After watching the film, I remembered Jimmy's "Go Left, Go Right". Feelings accumulate with the passage of time in the ordinary life. When condensed to a certain point, the ultimate ordinary has achieved the ultimate greatness, bursting out a fascinating splendor. After reading it, I wanted to write a touching and reminiscence of youthful adolescence. Later, I felt a little bit bloody. Since a friend called me a "great thief", then I will treat the benevolent with the benevolent, and the adulterer will see the fornication once. What's more, love is a war for men. It is a great battle that does not see the blood, but requires all of one's energy to work hard to prove the instinct of a male animal.
In 2007's popular Japanese TV series "Train Man", men with wretched faces, short stature, and ordinary families married women with enchanting, beautiful flowers and rich families. Such a story is worthy of every man's lust. But please don't expect this miracle to hit you on the head. Students, let’s take a look at the explanation of miracles: the occurrence of things is beyond common sense, cannot be reasonably explained from a scientific point of view, and the probability of occurrence is extremely low. understand? Miracles are always hit. As a normal man produced according to normal scientific logic, if you think you can create miracles, you will die miserably. Personally, I admire the theory of love skills very much. I always think that love is also a skill that needs to be improved through repeated training and learning. If there is only feeling but no skills, it will always stop at feeling and it is difficult to improve. So, don't expect miracles, treat every woman you have had a good time with your heart, and add some skills appropriately to make you get along more comfortably. Okay, come here, let's talk about the skills and tactics of picking up girls in this film.
In Kochi, Japan, we met two little buddies, one named Dusaki Taku (belly button drag? The name from Japan), one named Matsuno Toysuki; two young girls, one outstanding and beautiful, named Muto Rikako, A slightly mediocre standard foil is called Yumi Obama.
Du Qi and Matsuno are very good buddies. Both of them belong to the kind of good young people with ideals, culture and integrity. They were not in different classes in junior high school. They met because of an accident. It was also considered congenial, and they were admitted to the same high school. . In terms of appearance, both of them are not ugly. They are a bit handsome. Matsuno wears glasses but Du Qi doesn't. Du Qi's family background is average, and he often goes out to work part-time and works harder. Although the story does not describe Songye's family background, it is estimated that the initial conditions of two people are half a catty for an ordinary family in a small county. Matsuno is better at talking and socializing, and when he sees girls he likes, he will take the initiative and create opportunities to confess. In contrast, Du Qi is a bit bored, he has nothing to say in his heart, and is a bit distinctive of adolescent boys. Girls who like them sometimes have inexplicable irritability and express their likes with dislike.
These two boys chase the most beautiful Rijiazi at the same time. I don’t know how others think about it. Anyway, from my personal experience, it is obvious that the talkative Matsuno has the advantage, while the Mengsao classmate Du Qi is not suspenseful. The complete defeat. However, in this adolescent love scene that we seem to know before, Matsuno did not succeed, but Du Qi was the one who had the last laugh. why? why? ! Was Matsuya willing to give way to friendship, or Du Qi used shameless means to complete the reversal? If you are also a man who is like me and Du Qi, then please keep reading.
Due to the divorce of her parents, Rikako transferred from Tokyo to Kochi, and then transferred to Dusaki's class. Please note here: the growth background has a great influence on the development of a person's character. Let's make the following analysis based on the existing conditions:
1. Rigako's family is in Tokyo. As usual, her family is better than the average family living in Kochi, a small town;
2. Because her parents are divorced, she has to follow her mother. Transferring to Kochi shows that her mother has no ability to independently support life in Tokyo, and her family's living standards have declined;
3. From the bustling Tokyo to Kochi, Rigako has a huge psychological gap. Rijiazi, who is accustomed to peer comparisons, also has the vanity brought by Tokyo. She is mentally branded with regional discrimination. She feels that she comes from a big city and discriminates against people from small places. This makes her always look very good. Aloof
4. The divorce of parents will make the children feel that my home is different from others' homes, and that I and other children are different. This will to a large extent make the children form a lonely character, and in the eyes of peers Rigazi’s Tokyo identity greatly conceals her parents’ divorced family background, and her isolation has become a pride;
5. Rigazi is a very outstanding beauty, with excellent sports and homework.
In the eyes of your peers, you are such a long, beautiful, well-headed, athletic, well-fed, and beautiful from Tokyo. You are good enough and prominent enough to attract the jealousy of girls. You are so uncomfortable. Don't you just look down on people, don't you isolate who you isolate? !
Well, now our two brothers Du Qi and Matsuno are facing such a girl who is very beautiful, has good homework, exercises very well, is a little vain, and a little withdrawn, and is isolated by her classmates. It was our glasses brother Matsuno who discovered her first. He couldn’t wait to inform his good buddy Du Qi as soon as he discovered her. It can be said that a girl with a fashionable atmosphere in a big city and a pretty good-looking girl herself is The masters will be tempted to see it. Of course Du Qi was also tempted, but he didn't say anything in the sorrowful mood, but Matsuno was very excited to tell him there, and then Matsuno created the opportunity to get acquainted with Rigako. Matsuno's first step was very quick, without hesitation. In comparison, when Matsuno was already able to chat with Rikako, Du Qi and this beauty did not have any intersection.
However, the opportunity is coming soon. Rijiazi wanted to go to Tokyo to see her father, but she was not entangled, and she couldn't ask for money from her mother, who was supporting the family business alone. At this time, she found Du Qi. Now, we have discovered Du Qi’s first advantage: making money. The importance of money to men is self-evident, this is a condition that can directly quantify the success of men. Matsuno may have some pocket money accumulated, but it is certainly not as abundant as Du Qi, who has been working diligently since junior high school, and Matsuno's defeat was first revealed at this step: he made Rigako become curious about Du Qi.
Please remember this sentence: People are very curious animals, especially women. When most men are chasing girls, they struggle to talk to girls without topics, and they talk about their friends. They talk more about friends than themselves. Usually, it’s okay. Once they talk about some different men, girls You will start to have an unstoppable curiosity about this special man, and you can hardly avoid one day letting your woman meet the buddy you talked about. The question is: if this man is as special as what you are telling, or better than What you talk about is better and more beautiful than the forest. It is hard to guarantee that your love does not follow the natural law of survival of the fittest at this time. Are there few cases where you see the hero’s girlfriend cheating on his best buddies every day on TV? Li Ning said: I can't prepare anything. Murphy's theorem says: everything that can happen will happen. So, if you want to avoid similar things, please observe the following two points: 1. Try to avoid talking about your buddies with your girlfriend or the girl you are chasing. 2. Similarly, try to avoid talking to your buddies about your girlfriend or the girl you are chasing. This principle is also suitable for girls. If you don’t have a topic, read more books, go for a walk more, enrich your brain, let it fill up as quickly as your pocket, get to know each other, and use your emotions to infect each other.
In this way, Rijiazi found Du Qi with her strong curiosity and clear purpose. I think Du Qi knew that Rikako had an extraordinary understanding of him, but he was quite refreshed, although he also pretended to complain about Matsuno and Rikako about his situation. In the process of borrowing money from Li Jiazi, Du Qi showed vigilance and calculation beyond his peers. This is also inseparable from his experience of working outside and contacting the society all the year round. He knows the importance of not revealing money and keeping his bottom line. , Was not dazzled by the beauty, which also paved the way for him and Li Jiazi to visit relatives in Tokyo together. At this time, we see Du Qi's second advantage: rationality.
In the second round of the match, Matsuno once again showed the innocence of the adolescent boy. After learning that Rigako borrowed money from Du Qi, he couldn't wait to find Rigako and asked for money to Rigako. He did not expect: 1. Li Jiazi and his relationship are far closer than Du Qi, why Li Jiazi went to Du Qi to borrow money, obviously Li Jiazi did not want to let acquaintances know about this. 2. Borrowing money is not a glorious thing in itself. If you ask her with fanfare about such an embarrassing thing, it is tantamount to slapping this good-faced, vanity-loving girl with a loud slap in the face, Li Jiazi It's strange if you don't be ashamed or furious.
This denunciation directly caused Matsuno to lose the opportunity to go to Tokyo with Rikako, because he failed to lend money to Rikako. After being forced by Rikako as a companion, Obama was at a loss and only thought of calling the debtor, Du Qi. Du Qi's first reaction after learning the details was: If she never goes away What to do back? That is my money! He took a taxi to the airport instead of Obama and became Rigako's male companion on Tokyo trip. I think his main purpose is to accompany Rigako home, find her father, and get his money back.
The trip to Tokyo was a huge turning point in this emotional drama. This visit made Li Jiazi realize that she had been ruthlessly abandoned by the former life circle: the original house at home was renovated, and his father found a new wife... Li Jiazi tried to find the lost family visit journey. It became a nightmare, she didn't live at home, and ran to the hotel room her father opened for Du Qi, and got herself drunk. Now our little friend Mengsao Du Qi is in this situation: a little beauty whom she likes is drunk, she is homeless, but the hotel room her father opened has only one bed. If it were you, what would you do? At this time, Du Qi looked like a young boy who was in love in adolescence. She covered her with a quilt and went to the bathroom bathtub to sleep for one night. This is something that many men cannot do: how to respect women and preserve their dignity.
It's not that I don't understand, this era is changing fast. Now many little girls start promiscuity when they are younger than Li Jiazi. While indulging their bodies, they also amplify men's desires infinitely. They let men discover that this is also possible! So that's all right! Turns out it's okay! Since there is nothing wrong with you women, in this instinctive exercise that is not for creating humans but only for physical pleasure, for men, apart from venereal diseases, there are no negative effects, so why not do it? Anyway, you women don't care anymore, why do we men pretend to be tight? Perhaps this attitude pushes women to the responsible party, but is this not the opinion of most Chinese men now? Here I will not go back to the source, to explore the origin of sexual openness, men and women who should bear this responsibility, I just want to say: men, don’t treat your women as the few who are leading the trend. If you love her, you must Learn to respect her, keep a bottom line for her and for yourself, let love at least have a pure land that can be remembered, and let yourself be proud of having done it once when you are old (I think Liu Xiahui strongly seduce a beautiful woman) Under the premise of being able to be indifferent, he is impotent and GAY). If the person you meet is inhuman, then take it easy, anyway, it's not you, there will be others. People who respect self-respect are always respected.
The next day, Du Qi was awakened by Li Jiazi's eager knock on the door. I think Li Jiazi's heart was a little touched at this time, but he was not determined enough because her boyfriend was here. But Rigazi’s family visit was destined to be a heavy hammer to smash her dreams. Du Qi was called to the hotel downstairs by Rigazi’s distress call. It turned out that Rigazi’s boyfriend has now been promoted. The word "before". The ex-boyfriend got in touch with her best girlfriend within a few months of her absence, and the few months of life in the small town made her incompatible with her original life circle. There are no more common topics and no conditions for comparison. , Tosaki's denunciation made Rigako more sober about his current embarrassment that was different from the past. The trip to Tokyo became a failure in the life of the excellent Rigako for more than ten years.
After returning to Kochi, Rikako and Tosaki encountered a scandal. The fact that the two stayed together in a hotel room for one night spread throughout the classes. Du Qi was strangely walking outside of the scandal, ignorant of his involvement in the scandal, but Rigako, who knew it, did not move. I think Du Qi’s ignorance is because most of such scandals are circulated among girls, and Mensao Du Qi and girls have almost no intersection. It should be reasonable to not know; but Rigako knew but was not moved. Maybe the reason. There are two: The first is because the scandal is untrue. At the same time, she has been isolated for a long time by almost all girls except Obama. The rumors about her may have been various and colorful, and she may not be able to talk to him because of her personality. , Not to mention other people, and her loneliness made her develop the habit of hiding in a corner and licking her wounds alone, but still pretending to be indifferent in front of others. The second reason may be that one night in Tokyo allowed her to leave a warm place for Du Qi in the increasingly blocked heart. There are the purest feelings about youth, so that she can hide in this corner from time to time to warm her already cold heart. Until one day this feeling of being tiny but never losing its temperature melted her heart.
Matsuno, the handsome boy with glasses, is not as hindsight as Du Qi. I also said earlier that he is more sociable than Du Qi and prefers to take the initiative. He should have learned of the scandal from the mouth of a girl. This incident shocked him. , Makes him angry: Du Qi has known that he likes Li Jiazi, but he did this kind of thing with Li Jiazi? ! Du Qi betrayed him! He desperately needed to verify. He did not want to go to Du Qi who had betrayed him. He believed that the relationship between Yi Li Jia Zi and him would tell him the truth, but he was met by Li Jia Zi’s bottoming out against the scandal. "What does this have to do with you?" One sentence threw Matsuno directly into the Arctic Ocean. When he was forced to confess at this time, it can be imagined that he will only get a bunch of red crosses, and Rigaze has tolerated the girls for a long time. Verbal attacks and all kinds of humiliation are not white, and now I finally found a channel to vent. Hearing these words into Matsuno's ears, Matsuno thought: It's over, and Du Qi has taken the lead. The glasses brother Matsuno has been trying to please Rigako, this somewhat lonely beauty, but several completely untimely practices have caused him to drift away from this beauty. On the contrary, Du Qi, who has been doing nothing, can come from behind, which makes people have to sigh with regret. .
Matsuno lost his courtship and talked to Du Qi about the scandal and what Rikako said to him. Du Qi, who was in adolescence and the number one brother's loyalty, could not contain his anger, and rushed to the class to find Rikako. When she came out, she reprimanded Li Jiazi loudly. Li Jiazi went home like a young wife who was irritated outside but did not get the understanding her husband should have. When she was angry, she waved Du Qi and slapped Du Qi. Du Qi also subconsciously Hit her back. This quarrel seemed fierce, but in fact it settled the relationship between Du Qi and Rikazi.
The last time the two met was during the preparations before the graduation ceremony of the high school. The girls in the class couldn't be angry with Rikazi's incompatibility and forced her to participate in the graduation club activities. Du Qi overheard the quarrel. After the quarrel was over, Du Qi pretended to take out the trash without incident. Li Jiazi saw him asking him if he had heard anything. Meng Sao Du Qi’s adolescent love symptom appeared undoubtedly at this time, and he answered Li Jiazi with a ridiculous tone. Li Jiazi's heart is too sad: I was bullied by a group of girls, and you don't need to come out to help me out, and now you come to tease me? ! She slapped him angrily, ran away crying, and then Matsuno heard the sound and rushed over, learning of the situation, and gave Du Qi a punch: Such a good girl, I have been chasing him for so long and haven't gotten it, you Don't cherish it when the kid gets it! Damn it! At this point, the relationship between men and women in this story has all been clarified.
Du Qi returned to Kochi to participate in the high school classmate meeting, which showed us that every stupid young man with a passionate puberty once had a crush on a girl so devoutly. At the end of the film, the reunion of Du Qi and Rigako at the subway station is even more embarrassing for the perishable youth feelings. If you do not grasp it in time, you will eventually leave a lifelong regret. Perhaps, the person who just passed you in the hurried city is the one you never forget to sleep in the bathtub.
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