponsoring children to go to school, etc., and he is a bit shrewd. When I saw him rushing to make the little skirt for his girlfriend all night, I remembered the pair of scissors that I threw on the ground.

In the foundation of a happy life, material things are indispensable, otherwise Mark's ex-wife would not have to travel to New York to study and work and would not be able to accompany his daughters. Mental health and lack of nerves seem to be an important factor. It’s hard to imagine how a big man wearing underwear and a jacket, smoking and playing with the children downstairs, should create a happy environment. Although he was admitted to Harvard, because Personality was kicked out. However, the true temperament is moving and surprising at all times. There are so many difficulties for all beings. If you castrate and polish your own personality, what is left to prove your place in this world?

After all, this is still a family movie. Without the warm vision of the family, Mark would not have walked so steadily on that difficult road. The truth is true, and his family does not unconditionally support him: his parents do not believe that he can bring children or spend money on his granddaughter; the wife is always reluctant to remarry, because she is worried that her condition will return; two daughters (the little girl obviously has him) Inheritance in personality, screaming frequently) The cynicism towards him is deeply affectionate for father and daughter. He is not perfect, but a good man. His family is also good people. Materially and spiritually, I was dissatisfied with him, but they couldn't abandon him. When they encounter difficulties, they still think of the person they can rely on. Seeing the end, the classmates of the eldest girl asked her: Why does your dad always come to see us to play, the eldest girl is no longer ashamed of her father's madness, and replied: Anyway, he has nothing to do all day. The loving father watched his daughters walk into the distance, while the daughters were young and ran in tears. This is the true meaning of a happy life. It depends on income, on a good school, on everyone who looks respectful and respectful, but not as good as the two souls of "sincere" and "kindness". With a soul, bipolar is a polar bear, white and fat, and everyone loves it.

Not sensational, not pretentious, not boastful, a family is like this.

The protagonists are very good, and the songs introduced are great, especially the song "We are here, we are here, we are pirates, we are here", witty and smiling, which reminds me of the "that" in the mouth of the mother At that time, everyone was nervous".

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Infinitely Polar Bear quotes

  • Cam Stuart: Any of you kids have a light?

  • Cam Stuart: There is a semi-private stairwell

    [Maggie bursts out laughing]

    Cam Stuart: in our apartment building. What do you say?

    Maggie Stuart: Oh. My stairwell days are over.

    [Walks away]

    Cam Stuart: You had stairwell days?