The communication of maternal love-spirit

Collin 2022-01-16 08:02:34

This video was introduced by our English teacher. We watched it a little bit every time in class. It took five or six times to finish it. It was all in English at that time, and it was watched at intervals, so it seemed to understand but not understand. Later, I downloaded it and read it again, and my heart was extremely full, and I was eager to express something.
The tone of this movie is too sad, and tears burst into my eyes while sitting in front of the computer.
What happened to the mothers gave the daughters a spirit: Lina have no spirit, because I have none to give her.
You know what you want? with both hands open, .it is you will be found and cherished.
This section is me I was extremely impressed. The mother's experiences and thoughts affected her daughter. Eventually, the mother realized the problem and gave her daughter an inspiration.

This makes me involuntarily think of my mother. I think my current personality is to a large extent a kind of spirit given to me by my mother. To be honest, I used to love my father more than my mother. Because my father never blamed me, he was always kind and didn't have high demands on me. However, the mother is not.
I still remember that when I was young, I was stupid and playful than kids of the same age. My mother slapped my palm with thin bamboo chopsticks. I hated her very much. I always ran away after she beat or scolded her. At the alley in front of the house, he cried and called for the return of his father, who was running and working.
Later, when I went to elementary school or junior high school, almost every time I had a bad exam, I would worry about the scolding eyes of my mother, and I would be terrified. Children love to run out to play, do not like to study, and do not like to do housework. Seeing other classmates ran out to play while I had to wash the clothes myself but had to take care of my younger sister, I couldn't help feeling resentful towards my mother.
Moreover, for many small things, my mother is also very demanding of me. For example, after washing the hair, put the bottles and jars in place; wash the used washbasin with clean water and put them away; straighten the clothes when drying the clothes; hang them upright after washing the dishes. To clean the cutting board and kitchen knife, the table top must be tidy and so on. At that time, I always thought it was enough to finish it. But my mother always said that: learn how to do things, not just do things.
I think this is the spirit my mother conveyed to me: take everything seriously and try to be perfect in everything.

As I grew up, I began to understand my mother. For the sufferings she had suffered, every time she heard her words, there was always a kind of sadness that came to my heart. My mother is the eldest of the family. She has two younger brothers and a younger sister. My grandfather passed away very early. The children from poor families took charge early. Although I know this is difficult, what she tells about is something I can never imagine and experience. . My mother's life was bumpy, and I think if those things were put on me, I would not be able to bear it.
Two years ago, my mother became obsessed with Korean drama Dae Jang Geum, and she was still bewildering how she was so obsessed with soap operas. Later, she told me: She likes watching this TV series because she feels that she is the Jang Geum in the drama. During her life, she encountered all the difficulties, hardships, misunderstandings, sufferings, setbacks, disappointments and even despair, but in her heart There is always hope. I always feel that there is no hurdle in my life. As a result, many things passed and resolved just like that.
I think this is what my mother has conveyed to me: no matter what kind of hardships and difficulties there are in life, as long as you are optimistic, as long as you have the hard work in your heart, you can always go through.

Now that I have grown up, I understand my mother and start to feel sorry for her. But after all, I still study abroad alone, and can't listen to her nagging to do a little bit of filial piety for her mother, but I have already remembered every bit in my heart. When my daughter settles down in economic independence, I will continue my daughter's gratitude.

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  • Michael 2022-03-24 09:03:20

    Exorbitant, first of all, this film does not have any structure, it is that everyone's perspective flashes back and cuts (accompanied by various narrations), which is a failure, because it is unable to integrate the expression into a story through details; secondly, the director's vision of China in the old society It is taken for granted, knowing what he is going to say, there is really no need to touch things beyond personal experience and lack of in-depth understanding; in the end, even Chinese lines in Mandarin are super plastic.

  • Lee 2022-03-28 09:01:11

    It feels very contrived and twisted. Watching these Chinese people speak English with a straight face is really alienating. The conflict between Chinese family ethics and Western freedom and independence, coupled with the legend of the author's grandma's young grandmother, completes the lyrical feminist epic to complete the identity positioning puzzle of Chinese women who have been struggling for many years. Simply put, it's rude.

The Joy Luck Club quotes

  • June's Father: She thought: better not die next to my babies. Nobody saves babies with such bad luck. Who wants two babies with ghost mother following them? Very bad luck, very.

  • Jing-Mei 'June' Woo: [opening naration] The old woman remembered a swan she had bought many years ago in Shanghai for a foolish sum. "This bird", boasted the market vendor, "was once a duck that stretched its neck in hopes of becoming a goose. And now look, it is too beautiful to eat!" Then the woman and the swan sailed across an ocean many thousands of lei wide, stretching their necks toward America. On her journey, she cooed to the swan, "In America, I will have a daughter just like me. But over there, nobody will say her worth is measured by the loudness of her husbands belch. Over there, nobody will look down on her because I will make her speak only perfect American English. And over there, she will always be too full to swallow any sorrow. She will know my meaning because I will give her this swan, a creature that became more than what was hoped for." But when she arrived in the new country the immigration officials pulled the swan away from her, leaving the woman fluttering her arms and with only one swan feather for a memory. For a long time now, the women had wanted to give her daughter the single swan feather and tell her; "This feather may look worthless, but it comes from afar and carries with it all my good intentions."