Self-persecuted wanderer

Adela 2022-01-17 08:03:29

I watched a movie trilogy recommended by Xiaoqing: Spanish Apartment, Matryoshka, and Chinese Tangram.

Simply put, it describes the love life of the male protagonist at the age of 20, 30, and 40.

The 20-year-old's various hormones and immature madness, in order to satisfy his own desires, can sternly fool the whole world and fool himself, but the ending is often hurting himself and hurting others. Facing love and life at the age of 30, I have the complex of a matryoshka-always thinking that there will be the next one. I always feel that the one in front of me is not perfect, and I always think that I will find the last one. When I reached 40, my life was still full of uncertainties, and I was still trying to separate my life from my only existence. The male protagonist is a writer, and setting such an identity in the movie is a kind of straightforward and easy way. As a viewer, it is easy to find a shortcut to thinking.

Through the veil of love, the film asks the eternal topic: love and relationship.

All the stories that happen in life are because we are in various relationships, and the source of all emotions and emotions generated in relationships is because of love. Deception, anger, sadness, despair... The last outlet can only be resolved by love.

The 20-year-old's ignorance is crazy because of curiosity about love, the 30-year-old's hesitation is the fear of love, and the 40-year-old's anger and helplessness are more responsible for love.

The dependence of love and relationship is the independent personality of each individual. We are all easily deceived, addicted to the pleasures of the flesh, or stubbornly guarding our self-righteous dignity, but we persecute ourselves ignorantly; we fear, because of ignorance, we hide ourselves in a panic, thinking that there is someone more suitable for us. , Maybe it's the ignorance and reverse compensation for his own flaws.

An independent personality does not mean to make oneself perfect, but to accept the imperfect oneself in order to face others calmly. Open yourself up and show your limitations indifferently. The people you get along with can find relief in your openness. Your imperfections may only be self-pity and others don’t care at all. A relationship can be like a mountain spring. It flows like a grunt. As a devout learner, I am trying hard, knowing and truly understanding are definitely two different things.

In "Russian Matryoshka", the words the heroine said to the heroine also mean this: "you are the perfect guy ,you just happen to be the best thing that happens to me in the past 26 years, I know you are not always perfect,I know you have tons of problems,defect and imperfections but who doesn't? it's just that I prefer your problems,I'm inlove with your imperfections,your imperfections are great.i love what is not perfect. "

In "Chinese Tangram", the male protagonist has been writing a book about the complexity of life, which has nothing to do with his personal experience in the movie: a Frenchman, because his wife who had been married for ten years was divorced, his wife brought him When he came to the United States with his children to marry an American man whom he had not known for long, he also went to New York to take care of his two children. But without the right of abode, he eventually married a Chinese woman whom he had known for a while. In addition, he gave birth to a baby for a pair of leisibian friends by donating sperm. He sighed and exclaimed: Life is too complicated, so I want to write a book. And his first love girlfriend played by Audrey Tatu in the film is also his last partner in the film and replied to him: That's because you haven't lived in China. As a Chinese, besides smiling, what I think of is that life itself does not have complicated and uncomplicated problems. It is the flower or the moon outside the mirror, and we are the people who throw stones into the river or into the mirror. What is disturbing is our own mood, the flower is still that flower, and the moon is still that moon.

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  • Alexander 2022-03-16 09:01:07

    The name translation is too bad. The film is much better than expected. Audrey pretends to be a babysitter. The laugh cry is not the kind of nasty comedy or ending is a bit too Hollywood 2014.1.7

  • Gayle 2022-01-17 08:03:29

    Hyper français pas chinois pour un poil, mais excellent!