"The First Experience of Love"-Love Freedom

Myron 2022-01-17 08:02:28

Just like the introduction of the title, the film is not about telling us how a gay man and his lover die in love. There is no tortuous love story, no thrilling, ignorant school romance, full of small freshness, this is a boy in love. Finally, I dared to look directly at myself as gay, and finally told the teachers, students and parents of the school that I was gay. He told about his uneasy mentality, from not believing that I was gay to officially I was gay, and finally took the bravest step, telling my parents what I thought in my heart for so many years. Really had a face-to-face heart-to-heart conversation with my parents.



Steve, the protagonist in the film, was not with John in the end, as you can tell from the conversation between the last two. Although John likes Steve, he still dare not walk with Steve openly, hold hands, chat, and any date with Steve is sneaky, and suddenly feels that John is a badass, and he is still a leader in the high school sports team. As for those who are admired by most of the school, don’t they even have this courage? On the contrary, Steve always considers John in every way. John doesn't want their appointment to be seen by others. He bears it, but why doesn't he even want to say Steve when he says hello? Steve is willing to sneak with him because he loves John and he is willing to protect John in this way. How humble this love is!



What disgusted me the most was that in order to prevent his brother from suspecting that he was gay, John punched and kicked Steve in front of all his brothers and said such shameful words. These actions of John made me feel sick and completely hurt Steve. I really feel that John is like a young child playing stupid and naive games. He thinks his concealment is clever. , In fact, is the lowest level, he is so naive, unlike Steve, Steve silently bears all this because he loves John, in order to protect him! John is too ego, think of him when he needs to be loved, and when he doesn't, he kicks away and pretends to be a stranger, so who can bear it!



Perhaps after experiencing such a love, Steve truly realized that he could not hide his life like this for a lifetime. He must face his future life and explain all this to everyone that he is gay. So, he did it, and he did it right, at least not to let homosexuality become his eternal heart disease, at least after he loves once, he will become more mature. The love he wants is freedom, not being imprisoned. So, in the end Steve said to John: be happy! If you live according to John's love, will you be happy? You can never be yourself, and you will never be happy. On the contrary, you will only make yourself more tired! Overcome more tangled!



I really like the fat girl Linda inside, Steve’s best friend, just like a best friend. She has been protecting Steve, and Steve is also protecting Linda. When I learned that Linda was played by a teacher. Steve gave Linda the comfort and hugs she needed most. This kind of friendship is really sincere~ Friends not only share with you when you are happy, but also share with you when you are sad. A warm word and a solid hug are enough to move you for a long time.



I am still touched by Steve's last words when he confessed to everyone that he was gay, heartfelt truth!


The inner struggle of a homosexual, such pain, who can see it! So sad, who can understand!


"I am honored, I am grateful to have this opportunity to fight for honor for the school, but... I,

I think I am cheating, I... What I wrote, imagined growth, is most of you Human,

but there is still an article, originally included in the school magazine, but later banned, because he is a young

man , he is a...homosexuality This article was written by me, I hope you read it patiently , And then you will understand.



This is hard to say



I don’t want to endure the feeling of being alone, I want my friends to like the real me, I want my family to love the real me, not the person I pretend to be in order to protect their love, I Tired of hiding yourself, tired of sadness and fear, do you understand?


There are some of you who feel this way, like me, afraid to say it...


then...thank you for letting me prove my point of view, I am gay, sorry, mom, dad, but please believe You are not the only parents with gay children, this is just love. What is it that everyone is so afraid of?



I think that if a homosexual can do this, we can't just give him disgust and disgust, we should applaud him, love freedom, no sex! I was also thinking, what are those homophobics afraid of? This is just love!



At the end of the film, Steve got in the car of the fat girl Linda and drove into the distance. The music slowly sounded:



Let your soul be free, to have freedom, I need freedom, go to have it!



The song near the end of the film should represent the voice of our male protagonist!



think about it! think about it! There is nothing you can ask, I can answer you, but I will not answer! I will change, as long as you are not doing this, you better think about what you should do to me. Don't lose your mind, think about what you should do to me!



It's not just a gay movie. I just want to say that there will be a bright day for lost youth. Who didn't grow up like this, all the troubles accompany us to grow up.



To be a digression, I’m still very idiot, the male lead is so handsome, O(∩_∩)O haha~


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  • Jessica: It's not a gay story, it's a pervert story.

    Kevin: What's the difference?

    Wendy: You're not gay and you're a pervert.

  • [while dancing with Linda at the ball, Steven gazes into John Dixon's eyes and gets excited. Linda notices]

    Linda: Now don't you start!

    Steven Carter: I'm sorry, I was thinking of someone else.

    Linda: Charming!