It has been four days since I watched the film, and I watched it over and over again, but I still couldn't get out of the story. While being moved by the story, start thinking. Is it really because of social moral education, system norms, and division of functions that determine the status quo of men and women?
The female director of the film is very delicate and progressive in the design of the story line, and the design of the process from the acquaintance to the love between the male and female protagonists is very reasonable. On the one hand, from the beginning of the heroine's curiosity and use of the hero to the end, the heroine really fell in love with the hero, mainly through her three meetings with the publisher. At the beginning, she wanted to trick the hero into falling in love with her as a writing In the end, I really fell in love with the hero and decided to give up this book. There were a lot of inner struggles.
On the other hand, the depiction of the hero Damian’s heart journey is more complicated and delicate, and it is also a touching place. The male protagonist is a successful person in mainstream society. Tall, handsome, successful in career, trusted by the boss, countless women. Suddenly entering a female-dominated society, he initially refused to accept and resisted. But all failed. The psychiatrist told him that if he insisted that he came from another world, he would be sent to a lunatic asylum, failing one. In the workplace, his own design was denied, and he was dismissed when he was harassed by a female boss and failed to resist. Second, he failed. Baba was rejected for finding a woman because of her hairiness, and failed three times. He began to compromise in desperation. The experience of his parents, girlfriends, and godson affected his thinking and judgment to varying degrees. Knowing that the heroine was a scumbag, he still couldn't let go of her, and gave up his self-esteem time and time again. She took the initiative to court. Until finally the truth came to light completely collapsed. One detail to pay attention to is that when the male protagonist Damian is watching a love movie at home, and seeing the female protagonist in the film tell the boy that he loves him, tenderly loves him, and loves him hopelessly, Damian Moved to tears. Doesn't it look like we little girls look at love stories. At this time, Damian has been completely transformed by the social ethics of this new world, and the final outcome is inevitable.
I really admire the patience and delicacy of the female director of the film. She really did speak every detail and picture. The devil is in the details. From this, we can see that, in fact, the society we live in today has always been systematically suppressing women from pursuing their careers and ideals, and women have far more difficulties to face successfully than men.
Can anyone tell you today that the division of labor in society determines the gender difference between men and women? Or does the gender difference between men and women determine the division of labor in society?
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